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misterdee -> Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 4:09:14 AM)

I am a black dominant man from Michigan and having the hardest time finding a submissive woman that is openminded as far as interracial d/s. Seeking a white lady that enjoys the pleasures of a black dominant. Any Suggestions?



chellekitty -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 4:12:02 AM)

stop looking at the outside and start looking at the inside? most people don't want to be wanted for their outsides but for whats on the inside....



FullfigRIMaam -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 4:18:56 AM)

How open minded are you if you are seeking someone specifically white?  
P.S.  Are you sure all the stats on your profile are correct, cause I kind of have some idea what 5'11"/250# looks like.  
<<<---  Feeling silly.  [8D]  M



Squeakers -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 5:07:03 AM)

     With time and patience Mr.Dee, she'll find you or you'll find her.    Since you are a jazz lover, it should not take too long.    [;)]    Good luck.



SirEbonyPhoenix -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 6:05:53 AM)

What has been posted is sound advice, my brother. I too, don't care so much about a submissive/slave being Black (which is my primary preference), White, Latina or Asian, but what matters to me is their character, integrity, willingness to learn and most important, their honesty. As we speak, I am currently in talks with a white female submissive whom I someday hope will accept my collar and become mine. And what in interesing to note is that in my two years as a Dom, I've scened with other white subs/slaves, usually by permission of their Doms/Masters, who also are white, though it would be nice to play with a sub/slave of color, but as I said, color shouldn't be the primary factor in seeking them. That said, hang in there and best wishes to you in your search, my brother.



xoxi -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 6:17:04 AM)

Hey Dee :)

I can see how this would be a tricky situation because you're looking for someone 'open minded' about race however you want one specific race...but just keep being the best man you can be and eventually you'll find the woman who makes your heart melt.

If it makes you feel any better I've been single for almost a year and I'm looking for someone my own race [;)]  Good relationships are hard to find period!



mnottertail -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 6:25:12 AM)

Some of your problem might be that nobody knows how to pronounce your name, and dont know what that blue stuff you are holding in your hand is, it is rather out of focus (cause believe me, I tried to read it), saw further that you were an ageist, so I never asked WTF is that say?

But the name thing--------ja........little problemo.

Ron



breatheasone -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 6:35:52 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMaam

How open minded are you if you are seeking someone specifically white?  
P.S.  Are you sure all the stats on your profile are correct, cause I kind of have some idea what 5'11"/250# looks like.  
<<<---  Feeling silly.  [8D]  M

OUCH....that was kinda harsh...geez...




freedom76 -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 6:39:49 AM)

I do not see where he is not being open minded.I am white and prefer to have ltr with white but will play with all races.Does that make me close minded?Well maybe he will play with all but just would prefer a white female for a relationship.Just my opinion though.misterdee you just keep looking for what you want and there will be some one out there looking for the same.
PEACE,LOVE,and HAPPINESS to all



LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 6:43:13 AM)

I thing about race is. It really is not about that. It is who a person is. If you perfer to be with someone of said orentation. then do not tell anyone. Just seek it and you will find it



xoxi -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 6:50:24 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Some of your problem might be that nobody knows how to pronounce your name, and dont know what that blue stuff you are holding in your hand is, it is rather out of focus (cause believe me, I tried to read it), saw further that you were an ageist, so I never asked WTF is that say?

But the name thing--------ja........little problemo.

Ron



LOL are you talking to me?  The name is pronounced like 'soshi' and the blue stuff in my hand is just tags from a dress...it says ralph lauren.  It's also the most recent pic of me (the others are all at least 5 months old) so I put it first.

And yeah...I'm an ageist...need my men to be older than I am but not so old they could have spawned me.  Still though there's a 15 year span thats open...24-39...you'd think there are plenty of them!

I'm surprised you didn't also criticize me for being racist.  Or attractive-ist.  Or sexist for that matter...I want men only [;)]



LaMistressa -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 7:33:49 AM)

It's okay to have a racial preference (like an age preference, or size, or gender, etc.) but like any preference, it is going to limit your options. So my advice would be to be patient, and to not make race the sole focus of your search (or,  just as importantly, your description of your search.)

If you haven't attended BlackBeat before, you might also want to go to their event. You just missed this year, however. A lot of interracial couples do attend, as well as people with interracial play interests. My partner is AA, and he really enjoyed attending it. Good luck with your search!



abda -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 7:45:31 AM)

I am going to ask you a question and I am not trying to be rude . Would you date a white woman who isn't in the lifestyle? The reason I ask this because when I am approached white dominant males. I ask them the same question. I  also ask them why are the seeking a black submissive. You will not believe  all the different answers I get.



SirCache -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 7:49:48 AM)

People are people, regardless of their race--sincerity, integrity, honesty, humor are all essential for establishing good and lasting contacts.  Ultimately, you need to express those qualities so that women of any background will be attracted to you.



SirEbonyPhoenix -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 1:48:35 PM)

Not to be too nosy, but what is it like to have an African-American male sub (I am assuming that your partner is that) as a play partner and what was it like to scene with him?



DrkJourney -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 1:53:37 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

I thing about race is. It really is not about that. It is who a person is. If you perfer to be with someone of said orentation. then do not tell anyone. Just seek it and you will find it


my thoughts exactly.   I quickly pass on those that contact me and have the words black and/or white in every sentence.   So to me they didn't pick me because of me as a person, they were just cruising pics and stopped to contact anyone that was the right color for them....boy don't I feel special.



AquaticSub -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 2:19:25 PM)

Are you looking for white woman number 9 or a great woman who happens to be white?



LaMistressa -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 2:25:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirEbonyPhoenix

Not to be too nosy, but what is it like to have an African-American male sub (I am assuming that your partner is that) as a play partner and what was it like to scene with him?

Actually, he's a Top, which was completely not what I was looking for, but what are you going to do, right? [;)]  Surprised the heck out of both of us, especially since our lifestyle interests are as different as night and day. But we both really like Cheez-its, so that's something!




chellekitty -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 4:18:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirEbonyPhoenix

Not to be too nosy, but what is it like to have an African-American male sub (I am assuming that your partner is that) as a play partner and what was it like to scene with him?


never had an African-American male sub as a play partner..but i have watched an African American male sub get beat on (this is really long to type out..can i just say a black guy get beat on next time and you assume since its a lifestyle board i meant consensually lol) at play parties...only difference i noticed was that its harder to see the marks you're making on him...other than that...this particular guy is really grope-able and i wish he was a Top...he does flex and let me grope him anyway though...



SirEbonyPhoenix -> RE: Interracial d/s (9/15/2007 7:41:43 PM)

Well at least that's a good thing to have in common! Lol



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