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JimmySlattery -> Heloo from Vancouver - John, dom (7/26/2007 11:48:44 AM)

I'm a novice, hetero dom, just out of my first serious D/s relationship and looking for advice/mentoring from experienced men.
This relationship ended badly as the woman involved found herself unable to deal with acting on long-supressed desires and, worse, enjoying them. And inorder to salvage self-image, she blamed me for her feelings. So has anyone else dealt with this, any warning signs to watch for or telltales?
I really don't want this to happen again. Very distressing for both of us.
I was very solicitious of her wants and needs, careful not to do anything she did not explicitly ask for and generally believed I  was in a SSC relationship.



sbenson -> RE: Heloo from Vancouver - John, dom (7/26/2007 11:36:36 PM)

Hi Jim

I come to Vancouver a lot! Will be coming at Christmas with my pet Tigerr. Let's meet up for a beer?

Beste,

Simon Benson



sbenson -> RE: Heloo from Vancouver - John, dom (7/26/2007 11:38:17 PM)

I forgot to mention..my two first relationships were way rocky. I know pitfalls! Happy to share...



JimmySlattery -> RE: Heloo from Vancouver - John, dom (7/27/2007 10:54:41 AM)

Thanks Simon - much appreciated. Yep, this is tricky shit - if i thought your basic man/woman relationship was fraught with peril ...
But when it works, it's a wonderful thing.
But I've truly had enough paranoia, adolescent attention-seeking, neuroses and general bullshit in my life prior to this so i guess i just need to screen a little better. And, as an experienced friend (domme) told me - "Remeber, she had 40 years to practice not letting people know or see her problems. Don't be shocked if you didn't see them."

Love to pick your brain online if you're willing and certianly go for a drink when you visit. Business or vacation?


Best,

JS









JimmySlattery -> PS - (7/27/2007 10:56:14 AM)

PS - just need to add this so I get a notification of reply. Forgot to click it in fist message. And yeah, i can spell "certianly", just didn't



kittinSol -> RE: PS - (7/27/2007 10:58:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: JimmySlattery

And yeah, i can spell "certianly", just didn't



What a riot! That's priceless [sm=lol.gif]



sbenson -> RE: PS - (7/28/2007 12:29:41 AM)

Bit of both Jimmy. We always shoot a few models whilst in town..can't resist it. But last time we shot a sweet little subgirl new to the scene who had jest joined a local dungeon. Suppose we'll check it out.



JimmySlattery -> RE: PS - (7/28/2007 9:34:06 AM)

Well, anything I can do to help, let me know. Do you have a place to shoot and if not, what are you looking for?

BYW, my name is John -

Best,

John




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