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slavegirljoy -> RE: Sexual preference vs. BDSM preference (7/18/2007 1:21:30 PM)
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Please, reread what i wrote. Please don't take what i wrote to be anything more than a statement about my own personal experience. All i said was that, from my experience, i have found the females that have used me to be less sadistic with me than the males (that have used me). i never said anything about "females might be afraid or unwilling to equal them." i just said that "i don't know if they were afraid of hurting me."
i simply stated what i have experienced. Nothing more. i made no broad-based generalization about Dommes v Doms. Perhaps these particular women, who i have encountered, were simply not all that sadistic. Not everyone, male or female, are equally sadistic. Also, like others have said here, when someone is playing with the property of another (as these women were, in my case) there may be a general tendency to proceed with some caution.
Just to be clear, here is what i said:
It's always my Master's choice, as to who uses His slave. It's His decision. He always chooses women to use me. i enjoy being used by women, as well as men, although i have yet to be used by a woman who was anywhere near as sadistic with me as men are. i don't know if they are afraid of hurting me, or if they just don't want to hurt me, but they have all been pretty mild with me.
If it were my choice, i would choose both a man and a woman. It's a totally different experience with a woman than with a man and i like the contrast.
slave joy
Owned property of Master David
"Commitment transforms a promise into a reality."
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ORIGINAL: Alumbrado
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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy
Please tell me, how is stating that none of the women who have used me have been anywhere near as sadistic with me as the men have been "a blantant attempt at topping from the bottom"? i really don't know. It was up to them how they chose to use me. i didn't have anything to say about it, at all.
I'm not an advocate of being offended on behalf of somebody else, but I suspect that there are a few who might read your comments that you find male doms to be more sadistic, and the suggestion that females might be afraid or unwilling to equal them, as an unfavorable comparison, or even an implicit challenge.
A challenge from a sub to a Dom to do it 'like 'Master X did it' is considered in some circles to be TFTb.
Or you could pay attenton to the smilies and not worry about it.
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