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MasterMataeo -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (7/25/2007 8:20:52 PM)

for me mainly it revolves around the honesty trust and respect aspect ,, but also highly in the sexual as well ,, but first and foremost the aforementioned for with out them   certain things would not be possible , for one to give ultimate submission  one would hope tat the Dom/me would have the respect, and trust of their sub/slave  to honestly be aware of their needs and respect their limits 



MasterMike04103 -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/6/2007 1:56:08 AM)

In our relationship, my girl and I tend to beleive that there is a highly sexual side to BDSM, like pulling her away from her fire play chair to finish our play scene with a good hard romp on the floor... allowing both of us to have a beond orgasmic finish to a scene.



Darkhaven80 -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/6/2007 7:46:57 PM)

If it's about sex for a lot of people, I don't find that troublesome. To me sex is as major a factor in vanilla relationships I've been in as well, I guess like most things it depends on the people.



heartcream -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/13/2007 12:49:24 AM)

well, from wut i have learned, we come from sex. we all landed here cuz our mommy and daddy doin it. i feel it is all about sex. i think da whole world is about sex. i look fwd to more of dat reality gainin consciousness too. imo, of course.



becca333 -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/13/2007 1:06:42 AM)

For me....

...of course it's about sex.  But then, according to dear old Freud, practically everything is about sex. 

The wonderful thing is that there's a lot of other things too - intimacy and fun and challenge and courage and excitement....

...and bloody brilliant sex.

Aren't we fortunate, to know how to have THIS much fun, and to go ahead and do it!



came4U -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/13/2007 5:36:54 AM)

If it is not about sex, really how many would actually show up here?

We all talk about relief or release be it quick or slow, and how the Dominance or submissive of a person is the be all and end all.  If a couple became impotent (male or female, or both at the same time) and then we still find comfort in our roles as D or s, THEN and only then can we know the answer.

It is in the times of crisis or inability to function sexually and you still can look at your partner and say 'Gods you are awesome for still Domming/kneeling to me that count. Sex just keeps us occupied into thinking we are conjoined in some way in some higher enlightenment phase. Which is the higher evolvement?




Level -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/13/2007 5:39:13 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: julietsierra

To me, this is about sex. And laughter. And fishing. And confidences. And condolences when necessary. And happiness and some really great conversations. And sex. And intensity. and getting my ass beat. And sex. And love. And friendship. And life.

Anything less is unacceptable - to me.

juliet




Good post, juliet.



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/13/2007 5:39:25 AM)

for me, sex is not an issue. if it came right down to it, i'm quite capable of taking care of that matter on my own...LOL

sex is over-rated



Aileen68 -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/13/2007 6:02:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia
sex is over-rated



Not if it's done properly.



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/13/2007 6:04:22 AM)

it all leads to the same thing...a moment of passion, followed by hours of sleep with an almost uncontrolable urge to raid the fridge in the morning...LOL



Aileen68 -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/13/2007 6:07:06 AM)

Sex is stress relieving, fun adventurous, calorie burning, pore cleansing, mind cleansing, orgasmic, connecting, dirty, sweaty, primal....etc. etc. etc.
It can last all day through mental and physical foreplay.
And hell...even a quickie is good.



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/13/2007 6:12:58 AM)

good thing it's not a high priority for me...that sounds like work to me...LOL

(i am still in silly mode, so my comments are all in jest and not to be taken seriously)



feastie -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/13/2007 7:21:23 AM)

michael realllllllllllllllllllly needs an excellent blow job.



charlotte12 -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/13/2007 1:47:43 PM)

For me being owned turns me on. It also makes me feel happy and complete and turns on just about every sense in my body, not just "down there" [:D]. I like what SirDominic said that it's about sexuality which is different than sex. I can get turned on by a vanilla guy but i can't get the same rush of pleasure througout my whole body that i get when under someone else's control.

Mostly though for me it's about relationships. Any good relationship should be sexually satisfying to all involved but there are alot of other things that should be satisfying as well such as conversations and laughter and ...well..basically everything juliet said [;)] 



Enlightenedespot -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/13/2007 2:53:28 PM)

For me it's trust and respect and a bond...no, not that bond! After that, the sex can follow.



Viridana -> RE: Let's Talk About Sex, Babeeee... (8/13/2007 2:56:30 PM)

For me it's not necessarily for sex. It can be highly sexual though if I choose to play that way. It depends on the mood whether there is sensuality about it or whether it is purely the adrenalinerush. 



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