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meeting - 8/4/2007 1:14:31 PM   
jessicadawn


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where is a safe, reasonably well lit place to meet someone potential so i can make sure theyre the right type- look, etc. for me? thats a public place, so if i dont like em, i can leave? or bow out without worrying about getting attacked, etc.
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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 1:24:39 PM   
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Personally, I like restaurants in malls or shopping centers...and for lunch (in daylight) rather than dinner.
 
It also gives ya a place to walk around a bit together, if you so choose...or say thank you and melt into the crowds.
 
Wait...I just read your profile:


i want to be forced
i like to be bullied
i want to be verbally abused
i want to be humilliated
i want to be stalked, and be the victim of a home invasion rape
i have rape fantasies
i like being slapped
im out of my head and no one can get me off right
i dont know this lifestyle
i need to be taught
i dont want to get hurt- i want to be made to cooperate
i want to submit
i want to be shamed

I didn't realize this was a joke... 
 
Nevermind,
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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 1:29:40 PM   
jessicadawn


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its not a joke- thanks for the suggestions- all good ones. i appreciate them
whats wrong with my profile?

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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 1:35:26 PM   
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I dunno, it just appears to me you are ASKING for the very trouble you asked to avoid.  I could be wrong.  The reason I even looked at your profile was because I couldn't believe an adult woman would ask such a question; aren't you old enough to already know the answer?
 
While asking for help to avoid trouble, your profile overall, it seems to me to beg for it.
 
But, that's just me.  Anybody else?


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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 1:38:34 PM   
jessicadawn


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no ive never done anything like this before
and i dont want any old ugly guy
i want a hot guy


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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 1:39:09 PM   
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Yes, there are mixed signals in this situation. Absolutely.

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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 1:42:07 PM   
jessicadawn


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well whatever
im not jumping into a rape fantaasy with anything less than the perfect person
i have standards
sorry
i thought this was where we came to ask questions

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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 1:43:27 PM   
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        How about a truck stop?  They are easy to get to and their are lots of people around.  Motel parking lots are good to.

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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 1:48:15 PM   
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I don't see any contradiction in your profile and wanting to be safe. You want to the right guy to fulfill your fantasies. Seems ok to me.
As others have suggested, meet for lunch or coffee at a mall or shopping center. If things don't work out, you could pretend someone is stalking you as you shop.

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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 1:48:56 PM   
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Hi there

i want to be stalked, and be the victim of a home invasion rape

Pull this out of your profile.  Please.  You can discuss it in person, with that perfect person.

Coffee shops are great places to start.  If I lived near an amusement park, I'd do that too; I love roller coasters.

Just some ideas.

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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 1:51:22 PM   
jessicadawn


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well thanks everyone!

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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 2:28:16 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: jessicadawn

well whatever
im not jumping into a rape fantaasy with anything less than the perfect person
i have standards
sorry
i thought this was where we came to ask questions


Okay, if we're to give you the benefit of the doubt...can you SEE how easily it is to misinterpret what you’ve written?  At the very least I hope you go work on your profile.
 
Yes, this IS the place to ask questions, but your profile is shocking enough that many people will not take your questions here seriously and others will not know that you want to KNOW your perp.  Please, re-write your profile.
 
And welcome to the boards…I apologize for misunderstanding you. 
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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 2:34:05 PM   
jessicadawn


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i did
i removed teh stuff i should discuss in person
knowing your perp
perfect wording there beverly
thanks
its shocking? really?
i thought it would be tame compared to like all the other things peolpe are into on here
go figure

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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 4:34:53 PM   
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If you care about hotness- goth clubs

If you care about hotness and personality- cafes and bookstores

Your fantasy is exceedingly common- but you sound like you have no common sense, or have locked it away.  That makes even basic fantasies dangerous and stupid.

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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 4:41:01 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: jessicadawn

i did
i removed teh stuff i should discuss in person
knowing your perp
perfect wording there beverly
thanks
its shocking? really?
i thought it would be tame compared to like all the other things peolpe are into on here
go figure  


Your fetish is not at all shocking... how you presented it, is;
at least in my opinion.
 
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RE: meeting - 8/4/2007 6:52:40 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

If you care about hotness- goth clubs

If you care about hotness and personality- cafes and bookstores

Your fantasy is exceedingly common- but you sound like you have no common sense, or have locked it away.  That makes even basic fantasies dangerous and stupid.


very well said LA i completely agree

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RE: meeting - 8/5/2007 12:10:11 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

If you care about hotness- goth clubs

If you care about hotness and personality- cafes and bookstores

Your fantasy is exceedingly common- but you sound like you have no common sense, or have locked it away.  That makes even basic fantasies dangerous and stupid.


LA, bookstores?
How do you meet a woman in a bookstore, they all have their noses buried in books.
Interupt?
"Hey there Blondie, read any good sex books lately?"

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RE: meeting - 8/5/2007 12:15:51 AM   
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You have to pay attention, popeye; re-read the OP.  This was not about 'picking people up' ...this was about arranging first-meets.
 
<shakes head>
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RE: meeting - 8/5/2007 3:41:00 AM   
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Each time I go to answer this I have flashbacks of a forensic science class I took. Especially after looking at the OP's profile. As others have pointed out... it screams, "Have your way with me, scare the living shit out of me for a while... and then fold me up and put me into an oil drum when you're finished." Could just be me, but with others having posted similar sentiments I'm guessing it's not.

I wholeheartedly agree with LA about lacking or locking away sense. The OP states that she's out of her mind in her profile. Any manipulative bastard worth his salt might be hugely attracted to that line. If I were a psychopath interested in someone that I could easily shape and bend for my own nefarious purposes... someone who has indicated that he or she has lost bits and pieces of his/her grey matter would certainly be giving me a green light.

I sincerely hope that the OP gets exactly what she wants from whatever transaction she becomes involved with... and no more than whatever it is she hopes to have happen. But the profile makes me cringe as I speculate as to what sort of eye it might catch.

To answer the OP... as Bearlee mentioned, a mall during lunch might make for a decent first place. There's mall security and large crowds. On the other hand... there's mall security and large crowds. Mall security aren't always trained to personally handle situations that go beyond theft. A friend of mine worked security jobs and her first instruction was... call the police. Her second... wait. She was directed not to get involved in physical confrontations. Also, large crowds means it's easier to disappear.

If being dragged away from somewhere remember a few things:

Fight dirty (because there's no such thing as "dirty" when you're being threatened). Gouge eyes. Kick, knee, jab or stab at the groin. Try to kick out the knees. Bite anything soft and fleshy. Bite any fingers that might get pushed into your mouth. Punch the throat with a closed fist. Go for the temples with closed fists. Or 'double clap' the ears, cupping your hands to simultaneously clap your hands against your attacker's head. Plenty of these will throw someone off balance. And the fact that you're not an easy target makes an average attacker lose interest.

And next... Scream. Scream. Scream. And not "help". That's about as effective as a car alarm these days. No one wants to be a witness. No one wants to get involved. You start screaming "FIRE" at the top of your lungs and you'll get heads to whip around faster than if you'd screamed "BINGO" in a room filled with expectant little old ladies.


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RE: meeting - 8/5/2007 7:15:28 AM   
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Yeah, all good points MDahlia.  I wonder about the OP, though...I don't see a single change in that profile. 
 
Hopefully was just a crank...
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