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Size play. - 9/10/2007 7:37:00 PM

Mercurialdame

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I have an interest in size. Not the physical aspects of size, but the psychological aspects of it.
I once met a potential partner, who also was intrigued by this, to the extent that he wished to believe that he was 7" tall. Unfortunately, we were not compatable, so i never got to explore that avenue. Now, many years later, id like to pick that back up and see where it takes me.
And wonder how i could incorportate this into play.
For instance, i have a overly large 3 piece suit, that has the effect of dwarfing you when you are sat on it. I enjoy that. Using me standing and the other sitting./kneeling would play with size, i enjoy that also.
Using clothing that is clearly the wrong size, and the effects that can have interest me.
Do others incorporate this element into play, and what effects have you found useful to maximise this?
Or is it too specific?
your thoughts would be welcomed.
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RE: Size play. - 9/10/2007 7:41:00 PM

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I'm still trying to figure out high heels.

Disproportionally-sized clothing would look funny; at least, that's what it would seem like to me. It could be kind of cute. Not too sure if someone could really feel bigger due to their clothing without things like shoe-inserts/heels/top hats/etc., I suppose.

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RE: Size play. - 9/10/2007 7:48:13 PM

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Off the topic...Momentary hijack....Having been toying with the idea of incorporating a walking stick into my repertoire....Act like it is common place, use it to point things out and to accentuate a speaking point by bringing the point down hard on the final syllable....It would be tremendously domly I believe.

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RE: Size play. - 9/10/2007 7:54:38 PM

Mercurialdame

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highjack away domiguy.
Your description of a prop adding pezzaz to your top space for you, is exactly how i would be using size for mine.
the clothing and furniture are simply 'props' for me.

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RE: Size play. - 9/10/2007 8:59:44 PM

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Laughing, I'm 5'4" and he's 6'1". Size differencies are part of the relationship. In my relationship the sheer fact of him being that much taller, more powerful, hands that dwarf mine does influence things. He can pin me down with his body and I'm helpless. That's hot right there. So is schoolgirl role play where I'm seated and he's standing, towering over me. Knowing I can't get my way unless he agrees to it, that he can enforce anything by virtue of him being so much bigger makes me feel more submissive and gets me hot. Of course it also makes the occasional lecture hurt that much more, and not in a good way.

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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 4:48:11 AM

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I'm 5 foot 1... 98lbs... he's 6 foot 4...263lbs... the size difference is much a part of our relationship... picking me up by my ankles, and holding me upside down... carrying me like a sack of potatos... carrying me thru a club or function in the crook of one of his arms ... just standing infront of him having to tilt my head up to look at him and him having to tilt his head down to look at me has a big impact on the both of us.

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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 4:57:08 AM

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[i have a overly large 3 piece suit, that has the effect of dwarfing you when you are sat on it. ]

my mind wanders in interesting places lol
I read this and got the image of Lilly Tomlins character "edith anne" .. little girl in that huge rocking chair.... just makes me smile

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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 8:26:18 AM

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I think the height difference that exists between my Master and I is enough- I always feel small, because I am!
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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 8:55:47 AM

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I like the height differnece between Sir and i as it is. Im 5ft 4 and Hes around 6ft. i look small beside Him without heels and i love it! Reasonably equal to Him in my highest heels, a downfall to my lovely wonderful much loved shoes.
Im pretty sure i wouldnt like to feel taller as i had some pics done recently and some were done from beneath me to make me look tall and i didnt like them one bit - nope nope nope.
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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 9:01:26 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: YourShyPet

I'm 5 foot 1... 98lbs... he's 6 foot 4...263lbs... the size difference is much a part of our relationship... picking me up by my ankles, and holding me upside down... carrying me like a sack of potatos... carrying me thru a club or function in the crook of one of his arms ... just standing infront of him having to tilt my head up to look at him and him having to tilt his head down to look at me has a big impact on the both of us.

Interesting, I have recently met a woman who is 5'0". I am 6 1".

I hadnt thought of size play in any way. Nearly every other woman I've dated was over 5' 8".

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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 10:55:25 AM

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Sort of like that old Tom Petty video...I can't think of the name of it at this time.

I'm 5'8 and my dom is 6'6 he is definately a big larger than I am. I've never thought of it
as a size factor that turns me on. I've just always liked men who were taller than me.
I guess in reality it is a size issue to some extent.

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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 11:07:20 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Celeste43

Laughing, I'm 5'4" and he's 6'1". Size differencies are part of the relationship. In my relationship the sheer fact of him being that much taller, more powerful, hands that dwarf mine does influence things. He can pin me down with his body and I'm helpless. That's hot right there. So is schoolgirl role play where I'm seated and he's standing, towering over me. Knowing I can't get my way unless he agrees to it, that he can enforce anything by virtue of him being so much bigger makes me feel more submissive and gets me hot. Of course it also makes the occasional lecture hurt that much more, and not in a good way.

I've met guys who were just a few inches taller than me (I'm 5'4") and despite being nice guys, they were very dominant so their aura was hot, but I have to agree - the fact that my guy is about a foot taller and is half again my weight so he can physically do anything he wants with me is very hot. Height is not everything, but it sure does add to the dynamic. You'd think the height difference can be awkward at times, but oddly enough, spooning in bed feels just perfect.

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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 11:19:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

Off the topic...Momentary hijack....Having been toying with the idea of incorporating a walking stick into my repertoire....Act like it is common place, use it to point things out and to accentuate a speaking point by bringing the point down hard on the final syllable....It would be tremendously domly I believe.

Additional hijack...when I was in the service, walking sticks were a big thing among some of the guys I ran with. Since I had a really snazzy double-knit AngelFlight suit at the time, I picked one up also. I have to admit that between that stick, the suit (c'mon...they were cool at the time) and the platform shoes I wore (1 in in front, 2 in at the heel), I felt much taller and more imposing. Oddly enough, while the majority of the feeling of being taller came about due to the shoes, the stick added immensely to that feeling. Also gave me a feeling of power which, when I look back now and then put that feeling together with using the walking stick in other ways, makes me wonder just a bit...

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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 11:21:46 AM

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Why do I keep picturing guys talking in fake British accents when they have walking sticks in their hands.....sorry for contributing to the hijack....

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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 12:45:17 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: phoenixsub999

Why do I keep picturing guys talking in fake British accents when they have walking sticks in their hands.....sorry for contributing to the hijack....

I say there...quite alright, lass.

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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 4:07:23 PM

teamnoir

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I'm fascinated by several aspects of size as well. And yes, you can vary some size with the use of prosthetics or by simply asking people to kneel or give up size that way.

I also use hypnosis, which is interesting, because you can create some of the same effects as size only without necessarily varying physical size.

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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 4:39:39 PM

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Just don't confuse them with moustached Brigadier Generals, with their cane tucked under their arm, and immaculate kid leather gloves........

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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 5:55:04 PM

Mercurialdame

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Well, not much in the way of exchanging ideas of how to incorporate this element into play. But a bright discussion none the less. And clearly, size does play an important part in powerplay.
The walking stick/cane is a rather neat look. Unfortunately, you tend to have to look to the military for such garb these days, which is a shame.
Thank havens i still have my dressing up box! You can get away with anything prop wise, providing its part of the 'dressing up box' in my house.
I recently gave away a cane, a whip, and crop to a riding bloody club of all places. As i was flying and way over luggage capacity.
Im still a fan of Alice in Wonderland antics though.
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RE: Size play. - 9/11/2007 7:30:32 PM

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Ok now my head is filled with walking sticks... top hats... and cravets.... AND MY PANTIES ARE WET!!!!.... thanks guys.

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RE: Size play. - 9/12/2007 3:50:29 AM

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sigh ... I am 5'10" tall so alot of this stuff is out of my experience ... no one has ever carried me in the crook of there arm .. I can not help wondering how it would feel though. Once in my wild and wicked youth I walked up to a guy in a club I was working in and asked him if he was single and willing, when he answered yes, picked him up put him over my shoulder and carried him out of the club ... He thanked me well and truely lol, told me he would be a legend to his mates that the stripper had carried him off.

I love my height. I own a pair of boots featured in my profile pic that I stand over 6'5" tall in ... safe to say I have no issues with my height but I have met men who did. An early warning sign that things are not working is when they start telling me how good I would look in sandals lol.

The father of my umm had few redeeming features, conversation was limited as was his brain power, however he was a lot of fun and excellent in bed. At 6'8" tall it was the only time in my life I could stand under a man's arm comfortably while I was in heels ... I enjoyed the way he dwarfed me immensly. I also enjoyed the striking visual we made as a couple.

At the other end of the spectrum was an Irish man who was 5'1" tall. He asked to buy me a drink ... I told him he would need a step ladder (many yrs ago in a bitchy bad head space) ... He impressed me when he came back to the bar with a step ladder, climbed up it and asked if I would like that drink now or was I still going to be a bitch ... now there was a man with no problems with height, loved my heels when he worked out that in certain ones his mouth was the same height as my nipples and started calling himself my little nipple muncher lol. Often think fondly of him and btw was better in bed than the 6'8" guy, so much more imagination.

Sitting in a really huge padded chair can make me feel small and vunerable. On my knees in a cage can make Him seem so much bigger and more powerful ... so size is an interesting thing to play with and manipulate. I for one would find exploring such an idea enjoyable.

Just my 2 cents worth.

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