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DiurnalVampire -> RE: Sound off (9/30/2007 9:39:28 AM)
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To toss my 2 cents into the pot
You might also consider the people you are writing to and the possibility you are being filtered. Many of us set up filters on our mail to reduce the amount of mail we get taht we already know is not going to be compatible. Thre is also the possibility that someone decides not to respond becasue they do not think you are compatible, and do not wish to open a line of communication. For as many people as complain on here that they do not recieve coutrous answers to their introductions... maybe they should realize that those courteous answers are very often met with arguments and long one sided exchanges trying to convince us our initial courteous answer was in error.
I *USED* to answer every email I got. When I got Angel, I tried to cintinue to do so, but when my profile specifically says I am not looking and I get offers continuously and then have people emailing to convince me I need more than one to be happy... I stopped.
Yes, it sucks that the fakes have ruined things for all of those who are real.
Submissives arent the only ones who have these problems.
If someone doesnt want to respond, then rather than be upset by it, just assume thats the SUREST mark that they arent compatible, be thankful they have saved you the time to have to figure that out and move on. Searches are not short, nor simple.
DV
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