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maid costume when company comes? - 8/30/2007 2:20:13 PM   
Goddess007


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Status: offline 		Hi, I was just curious whether anyone has had a similar situation and could advise...I am training a new maid, and have decided he will wear his uniform when he works for Me.  I was trying to come up with a somewhat undisruptive solution to use when company comes by.  Previously I had planned to just make him get dressed real fast, but the more I thought about it, that just seems like too much of a hassle.  I suppose I could shove him in a closet somewhere and tell him to stfu, and the idea is growing on Me.  However, what are anyone's thoughts on just letting things be what they are?  It's not like I'm doing anything illegal, but what would be the possible consequences if he were in plain view?  I know it would depend on the audience, so for simplicity's sake, let's say I send m to get a package from the UPS driver...Any similar experiences?  thanks
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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 8/30/2007 2:25:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		If it will cause you personal anguish, oh-----I don't know, parents or siblings or gramma or whatever-------send him to a place to tidy up and write bills and journals and shine shoes (hey! your bedroom closet might work, with a leash and a pegging point for it).

Otherwise, fuck him.  Continue on as you normally would.

Anything useful there?

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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 8/30/2007 2:31:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well it depends on what the costume looks like.  If it looks like a costume, then the best option is just a robe to throw on.  I have those because I'm almost always naked at home.  The robe gives you enough leeway and time to make it to a changing place.

If you feel comfy letting things be what they are, then go for it.  I don't put robes on when close friends come over :)

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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 8/30/2007 4:20:23 PM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		It is legal to be naked in your own home, thus it is private and not public.  Be sure that it isn't the Girl Guides first before he opens the door though lol.

I don't see any reason why your boy shouldn't or couldn't wear or not wear anything you choose.

If he is sure it is not a child, and you are choosing that he is an exhibitionist when he answers or if company (lets assume they are vanilla) comes over then ok, sure it is your home but you are only alienating yourself (if he is naked un-announced) and being exhibitionists without preparation for those in your company.  You do not break any legal rules in your own home, but you do break friendships by using them as 'shock-fodder' without their knowledge. 

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I am training a new maid, and have decided he will wear his uniform when he works for Me.  I was trying to come up with a somewhat undisruptive solution to use when company comes by.
 

he is Your maid, not someone else's uncomfort. If you want to show him off, at least give the world an opportunity to accept or reject the idea BEFORE they see him as you want to. You cannot create your own world of exhibitionism upon total vanilla strangers and expect open arms. 

Be a good neighbour, and close your blinds, have him greet and meet without the drama of parents or employees of delivery corporations calling the police.  Be respecting of others.  Your home, as public pools, should have a 6ft fence radius, so that people won't get hurt.

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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 8/30/2007 4:48:28 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		I'd ask my friends if they would object to him wearing a maids outfit.  You don't want to turn them off so much you lose your friends over it.  If you did you wouldn't be using the boards as a sounding board.

There are other things you can put him in if you just want him to remember his place.  Put him in a womans thong under his clothing.  Make him wear a bra and a baggy shirt.  Nipple clamps..a gates of hell. 
The ideas are limitless.  So much can fit under his clothing and nobody would be the wiser.

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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 8/30/2007 5:23:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		As far as the UPS dude, you'll just give him a good story to tell his buddie's later on.
Joseff

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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 8/30/2007 7:12:33 PM   
SubJordanTyler


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Status: offline 		I think it depends on who you are going to have over when he's a maid.  If it's people who you think could cause you problems if they see him like that, then I think the robe idea is a good one.  I'm either naked or in women's clothes at home, and I keep a robe handy if someone happens to knock on the door.  I can throw it on fast enough to be able to answer it before people wonder what the heck I'm doing in there.

I do leave the blinds open when I'm naked or wearing women's clothes, but I monitor it.  If it's sunny, it's very difficult for someone to see in.  But if it's cloudy or in the evening, you could see right in.  So I'll just angle them so it's not easy to see me inside like that - or close it all the way, especially when it's dark as night outside.  I don't need problems from others.  That's the main reason I do that, or I really wouldn't care who saw me.

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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 6/25/2008 11:47:42 AM   
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   I am Candace,passable cd with domestic expirence from Akron,I am a life long CD  and II do not care who sees me.I work n the phone so I do not get many business visters.I have delt with delivery people over the years,and have had no problems.I go in public where I want most of the time,and I am dressed coreectly for where I am going.When I am at work and dressed as a female,I wear a business skirt and blouse that are a bit on the plain side.

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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 6/25/2008 11:52:29 AM   
Akrongirlfri4her


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   I forgot to mention,when I am in my maids role serving a female,I gpp where I want most of the time.When doing general cleaning and errands,I ussually wear a black polyester maids uniform.If someone does not like it ,that is there problem.

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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 6/25/2008 12:53:18 PM   
katie978


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Status: offline 		 Not sure where you're all from, but where I live, it's not illegal for a man to be dressed in woman's clothes: no matter how silly he looks (not a dis to the CDs...maid costumes look silly on most anyone). I've answered the door for the UPS guy in considerably less clothing than I'd be comfortable in while in public. If they come to your house, they expect they might run into a slightly more "casual" environment.

If you're worried about when your mom drops over for tea, the closet idea could work- assuming your maid is willing and has time to hide.





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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 6/25/2008 1:19:21 PM   
WalterRego


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Status: offline 		For training purposes perhaps.....he could dress as a butler?

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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 6/25/2008 2:05:57 PM   
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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 6/25/2008 2:17:08 PM   
Akrongirlfri4her


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Status: offline 		Goddess,

I do not think it is against the law to dress as a girl in Ohio.My problem is that it takes about an hour to get dressed as a maid or office girl.

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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 6/25/2008 2:48:18 PM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		Maids, Housekeeper, Butler and Housboys would in Bruin Cottage always  be in the prescribed dress of the day and would open the door and admit visitors including friends and family and on formal occasions males be wearing correct livery including powered wigs. Not joking here it is what I expect staff to wear. Just part and parcel of the Victorian Lifestyle..

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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 6/25/2008 3:02:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		I sure hope the OP worked this problem out, as it was presented almost a year ago.  Uhhhh, and I hope she didn't shove him in a closet and forget about him all this time.  Phew, stinky!

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RE: maid costume when company comes? - 6/25/2008 3:13:41 PM   
mya75


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Status: offline 		If the uniform is meant for a female and that is the issue why not have an alternate uniform slacks ...or kilt style 

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