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stella40 -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/23/2007 12:04:51 PM)
Sorry to hear things are rough for you LA. I've suffered a few setbacks in the last week and been forced to change my plans drastically. But hopefully it's for the best. Hoping that the clouds in your life will clear to bring back the sunshine.

StellaByStarlite -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/23/2007 1:18:49 PM)
Well. Here's the lowdown on the latest bicker at Casa de Neurosis. We'll call it The Great Skank Debate. Ok, so my husband and I are lounging around on a sunday afternoon, flipping the channels. ( Ok, he's the one flipping, I never get the 'mote). Being the oh-so-intellectually savvy man he is, he decided to keep it on VH-1's "Rock Of Love", featuring Bret Michaels and whole bunch of .. you know, slutty strippers. Please don't think any less of me for confessing this. Heh. So, we're watching it (hurl), and he has the NERVE, the sheer GALL, to roll his eyes and make little disparaging comments about the chicks. I just couldn't let this go, so: "C'mon, you'd tap that if you had the chance, baby" Him: "Oh, hell no, I wouldn't" "LIAR!!!" Him: "Those girls are total sluts, they're all fake boobs and fake tans.... probably all sloppy..." "Well, no shit... isn't that the point of sluthood?" Him: "They're stupid..." "You'd fuck 'em, don't deny it" And on and on. =) This probably didn't make you feel any better, LA, but it's a slightly humorous glance at how my husband and I interact, anyway. I'm sorry you had such a stressful time of things. Ugh, life. ;)

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/23/2007 1:36:28 PM)
Add me to the list. The last two weeks have been an upside down, back and forth, twisty turny roller coaster ride from hell. I hate roller coasters. [:'(] No way am I taking the blame for all of it, even though some of my issues and insecurities (and probably some hormones as well) have gotten the best of me. And yea, I'm gonna blame the heat for some of it too. It's just frickin' miserable. And I have a sinus headache! BAH! [sm=boohoo.gif]

softness -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/23/2007 6:25:57 PM)
Waves .. am joining too ... everything that could have gone wrong romantically this week .. has gone wrong am blaming the gulf stream ...

domiguy -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/23/2007 6:50:07 PM)
I'm joining the crowd....Spoke yesterday to a sub on CM.....She is already collared as of today...Woe is me.

kyraofMists -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/23/2007 6:59:51 PM)
I noticed the trend and decided to stop drinking the water g Life is pretty good for the three of us. There are challenges and big changes coming right around the corner, but we are very happy together. I am happy that you had good news and you and him have worked things out. Knight's Kyra

TheHeretic -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/23/2007 7:09:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SexyRed because he prefers to POOF away than be a man and talk about issues Ummmm.... is there a nice way to point out the problem with this statement?

DesertRat -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/23/2007 7:50:45 PM)
~fast reply~ I think there's been some kind of disruption in the Force. Powerful weirdness this past week. Not good.

SexyRed -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/23/2007 8:15:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheHeretic quote: ORIGINAL: SexyRed because he prefers to POOF away than be a man and talk about issues Ummmm.... is there a nice way to point out the problem with this statement? Enlighten us.

TheHeretic -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/23/2007 8:32:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SexyRed Enlighten us. He believes that many men withdraw until they find a solution to the problem.... On the other hand, he believes that women want to discuss problems when they occur. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Are_from_Mars,_Women_Are_from_Venus We aren't wired the same way. It's a good book.

hejira92 -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/23/2007 8:36:57 PM)
I've been having a hell of a time dealing with not real-life issues, but real death ones. Master has been wonderful, but this week, something did break. His patience. Sympathy time ended and kick-in-the-butt time was here. I needed the dose of reality. I have to concentrate on being with the ones here and stop thinking about the mistakes of the past. Punishing myself will not make it better, help my kids, or make my ex-husband less dead. So- onward. Sometimes a meltdown is a good thing- clears the air like a rain shower on a dry summer day.

Lashra -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/23/2007 8:37:32 PM)
Wow it was a lousy weekend for me and my sub. He had family issues that were really bothering him and he got into a big blowup with his brother. I didn't find out until we were to meet up for lunch and he was in one pissy mood which put me on the defensive. We had been looking foward to a nice, heavy play session but instead I felt he needed to think about his behavior from earlier and had him do something else. Needless to say we did not have the usual good time that we are accustomed too.[&:] But as usual we made up before we parted, but still it was not the most fun we've ever had. ~Lashra

bignipples2share -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/24/2007 1:12:49 AM)
Yup, been progressively worse for the past two weeks, theft, alot of stress, death, top it off with hormone issues. Then all but one couple I know r/l either had major fights this weekend, broke up, or are taking a break in their relationship. What the hell happened? My head has been reeling. I guess the only thing I can find good about all this is the fact I'm not in a relationship right now. At least I didn't send some poor soul running for the hills to get away from my onslaught of emotions. I just miss the the hug I would have made them give me before they ran off. <edited to correct a typo> ~Big

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/24/2007 7:33:23 AM)
Well thank you all for sharing, I hope our fucked up selves will learn from the skinned knees and bumps on the head and work through them better next time around.

mercifulsiren -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/24/2007 9:52:47 AM)
I have to agree with everybody on this. We have been having one heck of a time with different things going on this past week or so. I just pray that things get better for me and everybody else. To everybody out there just keep your head up it does get better.

ownedgirlie -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/25/2007 1:59:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Well thank you all for sharing, I hope our fucked up selves will learn from the skinned knees and bumps on the head and work through them better next time around. Well has it gotten better? It did here. We both agreed that sedation is a good thing for me. Ha.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/25/2007 2:05:29 PM)
Oh yes, they were still a bit rocky since our hectic life has continued. But last night once we were home, I grabbed him by the scruff of his neck, slapped some leather restraints on him, engaged in some good foot worship and then watched an episode of Sex in the City (we're up to season 4 together). And I've already told him I have more plans for tonight.

SexyRed -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/25/2007 2:07:21 PM)
Every guy I have been dealing with in the past few weeks has completely and royally fucked up. I have to agree that I hope there is something in the air or the planet are misaligned, otherwise I have to give up any hope.

dovie -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/25/2007 4:27:15 PM)
joining in to say "#&#()Dd#@$#*" i must be from another planet which is NOT aligned with this one........going to go find a witch doctor and a super soaker for my holy water......white sage anyone? dream well, dovie

seekingtraining -> RE: Relationship Breakdown Week 2007? (7/25/2007 4:44:13 PM)
WOW...and to add to the week's woes...I was in a training relationship...my first...and he dumped me in an IM this morning (after he had reassured me more than once that if he ended it he'd do it in person...) and it was an intense two weeks for a newbie... For two weeks, according to his instructions, I have: -not worn panties (a first for me) -had a clean shaven pussy (a first for me) -been naked at all times when home (yeah, yeah..another first) -written and submitted a journal entry every day (a first) -been sessioned 6 times including a lot of sexual contact -not been in touch with other Doms -not masturbated or cum without permission (a first) -worn a butt plug to bed every night (although one night it was to be inserted vaginally) (a first) -had a bedtime given to me (a first) -been instructed to lose 5 lbs in two weeks (which I did) -told to wait in chairs at the gym until he arrived and to ask permission to leave -reported my schedule and whereabouts -he sent me his picture via email and said it was my new screen saver..so it became the pic on the screen I saw first thing every morning and home from work every day -hung my writing assignment (a punishment..it's 3 pages of lines saying I will obey as told) on my computer, my refrigerator and by my bed to serve as a reminder -worked very hard at being obedient and do what I was told...every thing I was told. So...for the past two weeks, there have been constant reminders...even more than one at any given time...about him, about training, about the lifestyle. It ends up it's difficult for me to keep things in perspective and not get really emotionally attached, and really excited in every way about someone with this sort of stuff (trying to be obedient 24/7) going on all the time....and his sub...who has had an issue with my presence from minute one...reminds me that it was only two weeks (like I'm not going to have feelings for someone who had me so intently concentrating on him 24/7 for just two weeks....). I highly recommend steering clear of relationships where the slave-in-training is expected to be so 24/7 when the Part-Time "Master", the Sir-in-Question, doesn't seem to understand what he's doing.....although his sub seems to have a real grasp on things.....

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