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SoloDomLee -> Hi, My name is Lee. I am a Dom (9/7/2007 9:44:28 PM)
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Hello,
I have been a Dom for about 6 years. I have been in two 24/7 relationships, not currently in one at this time. At this time I am exploring and fulfilling parts of my Master side that I have not explored up until this point. Played in some scenes, etc.. That being said, I love to train and bring out the best in a sub or slave. I am very strict but fair. Bu then again, I have been wondering if what I have been doing is rote to me. And that is why I have been exploring scenes, to see how other people react. I still think I haven’t quite found what I am looking for.
So here I am. I am here to explore power dynamics and submission. I am not a sadist, per se, and as the intensity of a bond forms, I believe the trust and command can perform better than any threat or physical domination. Though, I am no stranger to creative means of reinforcement. I do find that what occurs mentally is much more powerful than the physical, the gateway is often times spoken.
Submission to me is a form of granted power; mutual trust. Trust is key and communication is very important. Yet, there is quite a lot more to the dynamic, isn’t there. Though I do have my certain patterns, at this time I want to explore more and find out what it is that draws me to being a Dom. Why it is I am fascinated with control and submission, why I relish when I am given submission over hot sex. I think I would ultimately want to be back into a D/s relationship but at this time I think I may need time to explore. Perhaps, I am just confused.
At any rate, we are all here for something. I hope that I can fit in here. I tend to be honest, up front and sincere. I am generally gracious and well mannered. Being a Dom doesn’t mean I have to be a bore. I like to be engaged. I hope to meet many people here and understand myself more.
That is really why I am here. I would love to hear from any one if they want to respond to what I have written. I welcome questions or advice.
Thanks,
Lee
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