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VoxNoir -> RE: How do you (7/30/2007 7:07:54 AM)
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I would suggest you first ascertain if the "slave" you own is really a slave and truly wants to be controlled. If they aren't there is no legal method available to you to fix this.
We're going to assume that this person is a slave and does long for your control. Set up rules, standards and maintain them. Be consistant. Do not let things slide because you are too tired to deal with it or had a bad day at work. When she is good praise her. When not so good scold her. When bad punish her. (I am approaching this from a male Dom female submissive point of view. But the methods should be fairly universal.) People need boundaries and slaves will at times test to make sure those boundaries are still in place. So expect it. Expect that she will do something that she is fully aware she shouldn't just to test those forementioned boundaries.
Also be worthy of her devotion. Be a man worth following; strong, decisive. Don't be afraid to admit you don't know something but be willing to learn. People on a whole react more favorably to someone they respect rather than someone they fear. So fear of punishment should NOT be the only motivating factor when she is faced with doing what she wants in comparisson to what you have told her to do. She has to be able to respect the man behind the order. So gain that respect. And keep it.
Specifics on how to controil the person you have in mind are hard without me knowing that person: their habits, feelings about certain issues, beliefs etc... Each slave is different, so though I have given you a few suggestions you will have to fine tune things according to the person you own. It is NOT easy being in charge. It IS WORK. So be willing to do that work. Another person's health and well being relies upon it.
Hope this helped.
Vox
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