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DMFParadox -> Hello from Florida (9/19/2007 12:22:44 AM)
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Hello... I'm new to the scene--I've been friends with BDSM devotees in several states, but I'm not that versed in it myself, and I have a lot of questions. I'm dead certain I'm a Dom--I'd go into the whole screed, but to save time I'll just say that I know. However, what I don't know is the proper care and feeding of a sub... I realize that every sub is different, but how do you explore those boundaries while maintaining your frame, how do you push their limits while not stepping over boundaries? I'm aware of safewords, and it seems I have fairly good instincts, but I wanted to compare notes with other, more established dom/mes. Take care, much love!
Paradox
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