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Introducing ourselves - 8/18/2007 3:28:55 AM

JayEss

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Hello everybody, (Is it a requirement for me to do the A/a thing?)
We are a new couple to the site and We would like to say G'day and ask for your thoughts and advice.
My partner and i have been together for about a year now and still enjoying each others company.
i introduced my partner to the BDSM scene and She has enjoyed what we have seen and experienced thus far. We have found it to be difficult because we live and work in a remote location, but we have survived. As it stands you could consider us to be the weekend players type, we aren't lifestylers but we like to REALLY enjoy our sessions we have together.

We have identified ourselves as Switch because i jay consider myself submissive and Ess is more dominant. On that though She is new to the scene, She does enjoy being the Top and has and is continuely searching for insight, advice, tutorials, inspiration and experience as a Top (can being dominant be taught?, are there courses, or i guess classes you take to learn how to be a Top?).

i (jay) have played with other people before Ess and i feel wierd trying to tell Ess how to Dominate me, so if there is any advice on that topic please help.

We are in the process of returning to civilisation and we are really looking forward to having a real house to play in, i think that may help us a little.
well... We are glad we are here and are looking forward to chatting, sharing and learning from all of you lovely people of the Collarme forums.
Thank you for your time.

Ps. Sorry if I'm all over the place.

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RE: Introducing ourselves - 8/18/2007 10:12:49 AM

BreePix

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greetings,

here are a few URLs to look at i am not sure if they will be useful for the two of you or not but thought i would post them anyway

http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=162042
http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=256983
http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=153517

i know the links says they are stories but there not they were taken fromthe "how to" part of a story site and i am not sure how much the two of you can get out of it but i thought it was worth sharing

have a nice day

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RE: Introducing ourselves - 8/18/2007 6:07:47 PM

meticulousgirl

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Welcome to the boards, use your cm forum search tool to locate various threads on any questions that you might have and other than that Welcome to the boards and I hope to see more from you both soon.

~meticulous~

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RE: Introducing ourselves - 8/18/2007 6:34:05 PM

kshearsecouple

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I agree just look over previous threads and you'll get some great answers to your questions. Welcome and good luck in your search

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RE: Introducing ourselves - 8/18/2007 8:57:07 PM

Damocles809

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quote:

ORIGINAL: JayEss
Hello everybody, (Is it a requirement for me to do the A/a thing?)

Noooooooooooo, it's not a requirement. There are dozens of other ways to be annoying. Be creative :-)

And hey, welcome!

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RE: Introducing ourselves - 8/19/2007 3:06:37 PM

MoodDomme

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can being dominant be taught?, are there courses, or i guess classes you take to learn how to be a Top?).

I Say NO, you can maybe think you are dominant, But a True Dominant is instilled in you, from the start.

My Comment on this subject.

Mood Domme

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RE: Introducing ourselves - 8/20/2007 12:05:20 AM

JayEss

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Thank you evrybody for your warm welcome and your help. We will definately be around for awhile so we look forward to seeing you all around the forums.

Mooddomme> I can agree with you. A person can or must be in their nature powerful and confident to be a capable and strong dominant person.((thats the same for the world outside of BDSM. I believe confidenc is the key and a healthy imagination.))

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