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Hello to All !! - 7/29/2007 10:29:12 AM   
ready2kneal


Posts: 3
Joined: 7/28/2007
Status: offline 		I'm new here, I know redundant.  I've just been able to accept, and put a name on my submissiveness, sounds like a good handle.  I've hopefully taken the first step.  I find it profoundly liberating.  Not looking for a domme right now, eventually when I'm ready to make that kind of commitment.  I'm here to learn.  I will gladly accept the wisdom of those who have been at this for a while.  I'm not looking to be a doormat, I know what that feels like, and I don't like it.  So to those of you who a willing to help a newbe avoid the pitfalls I would be greatful to hear from you. 
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RE: Hello to All !! - 7/29/2007 10:37:35 AM   
LadyLynx


Posts: 1098
Joined: 7/24/2007
Status: offline 		Hello, welcome to CM!  Btw a few things seem inconsistant with your profile......In it, says your straight, yet you say you are looking for a Domme.  Also does your husband know about your profile on here? Does he know of your general interest? How close are you to Ohio's major cities? (reason why I ask is so you can check out local bdsm communities.) say you live near Cleveland, browser search "Cleveland Munches" or Cleveland BDSM groups.  hmmm Oh I had alittle trouble reading what your wrote because of the dark color. :)  I liked the "vanilla beansprouts" cute

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Our community maybe openminded as a whole, but it is still made up of individuals who bring in their own opinions,baggage and agendas!

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I also go by the nic SwitchWitch on MDS.

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RE: Hello to All !! - 7/29/2007 12:52:40 PM   
ready2kneal


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Joined: 7/28/2007
Status: offline 		Hello LadyLynx

My post was inconsistant because I didn't realize that domme is female, and dom is male.......now I know!. Sorry.  No my husband doesn't know about my profile here.  My marriage is very confusing.  I do consider myself strait, but would consider a Domme (I'm  a fast learner) if the chemestry was there.

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RE: Hello to All !! - 7/29/2007 1:02:01 PM   
LadyLynx


Posts: 1098
Joined: 7/24/2007
Status: offline 		lol ummm that is still alittle confusing sweety.  If you are hetero, then why would you want to be with a female?  Even if there was no sex involved, men and women have different energies.  To be honest, your being married would be a problem to alot of people, especially that your hubby doesn't know.  The very foundation of good bdsm relationships, (hell of any!) is Honesty, not just to each other, but also anyone else involved, and to ourselves.  By lying you are setting yourself up (and all others involved,including hubby!) to be hurt.  I realize that you feel you cannot talk to your hubby about this, and that you want to explore alittle before telling him, if ever. But lying almost always comes out.  And even if it didn't could you really live with yourself?  How would you feel were the tables turned?  **Hugs** Anyways, please write if you have any questions. I am fairly new at this as well but I will help you as best as I can.

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Our community maybe openminded as a whole, but it is still made up of individuals who bring in their own opinions,baggage and agendas!

Known as SwitchWitch in my local community,and on IRC Bondage.

I also go by the nic SwitchWitch on MDS.

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RE: Hello to All !! - 7/29/2007 2:41:44 PM   
ready2kneal


Posts: 3
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Status: offline 		I have many reasons for not telling my husband about posting here.  Not sure if I want to fully explain here, it's complicated.  I wish the tables were turned, then he would atleast be being honest with himself!  I have expressed these feelings to him, but I know now that I have to take care of my own needs.  Our marriage has passed being on the rocks, it's more like slammed full speed into a shear cliff.  I'm not looking to find someone now.  I posted what I would eventually like to find, when I'm divorced.  Then it will be none of his business.  As far as women are conserned, not likely, but possible, I do consider myself hetero, but I'm not closing any doors so soon to the beginning of this journey.  Never say Never.  I was honest when I said I was married, if people have a problem with that, I'm sorry, but what are they going to do, spank me.  Until the time comes when I;m truly free to actively pursue a relationship, I'll continue to learn.   I welcome your offer for answers.  Thankyou.

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RE: Hello to All !! - 7/31/2007 11:08:23 AM   
CelticPrince


Posts: 3613
Joined: 4/15/2005
Status: offline 		ready,

Welcome to CM and all it has to offer someone in your situation.

Read the boards, drop into the chat rooms, stay low for awhile and he or she that you seek will show up.

PS fix your profile.

CP

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