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Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 5:45:36 PM   
Daddysgirl19


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Status: offline 		Ok for starters if you have looked at my profile you can see I am over weight.. I know this.. if you have seen me  you know this as well. I mean really Ive seen myself I know what I look like and *gasp* I know what I weigh... hell even some men and women like chubby.-

Why do some "Doms" feel they need to tell me I need to take better care of myself because of this?? Uhhh well tell me something I dont already know! - If you knew me you would know I do care about my health and that I am taking better care of myself and Ive even lost 65 lbs... I am not ashamed of my size I have been large since birth. But if thats not your thing - dont judge someone you dont know. You have no clue how they take care of themselves!!  Sorry just needed to get that off my chest..
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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 5:47:18 PM   
goalie62


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Status: offline 		I hear you here.  I've always had a "teddy bear" type body, but I can still walk a couple miles a day and play ice hockey.

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 5:47:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Good rant.

Why?  Because they want to get ANY reaction from you.  Because if they can get a rise from you, they know  you are paying attention and that might be the "in" that they need to start manipulating you more.  Because if they can shame you about this, they can exploit it and find all the other ways to shame and guilt you as a means of control.

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 5:48:58 PM   
Daddysgirl19


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Status: offline 		Heh... I just hit block.. who needs 'em.

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 5:55:22 PM   
Satyr6406


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Peace and comfort,
 
 
 
 
 
Michael

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Former Vice-President Gore didn't invent the internet but, he DID make up global warming!

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 5:57:26 PM   
Daddysgirl19


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Status: offline 		Thanks Satyr!! Lol... I will def be keeping that in mind!

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 5:58:13 PM   
Satyr6406


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Michael

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Former Vice-President Gore didn't invent the internet but, he DID make up global warming!

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 5:59:38 PM   
Daddysgirl19


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Status: offline 		*blushes*  Well that makes me feel better..

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 6:03:28 PM   
subtee


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Status: offline 		Today a Dom told me not to lose any more weight...so it's never right, right? Therefore, it seems to me, if you feel okay, then you are. And someone will find that beautiful (and it is). If you don't feel okay, then change it, as you are, but just for you! That's the only way it will work anyway, in my experience.

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 6:05:44 PM   
Daddysgirl19


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Status: offline 		I agree with you 100% subtee. Everyone prefers something diffrent. I am in the process of becoming comfortable with myself - I have had a gastric bypass this summer - and I am not ashamed to admit that. I did not for no Dom, no person other than  myself. So I can be happy with myself. I just think people shouldnt be so...rude.

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 6:06:52 PM   
subtee


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Status: offline 		No, they shouldn't. But you should also understand that you are very, very beautiful...

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 6:07:41 PM   
Daddysgirl19


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Status: offline 		aww thank you subtee

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 6:09:45 PM   
subtee


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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 6:13:22 PM   
Daddysgirl19


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Status: offline 		 you are sweet subtee...

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 6:20:53 PM   
subtee


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Status: offline 		Calls 'em likes I sees 'em.

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 7:35:11 PM   
divi


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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 7:39:49 PM   
Owner59


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Status: offline 		  When I was over-weight,I was invisible.People suck.....lol

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 7:53:35 PM   
Daddysgirl19


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Status: offline 		aww .. Id rather be invisable than insulted!  But being invisable does suck too.... your to cute to be invisable in my opinion.

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 7:54:40 PM   
Daddysgirl19


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Status: offline 		well thank you divi...

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RE: Just needing to rant... - 9/20/2007 8:16:27 PM   
Owner59


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Status: offline 		<winks at Daddysgirl19>

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