Termyn8or
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"She should have aimed lower" Yes, she would fare alot better in court. It's a shame to say, but that is the truth. Most likely this girl does not need incarceration, except maybe for a short period. After that she needs to heal, and while I have broken people mentally and helped them rebuild for their own good, I am not that skilled at it. I am a damn good amatuer, but I am not a pro. I can help someone beat an inferiority complex, things like that, but this girl needs alot more. I wonder if she will be out of therapy by the time she is 70. I doubt it. People will abuse a child or allow that abuse to exist in our society. That should change, but probably never will. It makes a big mess. Now mind you this, a Woman, IMO opinion, has every right to kill someone who forcibly raped her. I would help. But I have my doubts as to whether I could help them through it emotionally. I realize other people are not terminators, they cannot discard their feelings like an ace in the card game hearts. The easiest way to bring solace to a girl like that is with religion, but one, I would never resort to it, and two, it could be rejected. She has been betrayed by BOTH Parents, and the legal system, and school system. She has faith in nobody at all right now. Not even herself. Not even in her self control, because she has killed someone who has not killed her. That is beyond religion's reach. The messy house means nothing, except for when you got animals and their droppings. Within reason, it is not required to be neat and clean to raise kids, but shit all over the place is unreasonable, even to me, a certified slob. But the very first thing I would say to the girl would be "So you killed him". Points along the way : Would you do it again ? Did you feel relieved ? What you did was totally within the law, but was illegal. The problem is who it was. There is no way you can handle this by yourself unless you are some kind of prophet on the mount or something. This is too heavy. Horror story was a well chosen set of words. T
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