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How do you - 7/29/2007 9:30:10 PM   
MasterHXB


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RE: How do you - 7/29/2007 10:19:39 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		The only method I know that works is acting in a way that makes the slave want you to controll her. If you dont act in a way that makes a slave want you to be in controll nothing you can do will really controll her (nothing that wouldnt get you arrested anyhow)

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RE: How do you - 7/29/2007 10:32:29 PM   
mistoferin


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Status: offline 		Well if the OP of this thread:
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1169778/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm 
is your slave....all I can say is good luck with that.




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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 4:04:06 AM   
dawntreader


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Thanks for the link! Somehow i missed that whole thread! ROFL!!

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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 4:24:08 AM   
PlayfulOne


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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 5:02:40 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterHXB

control your slave? What are your methods?

i'm sorry but that's deemed as classified - you're not authorized to handle such information


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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 6:40:13 AM   
Mercnbeth


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Status: offline 		'Hobbling' stops them from running - a cattle prod gets them to move. An arm-binder keeps hands out of trouble and a ball gag reduces the distraction during TV sports. Keeping a tray hanging from their neck and attached with alligator clips to the nipples keeps them useful. At least that works with beth. When, or if, it doesn't we'll have a "Lenny - think of the rabits..." moment and I'll move on.

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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 7:00:54 AM   
chellekitty


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Status: offline 		i prefer to want to obey rather than be controlled...or you can put them in situations where you can use lines from movie like - "it puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again"  but thats not my only Hannibal fantasy so...it might just be me...

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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 7:07:54 AM   
VoxNoir


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Status: offline 		I would suggest you first ascertain if the "slave" you own is really a slave and truly wants to be controlled. If they aren't there is no legal method available to you to fix this.

We're going to assume that this person is a slave and does long for your control. Set up rules, standards and maintain them. Be consistant. Do not let things slide because you are too tired to deal with it or had a bad day at work. When she is good praise her. When not so good scold her. When bad punish her. (I am approaching this from a male Dom female submissive point of view. But the methods should be fairly universal.)  People need boundaries and slaves will at times test to make sure those boundaries are still in place. So expect it. Expect that she will do something that she is fully aware she shouldn't just to test those forementioned boundaries.

Also be worthy of her devotion. Be a man worth following; strong, decisive. Don't be afraid to admit you don't know something but be willing to learn. People on a whole react more favorably to someone they respect rather than someone they fear. So fear of punishment should NOT be the only motivating factor when she is faced with doing what she wants in comparisson to what you have told her to do. She has to be able to respect the man behind the order. So gain that respect. And keep it.

Specifics on how to controil the person you have in mind are hard without me knowing that person: their habits, feelings about certain issues, beliefs etc... Each slave is different, so though I have given you a few suggestions you will have to fine tune things according to the person you own. It is NOT easy being in charge. It IS WORK. So be willing to do that work. Another person's health and well being relies upon it.

Hope this helped.

Vox

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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 8:54:30 AM   
EclipseAbove


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Status: offline 		Plain and simple, you can't.  It is impossible to control another human being if they don't want to be controlled.  Also, the things you'd have to do to attempt to control them would be morally questionable at best and criminal at worst.

Perhaps what you really are asking is how best to assist someone who is voluntarily giving up control to you.  I think the answer there will depend on you and the other person.  It will be some form of conditioning (reward/punishment).  You'll just have to work with them to figure out what they best respond to.  With my slave, she responds best to praise as a reward and scolding with some paddling as a punishment.  But the paddling is more symbolic than actually painful.

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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 9:10:03 AM   
feastie


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Status: offline 		Take into consideration there are people who just aren't cut out for this stuff.





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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 12:53:13 PM   
chey


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Status: offline 		I wanted to post....thought I had some words of wisdom but when I got here? Nothing! Sorry! I have followed the other thread mistoferin linked to and just have nothing. I do wish you all a lot of luck though, hope it works!

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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 1:00:15 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Isn't she the one that offed herself the other day?

About the only control there is.....thaw= sit, freeze= laydown, thaw=sit, freeze=laydown...........oh hell, I dunno......


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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 1:01:20 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: feastie

Take into consideration there are people who just aren't cut out for this stuff.




No shit! And then there are some people that just are not cut out for independent living....aka....outside the "institution"


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 1:01:41 PM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		the same way you do of course; they chlorophorm them<NOT>

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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 1:47:42 PM   
excitedncurious


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Status: offline 		Orgasm control would work for me. :)

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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 5:57:36 PM   
Aine


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I'm curious, with 32 years of experience, why might you be asking this question?


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RE: How do you - 7/30/2007 6:11:07 PM   
PsyVamp


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: feastie

Take into consideration there are people who just aren't cut out for this stuff.

No shit! And then there are some people that just are not cut out for independent living....aka....outside the "institution"


LaTigresse... I haven't run into this pic of you prior to today.  Is that a new hairstyle?  Looks good in any case.

OP... are you asking for ideas, or exchanging ideas?

~Psy

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RE: How do you - 7/31/2007 12:59:57 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Thank you! Yeah, relatively new hairdo. Overdue new photo. (I was feeling guilty at the age of the previous one )

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: How do you - 7/31/2007 1:11:00 PM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterHXB

control your slave? What are your methods?

*edited because I didn't read the OPs profile ahead of time*
MWAAHAHAHAHAHAHHHA.
You, with 32 years of experience, is asking us how to control slaves?  Is that because of your recent experience with daughterslave? LOL  Why don't you show us how it's done!?!?!?!

< Message edited by MisPandora -- 7/31/2007 1:14:40 PM >

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