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Phin -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 5:19:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: instynctive My new fantasy: To yank on Phin's beard. ;-) Its been done... find something original [:D]

BitaTruble -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 5:25:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: earthycouple I must be boring. I seem to make my fantasies come to fruition because they are not unobtainable, illegal, immoral or unethical. Now I'm sad. S I'll sit next to you on the boring couch then, Earthy as all but one have been enacted. ::laughs:: There is this one fantasy I have that is not illegal, nor unethical, nor immoral but it is impossible since it involves a space shuttle and aliens and I just don't have access to a space shuttle nor do I know any aliens! I know, I know .. excuses, excuses. [8D] Celeste

littlesarbonn -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 5:28:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble quote: ORIGINAL: earthycouple I must be boring. I seem to make my fantasies come to fruition because they are not unobtainable, illegal, immoral or unethical. Now I'm sad. S I'll sit next to you on the boring couch then, Earthy as all but one have been enacted. ::laughs:: There is this one fantasy I have that is not illegal, nor unethical, nor immoral but it is impossible since it involves a space shuttle and aliens and I just don't have access to a space shuttle nor do I know any aliens! I know, I know .. excuses, excuses. [8D] Celeste Again, backing up my belief that finding a partner is much more about WHO you know than WHAT you know. [:)]

BrutalMasterOne -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 5:41:53 PM)
First, yes I have achieved my "ultimate" fantasy/fetish, but that changes all the time for not only am I a true Gemini but I also am creative and so when I do get there I look for new and more interesting things. What I found most interesting is the statement by many that they can't live out what they wish because it is illegal, immoral and/or fattening (I just had to add that) All that is required is imagination. Perhaps an example might help. I was once discussing this situation with a woman at a party. She said that her fantasies could not be lived out. They were "fatal." But I helped her by hypnotizing her. We then went step by step through her "execution." When she had to climb the scaffold (in her minds eye) and was ready to be hung, I placed a rope around her neck and pulled it tight as she dropped to her death. She lived it out to such an extent that she peed on the carpet. She lived it out and I was able to enjoy the fantasy of "killing" her too. Almost all things can be made to happen in one way or another, it just takes imagination and skill. So don't be disouraged, simply do the things that make you happy.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 5:46:34 PM)
As someone who engages in hypnosis play, trust me, I understand the avenues available and unavailable to me. The main fantasy I speak of is forced anonymous impregnation and birth. I can go through a lot of that mentally, and do usually at least a few times a week- but really, there's a lot to that fantasy that just isn't possible for a working gal.

BitaTruble -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 5:53:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn Again, backing up my belief that finding a partner is much more about WHO you know than WHAT you know. [:)] True, true. It's all about networking and I screwed up by falling for a muggle who wasn't a Trekkie or even a Gorean. Celeste

littlesarbonn -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 5:53:28 PM)
I guess I'm somewhat guilty for not making it clear enough in my original post, but when I was talking about "absolute" fantasies, I was really referring to something that you are seeking that you believe would make your life complete, that would bring you to a final point of where this is it. This is the moment you've been waiting for and fantasizing about your whole life. Not a fantasy that you have that you'd really like to explore one day. That's what happened to me. I was moving towards a specific lifestyle fantasy, not just an act, but a type of living a particular kind of life, and I achieved it. THAT is what I'm referring to.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 5:54:42 PM)
Oh well I'm pretty much living that- a better life than I had ever fantasized about before. I had to be TAUGHT that I could have it this good. Now that I have it- just try and take it from me.

petdave -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 6:18:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn I guess I'm somewhat guilty for not making it clear enough in my original post Ooh, you are in for SUCH a punishment! [:@] i donno. If you ever find pig shit on your roof, get back to me.

julietsierra -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 7:12:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Phin quote: ORIGINAL: instynctive My new fantasy: To yank on Phin's beard. ;-) Its been done... find something original [:D] Didn't we all just HAVE this conversation in another thread? Yanking on your beard may have already been done before, but that doesn't make it any less new or novel if WE'RE not the one's that have done it. So...when instynctive yanks on your beard, it'll still be original - just in a different way. THAT'S what makes it "original." juliet

Phin -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 7:43:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra Didn't we all just HAVE this conversation in another thread? Ummm looks around the room I dont think soo.... but then my mind is like a steel trap, anything that gets in it gets mangled...

SexyRed -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 8:22:26 PM)
I have livied out alot of my fantasies, some good, some amazing, some blah and some, uh oh moments. I doubt that living out any sexual fantasy would be as fulfilling as discovering the fantasy of finding a perfect or close to perfect relationship.

BossyLadyPamela -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 8:58:14 PM)
me too... some will always remain arousing thoughts only.. too much detail to make them happen... the ones that I have lived and touched. .....still get aroused remembering some of them..... a new person changes it everytime..with their personal energy mixed with mine-- same scene two new people (me and him--or her) new energy... new feeling... some I know I will get around to doing someday have too....have to.. that is still exciting........................................... My ultimate is to find a man to live a life full of what I love.. vanilla and this dark side for me.. his core is...submissive..mine is me.. I fall in love with him, his looks, his life..his being.. him back to me.. we have the remainding years to do it all..what ever pops in my head... all of it.-- sounds so simple.. but I just cant seem to find it all together.. I always find parts of it..

Masternslave07 -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 8:59:48 PM)
I usually try to stay with reality. It is quite enjoyable.

SusanofO -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 9:36:50 PM)
Ooooh. Hypnosis fantasies sound kind of hot to me, too. Now that someone has brought them up. I forgot how hot I thought that is. Hypnosis really used to scare the Bejeezuz out of me, but then after awhile, I realized that it could be really hot (for me). All I've done is fantasize about it, though. I haven't actually been hypnotized in any BDSM context (yet). I know I've been told by a hypnotist I know that I am very "hypnotizable" (he belongs to a non-BDSM-related social group I am involved with. He once gave this group a lecture one time, and he hypnotized everyone there (or tried to do that anyway). I went "under" almost immediately. I was surprised to find out that I was still aware of what was happening around me. Because I guess I thought it was like falling asleep, or something (it's not. Not really. But of course some here already know that). It would be interesting to try again sometime, with a partner. Except first, one of us (or both of us) is going to have to learn to hypnotize someone, hehe. Maybe my hypnotist friend could teach me how to do it. - Susan

SusanofO -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 9:53:08 PM)
I remembered another one. Getting "raped" when I am asleep (and also, strangley enough, "raping" someone else when they are asleep). For some reason, this idea really gets me going. It's easy enough to try, so I don't know why I haven't tried that one yet. Guess I am going to have to try that one sometime. Dammit, littlesarbonn,* look what you started. I am not going to be abe to sleep tonight.... - Susan

subfever -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 10:09:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SexyRed I doubt that living out any sexual fantasy would be as fulfilling as discovering the fantasy of finding a perfect or close to perfect relationship. Excellent point, especially when dealing with fetish, D/s, etc.

SusanofO -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 10:22:45 PM)
I agree with the above statement, too. - Susan

littlesarbonn -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 10:23:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SusanofO (and also, strangley enough, "raping" someone else when they are asleep). For some reason, this idea really gets me going. Dammit, littlesarbonn,* look what you started. I am not going to be abe to sleep tonight.... - Susan Um, not that I'm suggesting anything, but my room is left unlocked at night....

Emperor1956 -> RE: Ever live out your absolute fantasies and then wonder what's next? (7/30/2007 10:27:07 PM)
quote: Bita: and I just don't have access to a space shuttle nor do I know any aliens! Sure you do Celeste...Look around you. Aliens, everywhere. NOW would you really want to do them? E.

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