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RaptureOfDesire -> For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 1:40:43 PM)

Not for the faint of heart!    [;)]

I was wondering if others who discuss here would like to share some of their EXTREME experiences......the hardcore, the sick, the violent!  I must say that I am into many many different scenes, fantasies, whatever you want to call them, and I am always looking for new ideas, as well as the urge to know and understand how they make others feel.  I am a submissive, who has only ever experiences one master, the man I love deeply.  And we have experienced many different aspects of BSDM......for example, toilet play, knife play, fire, hot metal, flogging and slapping, rape, bondage, humilation and my favorite - age play.  I do believe that we are sick, but we love it, so what does it matter?   [:D]

So, like I said before, I would love to hear stories from others about their experiences......to get new ideas and to just share the things that make us feel complete.  Also, please indicate whether this experience was done in real life or by way of phone or internet.  And, another idea I has was to maybe give advice about things that worked, didnt work.....or suggestions.  Any takers????

Thank you.

Brandi




DarkDaddyZ -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 1:53:25 PM)

CAN you actually have "extreme play" via internet or phone? I'm a (what I call) "intense play" fan with the right connection and person.  But the term extreme play is also individualized. What may seem extreme to some isn't to others.  Age play as extreme, perhaps to some but not to me. Same with fire, knife, toilet.  I'm sure it's be some great erotica material in this thread!




SusanofO -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 2:04:50 PM)

I have a few extreme fantasies (very extreme, for me) but I also know that I am never going to act on them in real life. I am not overall, a fan of "extreme" BDSM activity - with the one exception of believing that Ponyplay auctions are a real possibility, as far as something I'd be willing to do in real life (and for some people, they'd probably consider that "extreme"). That doesn't mean, though, that I still don't very much enjoy my other extreme fantasies.

Well, I take that back. I guess I would consent to branding. But I know some of my fantasies are (far) too extreme to ever carry out in real life (for me).

- Susan




IrishMist -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 2:49:33 PM)


I have been branded and pierced. Been cut so deeply during knife play that I ended up needing stitches. Been slapped, punched, kicked, choked; had abrasions that took weeks to finally fade; bruises that hung around for months.
I have no online experience, all of mine is from real life with one person.




Prinsexx -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 4:13:56 PM)

Date raped at 14 years old. Ro-hypnol probably. Gang banged, oral anal enforced, gagged, bound and hoisted up by the legs, bruised and beaten.
It took my over 30 years to recover the memories bit by bit but certainly forms my threshold. In other words I belive I STILL LONG FOR THAT DEGREE OF SUBMISSION but consenting to aspects of that submission is what gives me my power.

Prinsexx





mnottertail -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 4:17:20 PM)

Hey ! Hey ! Hey !

Let's remember there is a TOS, and------------- let's be careful out there.

Sgt. Phil Esterhaus





camille65 -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 4:22:49 PM)

Um yah. TOS there.




Bobkgin -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 4:31:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: RaptureOfDesire

Any takers????



Between protecting trade secrets, and not wanting to be tangentially responsible for the incapacitation of copy cats, on the advice of my legal staff, I must decline.

[;)]




chiaThePet -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 4:33:52 PM)

Well, there was that one time after Thanksgiving dinner when everyone
retired to the front yard and tied one leg to the bumper of one car,
and the other to the the bumper of another. The drivers slowly accelerated
while the crowd screamed "Who wants the wishbone". My blood
curdling shouts for mercy finally stopped the madness, but i've had
a split personality ever since.

chia* (the pet)




Aileen68 -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 5:02:45 PM)

There was this one time, at band camp...




chellekitty -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 6:52:40 PM)

ummm everything you mentioned seems pretty average to me....does that make me extreme? oh shit...maybe thats why i have trouble getting people to come play in my sand box....its not like i don't bring my own paper towels and bio-hazard bags for the blood....i can even make my own make shift sharps container out of common party goods....

only one i don't do too often is toilet play cause i don't get off on it...but i am all for enema's if we're gonna be doing anal fisting....cause...ummm shit is messy...

in fact as i type, there is another window open that is an IM were i am talking about the brand i will be getting next weekend...




SultrySub4M -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 7:11:32 PM)

Does anyone know of a correlation between engaging in self-injury (burning, cutting, hair pulling) and a perv for "extreme" play.  Anyone had some exp with that?  Just curious...

**edit-- i forgot, damn chia i lol'd on that quip!  as goofy as it was! thanks**




RRafe -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 7:15:21 PM)

The play rape scenes were fun and amusing.........but I had to know someone quite a while first.




chellekitty -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 7:46:56 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SultrySub4M

Does anyone know of a correlation between engaging in self-injury (burning, cutting, hair pulling) and a perv for "extreme" play.  Anyone had some exp with that?  Just curious...



i don't know if there is a correlation for anyone else....i used to do it to myself because i didn't know there were other people that did it to each other...and then i got told it was bad, and had to rationalize doing it until it became something bad....so it sucked that i had to untrain it being bad in my head....but i remember being a happy little duck in 8th grade sewing things into my skin....with absolutely no ill will in mind...it just felt good..




PsyVamp -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 8:03:10 PM)

Okay... Knife play is just hot....extreme? maybe.
Never thought of slapping as extreme... or humiliation.
I don't get turned on by age play or toilet play.
I have been known to completely enjoy breath play a little too much.

I guess extreme varies from person to person...I can't see suspending someone from hooks (or having it done to me)... but a friend of mine loved it.

Psy




twistedkytten -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 8:03:44 PM)

*Does anyone know of a correlation between engaging in self-injury (burning, cutting, hair pulling) and a perv for "extreme" play.  Anyone had some exp with that?  Just curious... *

I have a very good friend.. she is a cutter.. she does it mostly it seems to me when she felt she needed attention.. I do not agree with how her Dom handles these situations as they come up (He does not allow her to do it herself, instead He does it.  Personally I think teaching her other means of expressing her needs is a better idea, but that is just me..

I also had my own issue with something similar/..  I am really into the more edgy "extreme" play and had I not learned other ways to "feel" (that was my trigger, an intense need to feel.. anything)
I would have to give thought to... have I just traded my hand for His... ? to clarify ... have I stopped hurting myself only because He now does it? different motivation completely He does it because that's His perv... and I endure.. because I am so completely His. Ahh such bliss.




MadRabbit -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 8:20:12 PM)

I endured 35 pages of a certain "No Limit" thread once...




SubJordanTyler -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 8:21:38 PM)

For me, it's been anal stretching.  I've been stretched so wide that I did experience a temporary loss of control.  I've always bounced back, but all that extreme stretching has left me much wider than normal.  I've also been taken so hard with a strap-on that it's left me torn and bleeding.  But for me, even with the damage down there, it's a fetish for me - even if it's taken to such an extreme level.




RRafe -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 8:22:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MadRabbit

I endured 35 pages of a certain "No Limit" thread once...


Would you care to try a "fat chick" thread to really test your mettle?




MadRabbit -> RE: For Extreme Play Only! (9/21/2007 8:22:51 PM)

Unfortanely, I am not one of those "No Limits" slaves...

Theres only so much I can take...




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