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Is there such a thing - 8/22/2007 9:44:15 PM

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Is there such a thing as too kinky?

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/22/2007 9:46:25 PM

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Is there such a thing as too kinky?

If you can think it do it and its SSC ......... no

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/22/2007 9:46:37 PM

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Either yes, or no. Depending on who you ask, etcetera.

I'd lean towards no, as long as it all remains consensual.

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/22/2007 9:50:33 PM

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Everyone will have a different answer. What is too kinky for some is not for another.

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/22/2007 10:00:53 PM

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Well, if think the word we cannot say 'round here, _uff (aka, murder) is "too kinky".

It's relative - but for me (and a whole, whole lot of other people too, I imagine ) that is probably "too kinky".

So is actual physical dismemberment of limbs, fingers, etc. (for me). No can do. Ever. Sorry.

I am not a fan of "Scat" - but consider it a lot less threatening, just disgusting.

I am not a fan of the things the TOS (terms of membership at CM) says we are not allowed to discuss here, and find all of them disgusting - with the exception of Financial Domination, which I think is up to the peoeple involved, But -

I do personally consider Finnacial Domination to be slightly silly, and personally irresponsible if one has a family to support, as it can be financial extortion, although that isnt always what it involves.

So my answer is "Yes".

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/22/2007 10:02:00 PM

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only when it becomes OCD lol

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/22/2007 10:10:38 PM

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probably if you want straight hair...

but theres a poet i absolutely love that puts it this way (to the best of my memory)
if i could change my genetic code
the first thing i'd do is go nappy

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/22/2007 10:27:23 PM

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probably if you want straight hair...

but theres a poet i absolutely love that puts it this way (to the best of my memory)
if i could change my genetic code
the first thing i'd do is go nappy

what?

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/22/2007 10:31:50 PM

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I don't know... heck I think what I did tonight was extremely kinky... but I'm not sure how many people would think that sitting in a big ol truck making out with their Dom is kinky... (sighs).... mmmm I so love it when he pulls those freaky nilla moments outta no where.

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/23/2007 6:27:32 AM

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To echo everyone, it depends on the person. To me yes, there is such a thing as too kinky. If you have a hundred-and-one things you love doing and want to do all the time it could make it very hard for your partner to keep up.

There are also for me some things I just won't do. I.E. anything with animals, children, scat play, vomiting, extream blood play, being sold as a slave with no limmits.

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/23/2007 6:29:02 AM

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Sure. Too kinky is anything two steps beyond what I do.

Not kinky enough is two steps below anything I do.

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/23/2007 6:37:46 AM

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I didn't think so but now I've read about the vomit kink in another thread then yes.

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/23/2007 7:25:29 AM

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...laughs at michelle's post...

Perhaps I should have started both threads in one.

My oppinion?

Nothing's wrong with desire, but on occasion following through with it can be a bad thing.

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/23/2007 1:44:53 PM

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Is there such a thing as too kinky?

As someone else noted...it is all relative but there are some areas that, even I accept the fact that others get into them, doesn't mean that I don't think that they are just wayyyyyyyyyy too kinky for me to do. Imagine them...create scenarios in my head and then relate them in the version of a hot bedtime story to someone else who, like me, does not want to necessarily go there live but enjoys the fantasy of it. And there are certain things that are just too kinky...i.e., the vomit thing...that I do not even want to think about, let alone do any imagining about.

Excuse me but...bleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhh.

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/23/2007 1:58:32 PM

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Is there such a thing as too kinky?

Playing to the point of serious and/or permanent injury or death I would say qualifies as too kinky.

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/23/2007 2:29:48 PM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: Hisbellaluna

probably if you want straight hair...

but theres a poet i absolutely love that puts it this way (to the best of my memory)
if i could change my genetic code
the first thing i'd do is go nappy

what?

kinky is not only used to describe unconventional sexual preferences....

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/23/2007 3:35:10 PM

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The answer to that is something I hope to discover before I die.
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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/23/2007 6:18:49 PM

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Is there such a thing as too kinky?

In my mind yes. Certain things (who are usually illegal anyways) I do consider too kinky because they by default cross the line of consensuality. That would be things involving children, animals, deceased people etc. I have no doubt that in that person's mind it is extremely kinky, But when the kink has crossed a morality (and legality) line then it is by my own definition too kinky.

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/23/2007 6:21:37 PM

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I think there are times that we do something that shocks even us and we are like "I can't believe I went there" especially when it's "I can't believe I went there and liked it." But as long as it's consensual in YOUR definition of what that means I guess the answer is no.

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RE: Is there such a thing - 8/23/2007 6:36:06 PM

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Never! But then it depends on who you ask.

I still remember a talk my mother gave to me many years ago. She was a bit late, it was after I was married and after my first child. something about catholic girls not liking sex. just grin and bear it. Obviously she was not paying attention. Because my brother was a dom well before I was a sub. But the 2 of us still look back of that infamous talk as funny.

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