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Ravin -> RE: School? (8/26/2007 1:28:31 PM)
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I dare say that people are speaking in the sense that yes, all the activities and things we do aide us in our ability to lead the lives we choose. But as people "forsake the storm for the rain, thou without the rain there cannot be life( or renewal)" Yes, people need to have direction and focus in that we "work to survive, not survive to work" as the mentality goes, while life is testing us, giving us these plates that run over with school, work, kids, bills, etc......{ insert any number of things that seem to give each of us problems} folks are looking for a few perhaps tried and true tips on how to keep a good focus on the "Why we do this, whats at the end of the rainbow" and keeping the mentality and clarity that sometimes gets hazy when we're running 18+hour days.
1) Communication- True and Honest if even at times not glorious or happy as life and events are not always glorious nor happy. If a nightly phonecall does not work perhaps a personal blog, livejournal, etc is in order. there's so many ways to do this.
2) Make time- Make that 60 day or 90 day commitment to get together and do what it is Y/you both desire. Reconnect, reshape and focus yourself, center your mind and spirit. Likely you can return to daunting tasks and perform better then you were just prior because you've taken that much needed time out.
3) Whatever works for you both, etc.... is all that Matters. what works for 1 couple might not work for another. Find what works and run with it.
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