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bipolarber -> RE: Has my submissivness turned into addiction? (9/25/2007 6:51:23 AM)
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Someone once said, that in America, we are dealing with a "starvation economy" when it comes to emotional support. That is, we constantly deal with a situation of wanting, but not getting the things we really need to survive. America is great at providing material things: homes, cars, jobs, food, TV's cellphones... But it really sucks when it comes to providing love and sex, or even a feeling of family, or extended family. We have a hard time finding and maintaining real life relationships. We either end up moving because of work, or a shift change, or some other barrier is thrown up in our way to emotional happiness.
Your "addiction" is little more than you desiring someone in your life. Once you do find someone to relate to, a good deal of this frenzied obsession will fade away. You're quite normal. Relax!
And a bit of advice: After changing your screen name to something that doesn't sound like you're already taken, I strongly suggest you structure your search for a partner. Set certain hours of the day, or certain days of the week for checking your accounts. Find the real time support groups in your area and get out and meet people face to face. This online crap is for the birds.
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