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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 9:48:13 AM

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I now have a craving for Greek food. Thanks Ron. Damn fafe falafals.

I can serve you my cock in the greek fashion if you're liking that.

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 9:48:44 AM

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well thats a fair comment, but subs rarely ask for money

Money isn't the only issue.

How about the subs that lie, are married and cheating, etc etc?

And I'm just curious - exactly what qualifications do you have that you are able to judge that a dominant or sub is fake just because they engage in activities that don't do it for you?

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 9:49:56 AM

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sorry mnotter, but brun above us just posted that i did, apparantly it was him who set up the list

but he now seems to have removed it

if your gonna post up baseless accusations at least have the decency to keep em there

i only have one profile on cm, though ive changed my name and used to be londonboychick, but that was sub as well

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 9:52:25 AM

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if your gonna post up baseless accusations at least have the decency to keep em there

Really - so should those that posted you on the fake domme list have the decency to keep you on that list since you say that is a baseless accusation?

Granted, it's a ridiculous conclusion. But then, I think "fake domme lists" and "if you charge money you are fake" accusations are equally ridiculous.

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 9:53:31 AM

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I can't find "The List". Oy I am so confused.

Maybe a nice Greek salad will help?

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 9:55:30 AM

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bit different aint it, this is a discussion board so i have a right to response, there is no way to respond to the list, except whinging in my profile

but i dont really care about being on the list, given im sub

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 10:19:18 AM

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Here to SHAME those who abuse this fine site by claiming to be "money dommes" and similar leeches... REMEMBER. they are COMMON CRIMINALS breaking several of our great British laws!
Obtaining property by deception, allowing a bank transfer by deception... i can go on.... Money Dommes and fakes you have met your leagal nightmare...

having said that being named as a common criminal is libel of the highest order, so i suggest you show me this other profile you allege i have, and then my lawyers can contact your lawyers, who will contact cm, find out the ip addresses, which will be different, and then we can agree a suitable settlement

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 10:43:00 AM

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well ordinarily id be against these lists as well but there seem to be so many right now, and they are asking for money

So? Some people get off on giving their money to these fafes. How dare you judge their kink!

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i think there are probably some vulnerable people on here and the fafes will exploit newcomers as well as make the place look untidy

The place look untidy? This is a lifestyle that is comprised of the population of the world. That means we get our fair share of idiots, assholes, abusers, and pyschos along with the sweet, kind-hearted folks. This is not a fantasy world where everyone who is into BDSM or has the title master or sticks slave in front of their name is a nice person.

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 10:45:41 AM

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i think thats a little unfair, or do you support con artists in general

Con artists decieve. If I post some pictures of me and take donations for my shopping sprees or let them buy time with me on the phone, exactly where the is deception? They know what they are buying. Contary to some opinions, most of us submissives/slaves are not stupid. We don't need to be wrapped up in cotton to protect us from ourselves. We can make our decisions, scrap our knees and get up all by ourselves without help.

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 10:48:15 AM

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can you get falafels and fava beans when that happens?
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OMG.......Im hysterical.
By the way, line forms to the right for falafels and to the left for the beans.

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 10:52:47 AM

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I'm not actually sure what constitutes a "fake" to the list. I have recieved a disheartening amount of harassment due to this profile, which is a shame because I am indeed a genuine person.

The whole thing is boring me now though. I believe I have enough information on my profile for intelligent people to make up their own minds (I suppose I can think of this as a stupidity filter!) and I strongly dislike feeling the need to prove myself. But for the benefit of those who are confused by this misunderstood fetish, I'd just like to explain a little about the sort of financial slavery I am interested in, taken from my journal. This specifically applies to me, but I'm sure a lot of others accused as well.

Power exchange of money in a real loving monogamous relationship isn't something I need, but to be realistic for a lot of older gentlemen especially, the idea of being taken shopping by an attractive young lady, having their credit card taken off them at the beginning of the day and dragged around the shops, made to buy everything, carry the bags etc is a great turn on and a positive experience to all involved.

It's a control fetish based on a Dominant and submissive interaction. Therefore it belongs within the D/s element of BDSM.

I also use this as a form of punishment. Punishments are not meant to be fun, and this is a satisfying way to degrade and humiliate a man enough to really make him feel used.

Obviously there are limits, and the financial part is by no means the whole or even that much of a large part of any relationship that comes out of this for me. However, I do have a Dom myself that I am in a real life relationship with, though I am entirely Dominant toward any other than he and I keep my own subs, but I am not looking for love or forever here.

The idea of economical slavery is very scary to many people as it is infested with fakes and not properly understood or regulated by mature, caring individuals. The same is true of other BDSM based taboos such as the Gorean lifestyles and the OWK, but when done correctly it is completely mutually beneficial.

I'm not just some retarded 18 year old. I know my stuff on this topic - more than the majority of people have bothered to think about, explore or try.

That's my take on it and you're entitled to yours. If you don't like it, please don't try and insult me simply because you don't agree, just move along and find something you're into.

I belong here just as much as you do.

I agree with the prospect of naming and shaming con-artists in principle, but only when the facts are straight and people aren't put up purely from "suspicion" or for just having fetishes that a few people don't agree with. Only when they are actually proven con-artists who aren't doing what they claim to be doing in their profiles.

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 10:56:12 AM

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well thats a fair comment, but subs rarely ask for money

It's not at all unusual for them to want to be entirely supported by the dom, not to work outside the home, etc. And I've seen a few whose need for 'rescuing' involves money or plane tickets, etc.

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 11:00:17 AM

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well thats a fair comment, but subs rarely ask for money

It's not at all unusual for them to want to be entirely supported by the dom, not to work outside the home, etc. And I've seen a few whose need for 'rescuing' involves money or plane tickets, etc.

Excellent point. If we consider how much a dom pays to support a non-working submissve (house, food, clothing, medical bills, transport to see friends and family if allowed at all, a little entertainment hopefully) on daily basis, donating whatever spare cash one has on hand to a money domme doesn't really compare does it?

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 12:43:00 PM

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It's not at all unusual for them to want to be entirely supported by the dom, not to work outside the home, etc. And I've seen a few whose need for 'rescuing' involves money or plane tickets, etc.

Plane tickets? No work? Saaaaaaaayyyyyyyyy there, Sailor! You takin' applications??

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 2:30:37 PM

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i think that there are not only fake dommes and doms , but fake subs too!!

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 2:50:46 PM

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I personally wonder why there arent as many pro subs as there are pro dommes...Id do it..I mean really...get paid to get beat on all the time?? Sounds like the perfect job to me! OK, to be honest, I see no problem giving money to someone in exchange for a pre-determined service. Thats not conning somebody! As long as they are up-front about it in the beginning, its a mutually agreed upon thing. And if some idiot wants to send money to someone for nothing, its not up to anyone on this list to protect them from that.

I as a chick have often allowed guys in bars to buy me drinks, and dinner...Im sure they assumed if the got me drunk and did things for me they were gonna get something later..but I never told them they would...so if they were silly enough to buy things...its not my fault they assumed wrongly!

I do agree there are plenty of fafe dommes/doms/subs/and slaves out there.....most of us who arent fafe, are smart enough to figure it out for ourselves.

I still wanna be a pro sub....can you like.....tell the people exactly what you want to have done in a very specific script like the subs who go to pro dommes do?

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 4:48:08 PM

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fake dommes list?
never seen it. but probably as i wouldnt bother to read such crap in the first place.
Now both my Dominant and i are forging new relationships. He has been accused of being a 'player' for not wishing to use the submissive on the first coffee meet. I could assure her that he is not in any way a player, having lived with me as his submissive for 3 yrs, probably has more Dominant experience than most she met for coffee. But she never bothered to check his credentials with his ex submissive before offerring herself for his use.
I too have been accused of being fake. And that's fine. Its a subjective opinion of someone else about me. Based on? well, if id played with them, gotten to know them, developed a relationship or friendship with them, id probably be gutted they thought that, and want to know what behaviours i was expressing that led them to deduce that opinion. But as those that have accused me of being fake, have
a) not had the balls to meet up face to face
b) have less experience than i
c) know me very little
i take their opinions with a pinch of salt, and consider both them and i fortunate that our incompatability was discovered early on and move on.
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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 4:53:02 PM

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Can I have a greek salad?

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RE: fafe dommes - 7/17/2007 4:55:01 PM

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can you get falafels and fava beans when that happens?
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OMG.......Im hysterical.
By the way, line forms to the right for falafels and to the left for the beans.

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