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i just dont get it - 7/10/2007 10:53:26 PM

Kranco

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hi my name is lilred,my husband has an account on here i just happen to find,we play

second life and he is reading the gorean books.i have tryed to be part of the slave /master on second life i was in the city of kasra as a slave.i want to play along with this on the game and real,but i have a husband who told me he was no longer interested in this.i bought alot of bondage things on the game.now i find out he has been coming to this web sight,im really hurt that i would change and try something new,only to find out the something new he wants isnt me.
lilred hurt in iowa

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RE: i just dont get it - 7/11/2007 9:50:43 AM

Spankmehard5

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I am so sorry ! you must feel betrayed ....honesty in my opinion is the most important thing in any kind of relationship....all relationships are built on trust and that is especially important in bdsm there is so much scope for people to do many things in this world ......just be up front and honest about what your needs are.
I don't think that this world is about the equipment that you have at the end of the day whips blindfolds and bindings can be made from just about anything, it is more about a special bond of the deepest trust and respect creating a situation where you are able to let out needs that you would normally keep hidden from the world.
Your partner /Master may have just been trolling or trying to gain more knowledge on the subject a lot of people on these sites just like to chat to like minded people.
It sounds like you need to sit down and really be honest to each other about your inner desires and needs before you continue on this path.
It is sometimes difficult to admit things even to your partner/Master for fear of judgment....i guess that's where the trust bit comes in.

I wish you well and hope you truely find a way to trust each other.

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