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RE: Make up their mind!! - 7/8/2007 8:30:16 PM

LadyHugs

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Dear Mystique567, Ladies and Gentlemen;

From what I see in forums and other Female Dominants experience in addition to my personal experiences--it does happen way too often.

Many a Dominant comes in contact with me, crowing like an old rooster and then I start communication and they suddenly switch into submission and a trail of fantasy expectations as if I am a 'service TOP.'

No dear lady, you are not alone in these experiences; or the same people who create multiple screen names that they forget that the many times they contact you and or their 'cut and paste' advertisements and qualifications. Personally, it really smells foul--and it boils down to see how quick he can get laid in a kinky fashion without having to pay for services. A male 'power/control game'--If you reject them, no matter how polite one is--to which I consider myself to be--be prepared for an onslaught of insults, claims of being a fake and or a number of negative and or immature words, gestures and or threats.

Just some thoughts.

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RE: Make up their mind!! - 7/8/2007 8:32:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: Mystique567

Has anyone had someone approach them professing to be a straight Dom, you talk to them, spend time with them and then all of a sudden you see their new profile, they are submissive and BI?

Does this happen alot? Or am I just a magnet for the really really odd?

A better question might be ... has anyone NOT had this happen, LOL
A good test is to offer to spank them in your first email back - then see if they roll over and wave their arse at you
ROFLMAO

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RE: Make up their mind!! - 7/12/2007 6:54:51 PM

Mystique567

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I suppose I should get used to the eccentricities of others.

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RE: Make up their mind!! - 7/15/2007 10:45:55 PM

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Yeah, I once had a guy IM me who I had messaged on cm who's profile said he was a dom but then he wanted me to control him which was really weird since he was playing my dad and I was the little girl.

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RE: Make up their mind!! - 7/16/2007 5:34:56 PM

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When I first read this all I could do was giggle. It's quite sad there are so many ppl like that here blah

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RE: Make up their mind!! - 7/16/2007 8:02:08 PM

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When I first read this all I could do was giggle. It's quite sad there are so many ppl like that here blah

your cute...

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RE: Make up their mind!! - 7/16/2007 8:03:29 PM

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um, where do I fill out the application that says I'm only hetero?

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RE: Make up their mind!! - 7/16/2007 8:15:03 PM

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RE: Make up their mind!! - 7/16/2007 8:19:45 PM

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RE: Make up their mind!! - 7/16/2007 8:21:56 PM

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Damn I can't believe all the shit that goes on out here (domiguy stops typing to scrape the last bit of wax off of his balls and to try and remove the remainder of the strap stuck in his hiney)

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