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RE: SEX - 10/5/2007 10:26:51 PM   
KnightofMists


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Status: offline 		GOD.. I love it when women talk about sex and what they love doing etc etc etc...


So guys... SHUT THE FUCK UP.!!!!


Ladies the floor is yours   *G*  talk it up *G*

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RE: SEX - 10/5/2007 11:22:58 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		i wonder how they test those sex machines like sybine lol

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RE: SEX - 10/6/2007 4:57:49 AM   
kirii


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I love sex; but I never mix it up with BDSM. BDSM is not sexual for me; and none of my intimate sexual relationships have ever been with a partner who was even interested in BDSM. Personally, I prefer to keep it that way.

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RE: SEX - 10/6/2007 5:11:51 AM   
hejira92


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From: Palm Beach County, Fl
Status: offline 		I have an extremely high sex drive- to the point that past boyfriends and my ex-husband made me self-conscious and that there was something wrong with me. Master has worked extensively on this issue with me . Although He does admit that my libido is stronger than His- He likes it that way because He is in control of my body all the time. Just a word, look or touch has me melting.
 
As for having sex with Master- it doesn't matter what it looks like, it is ALL D/s. Even when I am on top, have permission to cum at will and am flailing around like a banshee- He is in control. Even when I am seated between His legs, His cock in my hands, stroking Him to ecstasy- He is in control. Even when He makes love to me tenderly and tells me He loves me- He is in control. And even when He uses me hard, pushes me to the floor and uses my prostrate body for a cum target, He is in control.
 
And those are just examples of times without "toys", "bells" and "whistles".
 
As Master says often- it's all good.

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RE: SEX - 10/6/2007 9:41:12 AM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		HEH... LOL I would bet that most of us would have one in our homes if they weren't so darned expensive!
We would be lucky to get online.  Heck.. we would be lucky to be able to walk to the shower without collapsing from jelly legs..
Kyst
quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

i wonder how they test those sex machines like sybine lol


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RE: SEX - 10/6/2007 9:52:04 AM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		There is no pleasure on earth as good as a screaming orgasm from earth shattering sex...with me, I don't really separate sex from BDSM, even if I am in a love relationship; since BDSM is all sexual for me.

I find as I get older that I would rather be alone than have bad or mediocre sex; since I have experienced ecstasy in my sexual life, I really cannot see accepting less, so I will wait until it comes around again.

I know some say any sex is good, but for me it has to be really, really intense.

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RE: SEX - 10/6/2007 8:04:44 PM   
Cuffkinks


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HotFaerieMama

i love sex.. does having sex with most of a football team count??


That depends...All at once or individually?

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RE: SEX - 10/6/2007 11:36:50 PM   
Dollbecky


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Joined: 10/22/2005
Status: offline 		Hmmm I love sex it is the most important ritual I have in my life ..kinky or not; for me its all about getting that  feedback loop of desire going with my partner du jour.
I must say in the last 6 or 7 years I have been blessed with the most amazing lovers some of whom have taken me to the deepest darkest pits of desire *happy sigh*

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RE: SEX - 10/6/2007 11:38:43 PM   
HotFaerieMama


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Cuffkinks

quote:

ORIGINAL: HotFaerieMama

i love sex.. does having sex with most of a football team count??


That depends...All at once or individually?



um... it was individually...

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RE: SEX - 10/7/2007 4:30:00 PM   
unforegvn


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Sex... I like mine fast, hard, slowly teasing with extended foreplay and lasting for hours - including mulitple intense mind-blowing orgasms, collapsing from exhaustion in a pool of sweat.  Two bodies entangled together with one common goal ORGASMS... Regular sex boring, NEVER... I would kick him out of my bed if it was boring I give very good directions... 

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RE: SEX - 10/7/2007 4:55:35 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I love sex.  With or without BDSM sex is incredible.  Hours on end of being impaled on a dick, on, off, on, twisted, pulled,.. until the bed is wet from the sweat of two bodies and you have to change the sheets before going to sleep..
yumm..
How do you like yours?  Do you find regular sexual play boring?  Or do you need the bdsm activity to find satisfaction? 
Kyst


I never find sex boring.  Ok, almost never. I can't imagine going a YEAR without.  Then again, maybe after a year I wouldn't care since I seem to be someone who the more I get the more I want.  Going without for long periods makes me LESS interested in it than desperate for it.   I just wouldn't WANT to do that, if it can at all be avoided.

My current 'friend with benefits' was the guy I lived with for 2 years.  During that time we had sex pretty much every day.  When I worked from home, he'd even come home for lunch almost daily so we could get in a quicky.  He is vanilla, but was open minded enough to indulge me frequently by being willing to experiment.  He never said I was his best, but he said I was the most fun .  I take that as a compliment.

Anyway, all this talk of sex is reminding me it has been a week and I need to make a phone call. 

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RE: SEX - 10/7/2007 11:59:18 PM   
Masochist444


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Status: offline 		I will be the one who says that I find sex boring.  The usual, vanilla stuff just does not do it for me.  I like the pain so much more than sex.  I usually tell people that if you ask someone what they want, pain/play or sex, out of 100 times most people will have some answer that comes to 50/50  or  60/40  or 30/70.  For me its 100 for the pain and 0 for the sex.  However, if you add force to the sex, then its so much better.  But that is extreme, really more like edge play sex than vanilla, rub that clit stimulation.  Besides, I can cum from pain, so what would I need vanilla type sex for?

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RE: SEX - 10/8/2007 5:50:50 AM   
Jacobthm


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Status: offline 		Vanilla sex is basically just a step above masturbation for me. Yes it's better if you actually care about the other person but, meh. It always has and probably always will be about control in my case. The dominance I have over whomever I'm playing with the better. Add some pain into the mix and I'm a happy camper.

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RE: SEX - 10/8/2007 6:06:01 AM   
biracalsub4wmDom


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Joined: 7/26/2007
From: Illinois
Status: offline 		I LOVE SEX....if I have a genuine connection with the man I'm having sex with....preferably IN LOVE with that man.  Casual sex does nothing for me.  I don't do casual. 
I love really really rough, humilliating sex, and I love passionate, gentile, romantic sex.  Both are equally beautiful & delicious to me when experienced with the One my heart desires.   


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RE: SEX - 10/8/2007 6:25:41 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		Sex without control is...well....a bit boring to me.....

Most of the "outside of the marriage" playing my Sir and I do is basic plain old vanilla sex....and while it is still possible for me to have an orgasm, it just isnt very...fufilling. A few months ago we met a new couple and had begun hanging out and going to dinner and clubs almost once a week for a while. A really great couple whos company we really enjoyed. When we did end up playing sexually for the first time, the male of that couple knew we were into BDSM, and even though they werent, he decided it would be fun to spank me. I realized that it truly did nothing for me. nothing...at all. It wasnt that he wasnt spanking hard, he was, it just, well...there was no power dynamic connection between me and him and well, I dont know, it was weird. After talking about it with my Sir for a while after the couple had left, I think for me, there really has to be that control aspect. Not so much just pain, although pain can be wonderful...I can orgasm just from pain when my Sir is the one causing it....but control, the mental aspects of it is what really does it for me.

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Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as far as meaningless experiences go its pretty damn good.
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