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RE: Has my submissivness turned into addiction? - 9/25/2007 5:38:42 AM

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Short answer - Yes ! and Take a Holiday, this can be anything from a trip to X to setting yourself some task to distract you from your quest. Hopefully you will respond to the break and look at things afresh.

Be more positive, no one wants a loser.

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RE: Has my submissivness turned into addiction? - 9/25/2007 6:19:54 AM

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Dearest Chelle, thank you for your imput I am a recovering alcholic myself been sober since 96 I have tried very hard to surpress my submissive feelings before and it did not work it only made them grow stronger I dont think it is the internet that is my addiction sorry to disagree but it is hte feeling of being in someones service that I miss and desire so much and dont feel complete unless this is in my life thank you for your thoughts though and I do appreciate it

Of course you find it addicting! That's normal, normal, normal.

I privated you on the other side.

Positive action..;
Every negative thought is an opportunity to 'flip it'.
Example:
"I feel so overwhelmed...I will never be good enough to deserve this."
Flip to:
"This is a golden opportunity for me to step back, and think about what is good in me, to deserve this" "I am caring, thoughtful, open to growth, inspirational, etc"

I always feel better in the morning. I do this every night when I am going to sleep. I let my mind float, and whatever pops up, I 'flip' it to a positive.

Every negative thought can be flipped...EVERY one. Your thoughts fuel your emotions, and your emotions fuel your REactions. Positive thought fuels positive emotions, which fuels positive ACTION.

Hope that helps,

Miss Irish

Edited to say *PS: Hop on a plane! Get out here and serve! lol

< Message edited by YesMistressIrish -- 9/25/2007 6:22:14 AM >

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RE: Has my submissivness turned into addiction? - 9/25/2007 6:51:23 AM

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Someone once said, that in America, we are dealing with a "starvation economy" when it comes to emotional support. That is, we constantly deal with a situation of wanting, but not getting the things we really need to survive. America is great at providing material things: homes, cars, jobs, food, TV's cellphones... But it really sucks when it comes to providing love and sex, or even a feeling of family, or extended family. We have a hard time finding and maintaining real life relationships. We either end up moving because of work, or a shift change, or some other barrier is thrown up in our way to emotional happiness.

Your "addiction" is little more than you desiring someone in your life. Once you do find someone to relate to, a good deal of this frenzied obsession will fade away. You're quite normal. Relax!

And a bit of advice: After changing your screen name to something that doesn't sound like you're already taken, I strongly suggest you structure your search for a partner. Set certain hours of the day, or certain days of the week for checking your accounts. Find the real time support groups in your area and get out and meet people face to face. This online crap is for the birds.

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RE: Has my submissivness turned into addiction? - 9/25/2007 1:57:03 PM

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you might as well face it your addicted to subs or was that to love how ever that robert palmer song goes lol

I'm addicted to subs. Quizno's is AMAZING, I could eat there every day for the rest of my life.

Mmm... subs...

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RE: Has my submissivness turned into addiction? - 1/14/2009 3:57:09 PM

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LMAO... this boy is owned and and wears Lady Sandys TATOO, while shes away he surfs the internet meeting Other Dominants and has more collars than I have shoes in My closet... I know this boy r/l and wish I had found this thread sooner

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RE: Has my submissivness turned into addiction? - 1/14/2009 4:06:24 PM

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LMAO... this boy is owned and and wears Lady Sandys TATOO, while shes away he surfs the internet meeting Other Dominants and has more collars than I have shoes in My closet... I know this boy r/l and wish I had found this thread sooner

You do realize that this thread was started in 2007 right?

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"Passion... it lies in all of us. Sleeping, waiting, and though unbidden, it will stir, open its jaws, and howl. It speaks to us, guides us... passion rules us all. And we obey..." ~Angelus

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