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Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:05:27 AM   
fieryangel21


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Status: offline 		My mom bought a pair of socks that says "Dominatrix" on them with little handcuffs. She doesn't know what this means. Should I tell her, or should I let her wear them for a day first? I know people might not even notice them, but it's just the thought of her having worn them all day. Am I evil for even considering this?
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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:07:18 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		Maybe she knows what it means and she is actually a Dominatrix...lol.

Maybe she is coming out to you

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:07:56 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I dont think your mean, since it isnt going to hurt her. It'll be funny, once you explain to her what the word means. I dont know that Id explain why you know about it, though *chuckle*

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:09:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		seems like time for  a daughter /mother talk ,, you never know what you might find out
parents have a way of keepeing secrets,, and well letting the kids know in suttle ways,, you might want to take the coy approch and ask her where she found the socks ,, and why she bought them ,, just an idea for an opener

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:15:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		LOL. Good point came4u and MasterMataeo. If she's not as clueless as I think, then I have seriously underestimated her acting ability.

I guess I just always imagined she'd have spanked me more as a child if she enjoyed it.

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:19:54 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		She is just kinky maybe but not a sicko pervo lol.

She might want you to come out, yet want to remind you that she is your number one source of 'advice' and dominance, since you might need such in the future.

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:24:11 AM   
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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:26:08 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: fieryangel21

My mom bought a pair of socks that says "Dominatrix" on them with little handcuffs. She doesn't know what this means. Should I tell her, or should I let her wear them for a day first? I know people might not even notice them, but it's just the thought of her having worn them all day. Am I evil for even considering this?


There are many many things my adult children do not know about me. I am quite certain that is the case with you and your mum also.


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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:26:51 AM   
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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:26:51 AM   
MasterMataeo


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Status: offline 		anytime i can help i will,, i've been thinking about writting a theisis on the BDSM lifestyle,, go figure


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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:29:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		LOL what makes you think she doesn't know exactly what it means?  Or at least that's cute and funny for her to have something like socks (BTW where did she get those?) refer to kinky/wild stuff?

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:30:23 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		omg Tigress, lol one of my daughters is a teacher, another a banker, another is a business owner, quite prim and proper and would freakkkk at my er extra curricular obsessions LOL. They think I am a badass, cuz I fake that so well.  So shock would put it mildly.

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:30:45 AM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe she bought the socks for you and it's her way of letting you know she accepts who you are.

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 7:56:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		More importantly, where did she get them?


And... are you SURE she doesn't know?  That mother-daughter talk might be more informative than you expected.

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 8:06:14 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterMataeo

seems like time for  a daughter /mother talk ,,



"So mom....I think it is time we have a talk...." lmao....I would love to know what she said when you explain the birds and bees (BDSM).

And i am with LA, where did she get them?

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 9:52:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		I willing to bet that she has at least some of idea of what it means. She may not know what it means to you, she may associate dominatrix with lots of leather, insane heels, whips and chains but if she's watched any late night TV she's probably heard the term. My guess is that she just thinks it's funny, like the teenage girls walking around with t-shirts that suggest how easy they are.

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 10:00:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		I suggest she sees them as any other pair of novelty socks, it might as well say "2Hawt4U". I certainly don't think most people have no idea what a Dominatrix means. She probably just thought they were cheeky.

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 10:52:07 AM   
fieryangel21


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MizzElle

I suggest she sees them as any other pair of novelty socks, it might as well say "2Hawt4U". I certainly don't think most people have no idea what a Dominatrix means. She probably just thought they were cheeky.


This seems the most likely scenario. I'm glad you're not all picturing my mom in a corset and heels brandishing a whip.

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 10:55:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		The fact that she brought the socks should tell you something. Your mom isnt the one who is clueless.

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RE: Should I be mean? - 8/20/2007 11:03:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mommas know more than we would ever comprehend :)  Play sweet and ask her what she thinks that means?  If she is wise.. then come it to her :)
 
My best friend's daughter showed her her a flogger one night cautiously explaining the new "rage".  Boy was she surprised when Momma showed her her toy bag!  It opened up a whole new relationship :)

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