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RE: How important is Y/your Kink? - 9/3/2007 3:40:08 PM

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Hmmm...Maybe that is why dumpsters come in all different sizes...I would never kink with someone that could possibly die or need mouth to mouth resuscitation at some point during our session.....

(I can see the looks of horror when the paramedics arrive to find me "helping" the sub regain consciousness by pounding my dick down her lifeless throat and shouting out.."Live..Live dammit!")

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RE: How important is Y/your Kink? - 9/3/2007 4:03:59 PM

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Kink is not a matter of life and death of rme. Very little in my life is.

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RE: How important is Y/your Kink? - 9/3/2007 6:02:40 PM

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I realize that death comes,but I dont want to be
responsible for it even if they are smiling. You know what I mean

While i completely understand your reluctance, i'd count myself among those who would still want to scene. There's a quote somewhere about the key to living a long time requiring that you give up everything that makes life worth giving, and i agree with it wholeheartedly...

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RE: How important is Y/your Kink? - 9/3/2007 6:08:16 PM

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Not very far at all, truthfully. Kink is a fun, life-enriching social and physical activity; inequal authority is a lovely way to organize relationships. I'm happier with BDSM, but I can and have lived without it.

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RE: How important is Y/your Kink? - 9/3/2007 6:19:34 PM

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He dips His lid;

I equate this to a person not knowing where they sit in Lifestyle. I'm sympathetic for the submissive. 'Release' is addictive and a submissive puts their trust in the Dominant to act responsibly. A submissive who does otherwise is a Masochist bottom.

All legal issues aside, it takes a very 'strong' (to some perspectives - irresponsible) Sadist to accept the possibilities of the consequences. Your ethics are guiding you well.

Dips graciously, smiling with removal of His lid.

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RE: How important is Y/your Kink? - 9/3/2007 6:40:33 PM

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I only have one life so I would not put it at risk for my lifestyle preference. Nothing is worth killing yourself over. Life is too short.

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RE: How important is Y/your Kink? - 9/3/2007 7:26:12 PM

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Is your need for kink so overwhelming that you would risk your life
just to session?

An example: a submissive has had 3 heart attacks and a 2nd stent put in.
The doctors say shes healthy enough to work,but shes still overweight and
over a certain age where it is more likely to happen again.
When I refuse a session she gets angry,I say I cant be held responsible if something happens.All she can do is justify that she'll be fine.Afterall the doctor said so.
I'm sticking to My guns and not doing it even if shes ticked.

So My question is how far are Y/you willing to go,to satisfy your kink?

you got to be kidding? i hope so because i wouldn't jeopardize my health and life for a kinky session wtih Daddy ...then again that's me and that's my honest opinion.

that being said my kink isn't my entire life nor is it important that it constantly needs satisfying.

< Message edited by sambamanslilgirl -- 9/3/2007 7:27:11 PM >

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RE: How important is Y/your Kink? - 9/3/2007 8:41:49 PM

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If I were a pro I wouldn't take any chances with a customers health issues, however if I had the health issues myself I might well chose to pursue my sexuality even if there was a risk, and at this stage in life my bdsm and my sexuality are one in the same.

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