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Married couple looking to learn - 9/1/2007 6:54:02 AM

showustheway

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Hi from us two,
Were a married couple from the Midlands just setting out to find out what makes us tick. I'm primarliy here to learn how to pleasure my wife who is discovering her Sub side, I consider myself very open minded so am more than happy to stand by her side as we both learn what to do (or not do) in the scene. My main questions would be aimed at married couples and how the BDSM scene works in your "normal" life. If you have any advice please feel free to let me know.
Thanks for looking,
S

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RE: Married couple looking to learn - 9/1/2007 7:02:42 AM

mnottertail

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Welcome, and go get 'em Tiger and Tigress!!!!

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RE: Married couple looking to learn - 9/1/2007 10:11:22 AM

liorsnava

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hello from Master Lior and nava... we are also a married couple. He, involved off and on for 25 years. me, new to my slavery and our M/s relationship. explore and learn but do what works best for the both of you, and no one else. Master Lior could give you many more tips than i can, since i am still learning myself ~grin~

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RE: Married couple looking to learn - 9/1/2007 1:49:40 PM

sirguym

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Just don't believe anybody who asserts (s)he has all the answers, or anybodyu who says domatically that anything is right or wrong.

I am a Dom partnered up with a Domme; which took some sorting out initially.

Our experience is that whatever you thought you were at first, is probably only a starting point!

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RE: Married couple looking to learn - 9/1/2007 2:52:25 PM

kshearsecouple

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Welcome to the forums and collarme. My husband and I are also married both dominate in our case. We also have children which some people would frown upon in this life style. We've been in and around the lifestyle for awhile and we both explore what we like. I'd say communication is the best things you can do. You guys fell in love without the scene(just like my husband and I did). I'd start with that. The forums are very enlightening. As far as *normal life* do what you think is right. We are curently looking for a 24/7 but that is what works for us.....since I gather you are just starting out try new things

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RE: Married couple looking to learn - 9/10/2007 1:40:20 PM

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It is my opinion that positive groups and fetish/kink teaching classes are a superb resource. Curiously, I am always looking for them, but my spouse and non intimate play friends would never go! If both of you are relaxed about going, I urge you to do so. Nobody is going to be forced to participate with anyone else if they choose not to do so at every event I attend, and I just feed off the energy and enjoy myself attending solo. -R

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RE: Married couple looking to learn - 9/10/2007 7:18:22 PM

Mercurialdame

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Hello, im in a de-facto relationship with my partner. We began together as a D/s couple, 24/7 living together and the kids. Many years ago.
We are now a switch couple, living together, still with one kid left.

What my kids have witnessed is a loving couple, who really respect and care and love each other. A very positive role model id say. The play side is none of their goddam business! And kids dont want to know about mum and dads sex life, that's sick when its vanilla, let alone bdsm lol. Noise is a bit of a factor though!
Id suggest getting a decent babysitter out from the off. Certain play styles, need an empty house, or hotel room lol. OR a friendly club with equipment.

Have fun, enjoy learning together. And always put your relationship on a higher pedestal than bdsm.
good luck
Mecurialdame

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