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CelticPrince -> RE: Kinky Service (7/12/2007 5:44:10 PM)
girl, nope that counts as humiliation. CP

malemaid4 -> RE: Kinky Service (7/12/2007 7:26:41 PM)
My training in service was to attend to Mistress's every need and whim while dressed in my Maid's Uniform, cleaned and starched.Never tried it in shackles but could be interesting. Will have to remember that for my next Mistress.

HCWT1 -> RE: Kinky Service (7/12/2007 9:01:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Elorin Kinky service: Cleaning all of my dildos for me Conditioning my leather harnesses, boots, and corsets for me Checking batteries for my vibrators Licking the dust from my boots Helping me to dress for a play party or scene Washing the toys after a scene with anti-bacterial/microbial ointment Acting as my assistant in a scene, handing me things when I need them, etc Foot worship Pedicures that include foot worship Brushing my hair, and each time I wince you earn 5 cane strokes. Performing as a body servant, running my bath, washing my back, shaving my legs, washing my hair, drying me off, putting moisturizer on my body for me, as a ritualized service. Checking toys and wardrobe for wear and tear, and itemizing things that need replaced. Ritualized cock worship with Daddy Daddy plucks his genital hairs so he is smooth, and sometimes I do it for him. Licking Daddy's feet. Massaging his feet. Being Daddy's foot stool. Polishing Daddy's chaps, boots, or leather slapper. Oiling the canes so they don't break. Checking the fire play kit for chips and nicks, filling the alcohol bottles, making sure the butane torches are filled w/ butane. Providing a bottom with extra aftercare after Daddy plays with her, or getting drinks for Daddy and a bottom while he gives aftercare. Wiping down the station after we play (if I'm able) or after Daddy plays with another so he can give aftercare. Putting together Daddy's spanking bench before we play. Off the top of my head.... ~Elorin Sitting here with a dom freind talking about what we would consider kinky,think most of the above is normal duties for any servent in service to,or for a day,but definatly not kinky in a bdsm scence. Domme here thinks this list is normal dungeon duties.

PairOfDimes -> RE: Kinky Service (7/12/2007 9:51:52 PM)
Hm...how to make service sexy, you mean? Ritual helps. Skimpy clothes and provocative postures help. Occasionally emphasizing service as expression of "class" differences or inferiority, or other bits of humiliation can help. Honestly, I think service is pretty sexy in its own right, and doesn't need help, but I've had friends and playmates who disagreed. Sometimes trying to make it too "special" or "kinky" detracts from the service itself. Objectification, esp. forniphilia, can be read as service. Truthfully, while it's fun to make a person a table, I generally find that tables are more useful tables, so I don't usually call it service. Or service topping/service bottoming? The former requires a special word ("service top," "submissive sadist,") to denote topping at another's direction, while the latter is embraced by many submissives and often regarded as "normal bottoming." Also, I've had people help me out with scenes--notably, for fisting and VW scenes--and I suppose that could be read as service, although I haven't thought of it that way.

dincubus -> RE: Kinky Service (7/12/2007 10:19:05 PM)
i see kinky service as regarding anythign sexual.. from assuming a position near the door of my home.. so when i come home after work i see her there, to possibly going to the length of serving a close couple friend of ours.. so it could be so many different things

daddyscherry -> RE: Kinky Service (7/12/2007 11:14:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goodpet May i ask, What are some different ways that is done? what makes it kinky as appose to just service? Different kinds of kinky service you think of.. i.e. doing the dishes is service.. doing them in a maid's outfit makes it more "kinky". Giving a friend a ride is service, picking them up in a detailed car, chauffeur's outfit/hat, opening the doors and role playing the chauffeur is makes it a kinky service... Well along those lines... Do the laundry is service, cleaning the house is service... Cleaning the house etc while wearing cuffs clipped in the centers on my hands and feet in stlletto heels makes it kinkier. Washing my Daddy's bathroom is service,... Doing the above naked in stiletto heels is inkier. (hey this is fun) Serving your Master dinner on a table or tray is service... Serving as a table for your Master's dinner is kinkier. Being a hostess for a party for your Master and his friends is service.... Being a party favor for your Master and his friends is kinkier. That's all i got for now. [:)]

Lewcifer -> RE: Kinky Service (7/13/2007 12:22:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goodpet But what do you think when you hear "Kinky Service"? How would you define “Kinky Service” and what kind of tasks or things would be included? Easy enough... requiring that My slave wife perform acts which I enjoy, but also associate with being kinky per standard dictionary definition. For example, requiring that she fuck herself with a cucumber in preparation for Me fucking her, or requiring that she ass-fuck a very large rubber phallus while I'm in her vagina so I can feel it rub Me from her insides. Here's another very good example with cultural boundaries... Japanese rope bondage and fantasy play. It's much more common in Japan than in the USA, and much more freely discussed. Here, it's considered "kinky" by normative standards whereas in Japan it's considered standard fantasy play. Hope that helps, and feel free to PM/email Me directly if you have further questions.

Elorin -> RE: Kinky Service (7/13/2007 5:43:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HCWT1 Sitting here with a dom freind talking about what we would consider kinky,think most of the above is normal duties for any servent in service to,or for a day,but definatly not kinky in a bdsm scence. Domme here thinks this list is normal dungeon duties. The original post asked what someone thinks of when they think of kinky service. I answered. Later clarification asked what makes it kinky. Anything that qualifies as "dungeon duties" is in my mind kinky, not vanilla. Thanks, however, for the dismissive attitude towards my opinion just because it doesn't jive with yours. ~E

gypsyfirefly -> RE: Kinky Service (7/15/2007 12:47:18 AM)
Hmmm ... maybe kinky service is completely stepping out of ones comfort zone? Such as cleaning a friend's bathroom naked, in stilettos and/or ankle cuffs while said friend observes, comments and rates your service? I honestly don't know ... just thinking off the top of my, albeit sleepy, head. lol I may way off base. [:-]

wwwkevinww -> RE: Kinky Service (7/15/2007 2:46:01 AM)
I think of it as indulging in another's kinks as a service, like Pro-dommes.

goodpet -> RE: Kinky Service (7/16/2007 5:37:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sublizzie Perhaps service in a kinky situation? For example, I can cater a kink event without the organizers having to worry about me getting all squicked out over the bad bdsm porn movie showing or people wandering around nekkid or in bondage. While I am not personally doing anything particularly kinky, I am in the middle of very kinky stuff that most caterers might be calling the police about. It's a kinky service to provide service at kinky events. Sublizzie, Thanks that is a good point about being a safe service provider for a kinky event or party.. I did not have that aspect yet.. understanding and accepting and not calling the police.. Thanks

goodpet -> RE: Service in latex (7/16/2007 5:39:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ProlificNeeds Kinky service strikes an impression of merely adding a kink to your services to make them more entertaining to observe, or more luxurious for who ever you're performing upon. nice way to describe it.. entertaining to observe and more luxurious for the person receiving the service.. thanks

goodpet -> RE: Kinky Service (7/16/2007 5:47:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit The first thing that comes to mine was this dominant my ex sub met at a halloween party at CAPEX in Charlotte, NC. He wanted her to come to his house and vaccuum his living room in a French maid outfit while hitting her with a flogger. Hmmmm. i'm from there a few years ago, and it seems i have heard that request from a guy down there before.. Yes that would be a form of kinky service..

boytoy4female -> RE: Kinky Service (7/16/2007 10:07:18 AM)
I think your question brings to light an important issue. Most appear to define the term narrowly. I define "kinky service" as all of the above and then some. I have done Kinky sevice by doing the dishes in a required attire, having my dom get off as I perform some kinky act or demonstrating my submission, on or in her presence. But, I would also add that a kinky service can be something that is requested and reinforces your kinky personality, such as watching or reading on a certain kinky subject . In my case, I have performed kinky service by listening to certain hypnosis tapes.

goodpet -> RE: Kinky Service (7/16/2007 12:24:29 PM)
boytoy, That is a great add on, the preparing yourself and improving of yourself. Both in skills and in general knowledge. Very nice, thank you for adding to this list. This was nice to get a few new ideas and ways to express some current ones. I am polishing up the old presentation for an event this weekend and going to add a few of the expression shared here. Thanks everyone. See you at WoodsStocks.. or Floating World... or BR.. or collarme.. ~ann

onestandingstill -> RE: Kinky Service (7/16/2007 12:39:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: goodpet May i ask, What are some different ways that is done? what makes it kinky as appose to just service? Different kinds of kinky service you think of.. i.e. doing the dishes is service.. doing them in a maid's outfit makes it more "kinky". Giving a friend a ride is service, picking them up in a detailed car, chauffeur's outfit/hat, opening the doors and role playing the chauffeur is makes it a kinky service... Or how about things like having to wear nipple clamps and have a dildo inserted to clean the tub, or to vacuum wrapped in saran wrap as yor only outfit. To be someone who has to bathe your Sir every day with your tongue vs a wash cloth or things like that. When I think of the term kinky service it's playing in sexual or sensual ways and serving at the same time IMO. suzanne

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