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Perplex -> the stupid scene party post (9/11/2007 8:40:05 PM)
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this was a five way conversation I had the other day, 2 people were not into the lifestyle, my wife who is a true neophyte, myself who is alternatedly a jaded gobber or a puppy really eager to widdle on the carpet, and a vietnam fighter pilot who spent the last 20 years on the roads of the SE in a biker gang and is now practicing to be a catholic priest... I mention the participants to look cool with the ecclectic band of fellows I travel with but also within this group a consensesus could not be found so I thought I would throw it out there for the public to devour then spit back up with their particular spin on it.
In a scene, only 5-7 people, and the energy isn't flowing...everybody is sorta acting like *same ole same ole* but they progress cuz it's do the scening or break out the trivial pursuit game and it is just sorta 'eh' for those involved. My suggestion for the cure was the following:
blindfold the subs, and play mystery-spit swap, the winner would be the one who could pick out there Dom, of course this would only work assuming all doms were men and none were hung like a yellow #2 pencil or a miller beer bottle.
again blindfold the subs, throw everybody's spare change onto the floor and while the sub's search for the (only) penny in the mix of change have them be motivated by floggers.
create a merry-go-round (or sub-go-roudn if you're going to be techincal) where all subs have thier left wrist tied together forming a flowering bloom, with teh wrists in the center stem position, giving each sub a flogger as well as the doms then proceed to send the subs around the circle as the doms move on the outside of the circle..not really sure how this one ends til someone says uncle.
it was assumed all participants knew thier limits and knew the saftey concerns, so consider that caveat already taken care of.
but the responses I got were "it sounds like fun" to "was everyone only 12 at thier first birthday party?" so my quesiton, is when thigns are going less than well with a scene, do you dare silly for the sake of the evening..or is silly always silly and should be left in the plastic egg with the putty.
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