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The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 10:56:40 AM   
MasterMataeo


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Status: offline 		okay all ,, there is a thread going around on if a sub/slave could go to the store and order thier perfect Dom/Master.. Mistress/Domme,
, isn't only Fair, that we have one as well,,
so i pose the question ,, to all those Dom/me,, Master/Mistresses,,
if you could go to the "sub/slave shop' and have yours custom made ,,what would you like in yours?????

MasterMataeo

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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 11:18:08 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Well, I have have had two, imperfectly perfect, girls already. Funny thing is they were as different from one another as night and day. I was not looking either time and, had I had, a list of "must haves" I would have most certainly missed knowing two of the most amazing young women I could have imagined.

If I get lucky a third time, I will let you know what perfect is then.


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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 11:55:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MasterMataeo

if you could go to the "sub/slave shop' and have yours custom made ,,what would you like in yours?




My boys find happiness and self-worth through selfless servitude. This is what I look for.

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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 12:15:31 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		directly from my journal:

"Amazing... He throws himself wholeheartedly into us.  He thinks about me, my family, and himself in everything he does.  His smile lights up the room and his laughter is infectious.  The amazing man is always up for a challenge, sees my family as his family and works hard for the whole.  He compliments me and challenges me.

Live in…  pretty darn self explanatory.  I want a 24/7 TPE.  Live in is just that:  Live in.

Slave…  a slave is a friend.  He is a lover in what ever aspect(s) I choose.  He is hard working, intelligent and honest.  He is appropriate and caring.  He knows when to add his two cents and knows when to defer.  He loves being under the guidance of me; he is not afraid to be wrong and strives to do it right.  His yearn is to be mine."

and for your added reading entertainment:  also from my journal.....

"His measure is not in that he tries to earn favor or love from me.  His measure is that we love mutually therefore he aspires to please.

My measure is not in that I hand to him fantasies and fetishes.  My measure is that we love mutually therefore I aspire to give."



edited cause the font was all strange...hopefully it is fixed.

< Message edited by earthycouple -- 8/31/2007 12:20:59 PM >

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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 12:18:09 PM   
realtuffdom


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Status: offline 		My ideal slave would stand up to my mom and say: "Look, he's a tough guy dominant! Stop telling him to clean up his room!" I get really hot just thinking about it.

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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 12:49:46 PM   
CuriousLord


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Status: offline 		My ideal sub would be twins.  Both of them.  And they'd both be billionaires, so I can financially dominate them to support myself.  Because that's just how dominant I am.

Your humor's infectious, realtuffdom.

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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 1:04:35 PM   
Bobkgin


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Status: offline 		My two female slaves would be utterly selfless in their capacity to love me and each other, exceptionally compassionate regarding all life on the planet, honest, trustworthy, dependable and obedient, eager, joyful and willing, an openness to all matters spiritual and emotional, loveable, playful, polite, thoughtful, communicative and respectful.

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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 1:07:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin
My two female slaves would be utterly selfless in their capacity to love me and each other, exceptionally compassionate regarding all life on the planet, honest, trustworthy, dependable and obedient, eager, joyful and willing, an openness to all matters spiritual and emotional, loveable, playful, polite, thoughtful, communicative and respectful.


Don't forget inflatable and puncture resistant....


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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 1:08:19 PM   
realtuffdom


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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin
My two female slaves would be utterly selfless in their capacity to love me and each other, exceptionally compassionate regarding all life on the planet, honest, trustworthy, dependable and obedient, eager, joyful and willing, an openness to all matters spiritual and emotional, loveable, playful, polite, thoughtful, communicative and respectful.


Don't forget inflatable and puncture resistant....



I constantly forget those two rules.


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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 1:09:46 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin

My two female slaves would be utterly selfless in their capacity to love me and each other, exceptionally compassionate regarding all life on the planet, honest, trustworthy, dependable and obedient, eager, joyful and willing, an openness to all matters spiritual and emotional, loveable, playful, polite, thoughtful, communicative and respectful.


I'm pretty sure saints like that are already married to god. 

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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 1:10:32 PM   
celticlord2112


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ORIGINAL: MasterMataeo
If you could go to the "sub/slave shop' and have yours custom made ,,what would you like in yours?????


Let her have a servant's heart....that's the ideal slave for me!


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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 1:12:39 PM   
realtuffdom


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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterMataeo
If you could go to the "sub/slave shop' and have yours custom made ,,what would you like in yours?????


Let her have a servant's heart....that's the ideal slave for me!



I'm willing to settle for opposable thumbs.


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Always, Ram Ford Tough....

I have lots and lots of experience at domination. Now I'd just like to try it with a partner....

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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 1:14:20 PM   
callistaIn


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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin
My two female slaves would be utterly selfless in their capacity to love me and each other, exceptionally compassionate regarding all life on the planet, honest, trustworthy, dependable and obedient, eager, joyful and willing, an openness to all matters spiritual and emotional, loveable, playful, polite, thoughtful, communicative and respectful.


Don't forget inflatable and puncture resistant....


OK , I really should not laugh but...this is the first thought that went through my mind when I saw his answer...a blow up doll lol.

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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 1:19:07 PM   
realtuffdom


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Status: offline 		Oh well, they removed my other humorous thread. I guess they don't want humor here. Guess I'll discontinue this identity from this point forward.

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I have lots and lots of experience at domination. Now I'd just like to try it with a partner....

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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 1:38:01 PM   
VNDom


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Status: offline 		Perfect?

For everyone it's different, obviously.  But I DID have perfect. And it lasted for almost 10 years before she was taken from me by one of life's cruel, cruel acts of evil.

But, she was perfect, and we were perfect together.  What made it so, more than anything, was chemistry.

First, and most importantly, she loved me for me. Period. Full Stop. There was no desire or need to attempt to change me at all.

Second, she was truly submissive in the way in which I like a submssive to be.  I like my submissives to be strong, smart, independent, successful women who are wholly submissive to only me. 

Third, she took care of herself physically - knowing that how I wanted her to be.  By most people's standards, she was average looking. To me, she was the most beautiful woman on the planet because of how she radiated her trust and love of being mine.

Fourth, she took pride in being submissive to me; learning what I needed/wanted her to learn, remembering little things I liked that made life easier for us, taking pride in keeping our house spotless, organized, and warm.

Fifth, she took a great deal of pleasure from allowing my sadistic nature to be a part of our play.

That was perfect for me.  I'm not expecting to find that again, but I'll settle for close, because that's good, too.

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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 2:20:46 PM   
Bobkgin


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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bobkgin

My two female slaves would be utterly selfless in their capacity to love me and each other, exceptionally compassionate regarding all life on the planet, honest, trustworthy, dependable and obedient, eager, joyful and willing, an openness to all matters spiritual and emotional, loveable, playful, polite, thoughtful, communicative and respectful.


I'm pretty sure saints like that are already married to god. 


Perhaps someone misunderstood the OP's question.


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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 2:52:41 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin

quote:

ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bobkgin

My two female slaves would be utterly selfless in their capacity to love me and each other, exceptionally compassionate regarding all life on the planet, honest, trustworthy, dependable and obedient, eager, joyful and willing, an openness to all matters spiritual and emotional, loveable, playful, polite, thoughtful, communicative and respectful.


I'm pretty sure saints like that are already married to god. 


Perhaps someone misunderstood the OP's question.


Fair enough.

If I could custom order the perfect slave/sub, he would be like the Buddhist Monk I fell in love with, but be attainable.  Not that the idea of perverting a Buddhist Monk didn't have its appeal.  I just wasn't willing to bankrupt my Karma to do so. 

See, I can play well with others

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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 2:59:25 PM   
MadRabbit


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Status: offline 		I dont have one.  I am completely pragmatic when it comes to meeting new partners and people and dont have an ideal vision of the perfect girl for me. I have my own ideal vision of slave based on protocols and behaviors I like, but as far as the person, specifically..chasing ideals just leads to disapointment, in my opinion.

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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 3:22:19 PM   
krikket


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Status: offline 		y'all are all soooooooo bad..lol..

Now i get to try out the new screen cleaner i bought to clean off the soda that just spewed all over the place..lol..thanks :)

cheers,
jimini

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Celticlord2112: Don't forget inflatable and puncture resistant....



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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance
I'm pretty sure saints like that are already married to god. 


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et al


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RE: The Ideal sub/slave - 8/31/2007 7:48:19 PM   
Durus


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Status: offline 		There was a time when I would have tried to answer your question pragmatically...but now all I can say is I will know her when I find her.

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