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Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 8:45:51 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		OK, so this has absolutly nothing to do with BDSM, but what the hell, Ill ask it anyway.

Ive had sex with a girl before, but the menfolks always arranged all the details, never had to handle it on my own before. This upcoming weekend I have a blind date with a chick, Ive seen her picture but dont know anything about her. Strangly enough, I am move nervous about this date than any I have ever gone on before. I have no idea how to dress to impress a woman, what do I say? What do I do? Whats the proper ettiquite for this sort of thing? Do I treat this date just like any date Ive been on with a guy? Or what? Jeesh Im so confused...I hate being in control.....lol....

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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 8:51:30 AM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		Do you want to impress her, or do you want to have a good time?

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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 8:53:38 AM   
Rockwell


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Status: offline 		hello ghita,
nice to meet you.

What do you want to know? Advice?

I'll ask you first : Your profile says taken and straight. OK.  Now, you have a blind date with another girl?

"Splain if you will

Thanks, Zac

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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 8:54:47 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		Are those two ideas contradictory?

Im not being silly, Ive honestly got a million butterflies....

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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 8:57:24 AM   
Rockwell


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Yes, I think they are contadictory ideas - both what I said and also good time versus impressing her

*I'll make it easy.  Is this a one time hook up or a relationship to be continued? Is this something you want or are you being sent out on a mission?
What to do : be yourself. Find out more about the other girl. What are her interests, likes, ideas?
Even if it is a one tie thing ; be a friend. Be honest. decent.

you see?



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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 9:00:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		be yourself, women dress (they think) to impress women, but they really impress men.

Uh, if she likes chicks dress like you were going to seduce a man.
act polite and feminine, and don't be goal oriented to gobble up the gap, that is a mans world.

Enjoy, be pleasant and interesting as well as interested......be natural and if it is natural that you are gonna leave someones panties in the car, it will happen, women are pretty stingy with the gap when they want to be, but the right confluence of events and they try to give that shit away with BOTH hands.

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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 9:01:32 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		Rockwell....sorry about the profile misshap....it really should have said taken and bi...but its been ages since Ive really looked at my profile, and why I checked "straight" when I first made it Ill never know.

The profile also says towards the bottom that we have a pretty open relationsip...Up until now that really only included a very select number of people that we date/play with both together and seperately..but last week a friend of mine suggested I take this girl out for dinner and I agreed...now Im banging my head agasint the wall cause I dont know how to act towards her. Im excited, nervous, scared...all of the above and more....

Am I asking for advice? Yea I guess so...from those of you who have taken girls out to dinner before..what do they like? I know this sounds silly because yall are gonna say im a girl so I should know..but ive never been really "girly" ever....

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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 9:02:28 AM   
kittinSol


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Status: offline 		No, it's not contradictory... I understand about the butterflies. Enjoy them, they're like stagefright: it's good stress
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Imagine that the girl in question probably has very similar feelings to yours... where are you meeting? If you meet somewhere where you'll be comfortable, it'll help.


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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 9:03:19 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Oh wow, I would honestly have to have some sort of clue about the woman before I could say what would trip her trigger.

I could only say what would with me and I am kinda weird I think. Plus, there is that whole........ what is your goal?.........thing. Are you just looking for a..... good time, thanks, goodbye......kinda thing? Or something more long term and mentally/emotionally intimate?

Personally, I just go with........relax and be yourself.


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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 9:03:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		Relax.  And treat it like any date.  You want them to have a good time, and you want you to have a good time.  You want to get to know eachother and see if you hit it off. 

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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 9:07:40 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		Ok, ive gotten alot of questions about "whats my goal" and in all honesty, LA hit the nail on the button...this dinner this weekend is just to get to know each other better and see if we hit it off. No I am not looking for a one night stand, nor am I looking to replace my Sir/husband. Im hoping to make a long lasting friend with,,uhm..benifits? I know that phrase sounds cheesy, but I dont know how else to decribe it.

~~edited to mention that from what she said she is looking for the same thing

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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 9:13:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		No apologies needed, ghita. Thanks anyway.

Listen to the ladies, they know what they are talking about ( clearly - smile).  
You need to know more about her. You are honestly curious so ask her..

Don't worry if you are not a girly type. Girly may be the last thing she wants.

About the $ - go dutch.

Most of all Have Fun!
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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 9:30:46 AM   
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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 9:40:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ghita, you mentioned a friend suggested you take this girl on a date. Any chance the friend can give you suggestions as to what the girl likes? (food, music, hobbies/activities?)...i agree with the general advice given, just be yourself, relax and see what happens.  More than likely this woman is probably just as nervous as you are *smile* Good Luck!

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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 9:42:41 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		LMAO.....I was expecting something like that from you, fargle.....

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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 9:44:15 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		Thanks B, and yea, I am going to try to get some more information before the weekend.....grins...for future reference though...I will already know how to impress you and paint shiny stuff on my tits....when are yall traveling down here again?? hehe.....

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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 9:58:52 AM   
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Ahhh....Florida...i'd love to go back and visit (lived in Ft. Lauderdale 94-96).....i'm sure the Disneyworld trip is in the future somewhere


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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 2:37:53 PM   
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Ghita, you mentioned a friend suggested you take this girl on a date. Any chance the friend can give you suggestions as to what the girl likes? (food, music, hobbies/activities?)...i agree with the general advice given, just be yourself, relax and see what happens. More than likely this woman is probably just as nervous as you are *smile* Good Luck!


Concerts/Shows... Everyone likes music. ( Well, if they don't, I'd suspect them of being some sort of Alien, and not a person! )



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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/26/2007 2:55:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Speaking as the Lone Ranger of dating, ie I have never had many I have had a  blind date which was a total disaster: so my advice is, dont go lol

Why are you going on a blind date anyway ? A well meaning interfering friend. ?

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RE: Blind date..with a girl....someone help - 7/27/2007 9:08:22 AM   
Rockwell


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Ghita darling ( pushy, huh?)

Please let us know how your date goes.

good luck and relax.
Z.

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