greyarcher315 -> How long? (9/20/2007 11:04:12 AM)
Just a bit of curiosity here. For those of You who have found Your mate, how long did that search take? And how easy was the search?
lovingdomwanted -> RE: How long? (9/20/2007 11:09:09 AM)
I thought I had met the Dom of my dreams and it went wrong, then another played me.......All I can say is don't rush and take every precaution possible....but that cannot always save any heartache......
Anyhow, most of the fun is in the chase....lol
xxxxx
toservez -> RE: How long? (9/20/2007 11:32:01 AM)
I posted my ad on here and before my picture was posted my eventual Master had written me and we had hit it off so it that sense the search was quick and easy but that does not mean the process was. It still took a long time to get to know each other fight through the difficulties of living in different cities and all the other common issues.
These are still relationships and establishing them takes time with highs and lows.
ownedgirlie -> RE: How long? (9/20/2007 1:09:04 PM)
Four days after I walked away from an emotionally abusive dom, vowing to be "done" with my submission (ha), I was contacted by the Man who has been my Master for the last 3 years. I was not searching. I was hiding. He found me [:)]
windchymes -> RE: How long? (9/20/2007 1:11:17 PM)
31 years and still looking. [&:]
sjacket -> RE: How long? (9/20/2007 1:19:31 PM)
46 years. I thought I was close a couple of times, but "close" only led to heartbreak. Now we're set and it just gets better and better.
itseeks -> RE: How long? (9/20/2007 3:41:52 PM)
I met my Master on another site.We talked for a couple of month before we decided to meet *face to face*.That was over a year ago .Meeting him was like finding the missing puzzle piece.
sub4hire -> RE: How long? (9/21/2007 6:31:28 AM)
5 years. It was just as it is for you and everyone else. 5 years of solid hell and thoughts of giving up the search. I literally had started negotiations with well over a thousand so called doms in that time. For various reason eliminating them one by one until I found Doug.
adoracat -> RE: How long? (9/21/2007 6:33:52 AM)
i joined this site in febuary. i met Sir at the begining of march, i believe. but i wouldnt say "the one" because i'm polyamorous.