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CM MESSAGES - 9/13/2007 12:22:53 AM

satyrsnymph28

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I just recently did some looking around in my mailbox and discovered that I reject 100% of the mail that I receive from submissive males who make the initial contact...

I didn't realize I was that consistant...

I only respond to about 10% of the messages I receive, and those are all from Dominant men...

Does anyone else have low response numbers like this?

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RE: CM MESSAGES - 9/13/2007 12:24:00 AM

goalie62

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I'd have to get mail to reject it, LOL

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RE: CM MESSAGES - 9/13/2007 12:32:03 AM

Tannie

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I'm consistent in that I reject emails from people searching for the exact opposite of what my profile states I am willing to provide. I admit that I do raise my eyebrow a bit when receiving emails from dominant women, but that's usually because I hardly ever get them at all. I also reject emails from screenname that are obviously trolling for sex. Those don't even get opened.

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RE: CM MESSAGES - 9/13/2007 12:36:33 AM

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I pretty much reject all messages from anyone who has obviously NOT read my incredibly clear profile. If they can't even read a profile, they're not much use to me. That's a lot of rejections!!

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RE: CM MESSAGES - 9/13/2007 5:49:25 AM

freyjasdottir

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Oh as long as it is not rude I will reply simply stating to read. BUT, right now my profile is deactived over there while I am thinking things through.

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RE: CM MESSAGES - 9/13/2007 6:18:49 AM

e01n

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Um, er... quite the opposite from me OP...

I read everything. I respond to just about all - except for spam/scam emails.

Maybe 80% have shown me some sign that they've read something of my profile. I guess keeping it short and to the point helped. And at least I normally offer up some nugget that makes it worthwhile to look...

And I send emails, particularly if I see something I think is pretty cool in someone's profile. EG: there's one person who keeps coming up in the "mini-profile" when I login. She changed her main picture and I found that it was a very good photo and I complimented her on it. Definitely not a "U R HAWT," but instead "That new picture of you in the green blouse... Very nice: definitely brings out your eyes and skin tone. Have a great day!"

Life's too short to try to decipher anyone's agendas but your own...

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RE: CM MESSAGES - 9/13/2007 6:27:41 AM

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Not sure what the purpose of your thread is but if you state no sub males then that is your choice and they should respect that choice. Of course you will always get the lone persopn from the boards that will email ya once in a while that most likely will have nothing to do with your profile.

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RE: CM MESSAGES - 9/13/2007 6:40:45 AM

LdyScarletDomina

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I normally read everything. The stupid ones make me laugh. The ones that come from folks that look like they've actually read my profile get a response, and as long as people are polite I usually always respond even if I'm not interested. Sometime I've written people (like other dominant women) seeking friendships within the lifestyle and its come to my realization that alot of people just delete letters w/o reading them and may be missing out on the chance to develop not only a BDSM relationship, but friendships as well. That makes me sad. So I try not to do that to others. When I receive letters from dominant males I normally read them and if they are seeking friendship I forward them to my Master for permission to make new friends. When it is the type of male that tries to poach a happy girl from a relationship, I flame them and send them on their way. (but I consider it a challenge to create new orifices for stupid people to talk to themselves from LOL)

If realone or domiguy or mottertail ever wrote me I'd run screaming in fear into the night as if an ax murderer with a 6 foot long dildo was chasing me.

sorry I couldn't resist!

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< Message edited by LdyScarletDomina -- 9/13/2007 6:41:38 AM >

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RE: CM MESSAGES - 9/13/2007 7:36:46 AM

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Modesto?? Hahaha

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RE: CM MESSAGES - 9/13/2007 7:43:09 AM

leatherette

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satyrsnymph28: Hi <smile> I can relate. I understand and may seem different - it just my thoughts...to share.

My own profile is closed right now for a couple of reasons.

- just as a fact ( not out of conceit or for any lack of respect) women do receive a lot of mail from men.
There are a lot of sincere people out there, and I certainly can't complain. I am grateful.
- It can be impossible to attempt to get to know and offer the attention many deserve.
- Some may only get back a short note, just because of time and energy restraints. We all have limitations.

I am sincere. I can only correspond, meet with very few.
-I'd hate if anyone felt rejected or ignored. This hurts me - and I am sorry.

So, I'm finding it best ( at this time, at least) to keep my profile closed and do the work myself of making contact.

This does come with regrets. I am limiting my availability, transparency. Its harder to make friends and be known.
I don't like this - I want to be friendly. I admire many; especially here on these boards.

I must make that choice, a sacrifice in order to concentrate on my main goal of finding a partner.
(Friends are welcome - not everything has to be heavy - and I do like to have fun - disclaimer here)

This is meant with respect and caring. I feel very small. In many cases, I am distant mostly because I care.

In honor -

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RE: CM MESSAGES - 9/13/2007 8:12:37 AM

leatherette

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Real0ne

Not sure what the purpose of your thread is but if you state no sub males then that is your choice and they should respect that choice. Of course you will always get the lone persopn from the boards that will email ya once in a while that most likely will have nothing to do with your profile.

Glad you said that RealOne

it's great when people email because of something said on the boards to be friendly, laugh, have fun or share insight.

I appreciate CM. I do wish there was a way to seperate - this - from the other side... 'cause i wanna have FUN!