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I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thier lot - 9/29/2007 4:27:32 PM

michelleryder

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Every day when I log onto collarme I read endless stories of fake Doms or Dommes people who claimed to be something they aren't etc. Well I met master over 3 years ago in yahoo chat . For months we talked as friends. I moaned about my Dom to him he maoned about his sub to me. Eventually we agreed meet for a drink and a chat. The rest is history. He makes me 100%happy and complete and I move to be with him 24/ in about a week Am i the only happy slave?I doubt it. Please confirm I'm wrong.

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 4:29:20 PM

BitaTruble

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Consider it so confirmed. You're not the only happy slave and since ownedgirlie is on vacation, I'll go ahead and speak for her.. she's happy, too.

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 4:29:58 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: michelleryder

Every day when I log onto collarme I read endless stories of fake Doms or Dommes people who claimed to be something they aren't etc. Well I met master over 3 years ago in yahoo chat . For months we talked as friends. I moaned about my Dom to him he maoned about his sub to me. Eventually we agreed meet for a drink and a chat. The rest is history. He makes me 100%happy and complete and I move to be with him 24/ in about a week Am i the only happy slave?I doubt it. Please confirm I'm wrong.

I envey you...and I wish you and your master the best as y'all prepare to move in together

< Message edited by breatheasone -- 9/29/2007 4:37:24 PM >

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 4:41:55 PM

adoracat

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you arent the only one happy....Sir and i just celebrated 6 months since he accepted me as his. i wish we lived closer together, much less got to have 24/7.....right now i'm happy if i get to see him twice a month. :)

kitten, who is on the whole very happy

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 4:46:30 PM

honestsub4real

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To the OP, you may very well be, but consider yourself lucky and enjoy! I have been here a very long time and if you have that, glow!

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 4:50:14 PM

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I'm not unhappy when I'm not with someone, but a sincere congrats to you. I have found people on this and similar sites that were very worthwhile honest, caring individuals both as friends and partners, but I do understand the amount of those that are not outweighs them considerably and it gets frustrating.
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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 4:53:59 PM

completenz

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you are not alone. Since we found each other C and i have known happiness neither of us have ever known before.
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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 4:57:16 PM

Mstry

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W/we are happy!!!!

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 5:04:06 PM

SayaNereida

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I confirm you are wrong. I'm very happy.

I think that it might be the reason that most of the post seem bad (unhappy) is that many (at least I know me) feel kind of odd just posting something like, 'I'm so happy today because...'.

Personally, I could write a few posts about how happy I've been the last few months and about working on my relationship from a completely new dynamic, but honestly who would want to hear it?

Saya

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 5:04:45 PM

Littlepita

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Since meeting my Sir back in April of 2005 online and moving in with him, March 2006, I can with all honesty say that I have never been so happy, nor did I even believe this kind of happiness really existed. I am completely owned, loved, and content.

Congrats on your soon to be 24/7.

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 5:08:06 PM

SeeksOnlyOne

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heck, im happy with my lot.....i have a great kid, a job i love, and a home to come to......anything else i happen to find will be gravy

edited cause someone stole my y

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 5:26:00 PM

thetammyjo

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I think that happiness is never 100% and neither is unhappiness. A happy life is one where the positives are greater than the negatives.

Right now, I'm not a very happy person. Nasty lung infection I got 6 years ago at another super high level stress period of my life has happened again - -got on the meds early this time so we'll see what happens. On top of the the cold that gave it the open door to me has made both the husband and the slave ill though not like me (dear Divine, I pray not like me).

Today after 10 days of me being practically useless we had to do some things. And as we all struggled with feeling like crap and me feeling like I was coughing up my lungs from time to time, I looked around and smiled.

This is my family and I'm damned happy for it even if other things in life are trying to grind us down right now. (not just illness but lots of stress about defense and job hunts, and an unstable situation in other jobs)

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 5:36:43 PM

spanklette

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I'm happy...I'm ecstatic. We've been together for what seems like forever and then the next moment seems like a few days...it feels like a whirlwind...a 2 year whirlwind. We live together, eat together, fight together, and watch football together...sometimes we even have time to go out on a date. Life is good...even when life sucks, life is good.

And, I doubt people post gobs and gobs of wonderful happiness...mostly, we see people who need advice, so the boards can make things seem a bit skewed. But, sometimes if you look at the responders instead of the OP, you'll see the happiness in their posts. Then again, I'm a glass half full kind of person.

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 5:45:02 PM

DiurnalVampire

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Angel is very happy, so he keeps telling me. We just had our 1 year anniversary a few weeks ago, and we are looking forward to many more. We are still at the point in the relationshp where we can have a play date one weekend and spend 4 hours walking around discussing everything from sexuality to the Churche's role in helping homelessness to what ice cream sandwiches we should get when we finally make it to the store.

Best of luck on your move :)

DV

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 6:17:59 PM

Daddyskittin

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We've been happy for 6 years together... and everyday it just keeps getting better... and better... and better.

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 6:27:17 PM

ownedgirlie

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Consider it so confirmed. You're not the only happy slave and since ownedgirlie is on vacation, I'll go ahead and speak for her.. she's happy, too.

Celeste

Hi from Maine!!

And yes, I'm happy happy! Finally got a decent internet connection around here, lol. And last night he & I fell asleep on the phone together, how sappy is that?! Woke up to a dead cell battery...

Edited to add - - It took a lot of work to get to this happiness. Things happened with my ex that put me through hell. And while they are still happening, I've managed to discover some amazing things and have risen above it. And I learned you can be happy despite the hell.

< Message edited by ownedgirlie -- 9/29/2007 6:33:21 PM >

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 6:41:12 PM

slaveluci

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As all the others have said, I am very happy. I have never been happier or more safe, secure, and content in my life. It is amazing to me how much Master and I have in common and how bonded and close we have grown in under two years. I have never had a better lover, confidante, and friend. This man knows things about me (not just sexually) that no one else on earth knows and He loves me "warts and all." Nothing I have ever said or done has made Him look down on me or think less of me. Now THAT'S the basis of a relationship that's worth having, in my humble opinion. He knows me better than anyone. We have talked, cried, and laughed together and, even sometimes when things are tough in life, just being together and having each other to lean on makes it all OK. That laughing together part, by the way, is one of the keys to our happiness. We laugh over something every single day.

Michelle, I know what you're saying about sometimes seeing only negative, negative, and more negative in the forums. I agree with what one of the other posters said about the happy ones just not posting as much so it appears skewed. People do, as they said, tend to bring problems here for advice. I personally would never post a problem on the boards because I'm simply not interested in the probability that my serious issue would be made fun of or mocked. If "outside" advice were to be sought, it would be via email to one of the ones here whom I admire. I think many do this as well. Lots of relationships are formed and much of the communication is done outside the boards. That's where most of the oooey, gooey, oh-so-happy stories are told, I'm sure

. Isn't it wonderful to wake up everyday grateful for all you have with your One?

Congrats to all you hap, hap, happy subs and slaves!!!!!

luci

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 7:35:50 PM

Pyrrsefanie

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All my life I dreamed of meeting someone who would love me for who I am and make me feel complete. My Master does that, and so much more. There are so many qualities to him that I never thought I would find in another person, even some that I didn't even know I craved so desparately. The Master I had before him told me that there was no such thing as unconditional love... but then I found DocRudy, and he proved otherwise to me.

We've had our rough times, we've been miffed at each other... but we've come through it. Even the circumstances we're battling right now seem like nothing, especially when we think of the end result. On December 31st we will have been together for two years. By our third year we will be not only Master and slave, but husband and wife.

Cheers to all of us happy people!

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 8:26:57 PM

MzMia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SeeksOnlyOne

heck, im happy with my lot.....i have a great kid, a job i love, and a home to come to......anything else i happen to find will be gravy

edited cause someone stole my y

Glad to see someone single posted before me.

I am very happy with my lot/ and my life.
I have a wonderful family, friends and job.
This is the best job situation I have ever had in my life,
I am counting it all joy and I am thankful.
My life is wonderful and I am Blessed.

< Message edited by MzMia -- 9/29/2007 8:33:00 PM >

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RE: I know i can't be the only one whos happy with thie... - 9/29/2007 9:02:17 PM

sweetnurseBBW

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No you are not the only happy one. I am a happy slave also.

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