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HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 4:01:26 PM   
mkesplace


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Status: offline 		I am new to all this and was wondering if some would post what all the terms mean like scat, floggers, and all the other stuff, also could you post some good web page link to read..thanks
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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 4:04:05 PM   
velvetears


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Status: offline 		Do your work man!  How lazy - google it all if nothing else. Why should we do your work for you

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 4:05:58 PM   
kyraofMists


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Status: offline 		Google is your friend... try it and I am sure you will find more information than you can imagine.

Also there is a search feature at the top of the forums and you can search for the words that you want to learn about.

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 4:07:57 PM   
MySweetSubmssive


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Status: offline 		We don't know all the terms you need to know because we are not inside your head.  The best thing for you to do would be to google "BDSM" and "your word you don't know."  It's very easy to do, and it will likely lead you to other information you would find interesting.

And you would be doing your own work!

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 4:10:10 PM   
mkesplace


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Status: offline 		velvetears yes I work and work two jobs, We all know about searching the web and how alot of times you get a bunch of crap. Being new to this I thought it would be better and safer to ask first hand the people that would know.   kyraofMists Thank you for the information I will do for search area. I did not see it. Thanks so much for your help.

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 4:23:08 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Unlike these other people I would be glad to help....

1) Scat......It's a nice way to tell your sub to beat it....Or..."Hey, hows about you scat down there and give me a bj."

2) Flogger....As in to flog....Flog= love.  "I flogged her so much she could barely stand to be around me."

3) Fisting.....Holding your fist up while shaking it at your sub and scream..."Get me a gyro...Now!"

4) Butt plug...Anything you can ram up someones ass...I use a little red thermos I used to take to grade school....When your done the cocoa is still warm...mmmmm cocoa!

Just private message me and I will assist you on your journey....I am a mentor.

< Message edited by domiguy -- 7/5/2007 4:24:17 PM >

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 4:27:01 PM   
Trampler


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Status: offline 		Well when you browser anything, some of the stuff you come up, bound to be crap.  But you just have to keep plugging at it.

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 5:24:38 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Deviant Dictionary or slang dictionary should serve you fine.

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 5:46:28 PM   
spanklette


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Status: offline 		If you click on the activities in the CM checklists, it gives a short definition of most terms.

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 6:00:46 PM   
velvetears


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ORIGINAL: mkesplace

velvetears yes I work and work two jobs, We all know about searching the web and how alot of times you get a bunch of crap. Being new to this I thought it would be better and safer to ask first hand the people that would know. 


Telling you to do the work has nothing to do with your employment and everything to do with YOU taking responsibility to research and learn "what all the terms mean" yourself.  You don't know any of us from squat, you're going to take a strangers word for what bdsm terms mean?   Seems a lazy approach to me, i don't care how many jobs you work.

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 8:01:31 PM   
heavenleigh


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Status: offline 		One of the best resources for the new-to-the-lifestyle people is www.castlerealm.com.  Plan on spending a good amount of time there, there's a lot to read and learn!

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 8:18:33 PM   
MaamJay


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Status: offline 		I would also recommend Mistress Steel's excellent archive of writings
http://www.steel-door.com/Chamber.html

But I am in agreement ... you should be doing some of your own learning and reading to at least get up to speed in the basics.

Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 8:35:12 PM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		Good BDSM resources:
www.thebrc.net
www.wikipedia.com (generally has decent definitions, articles)
http://public.diversity.org.uk/deviant/frames.htm - The Deviant Dictionary
www.urbandictionary.com/ - Slang Dictionary
 
And a pretty good links website exists here:
http://www.fetishalliance.net/Links/links.htm

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 8:36:58 PM   
Trampler


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Status: offline 		Castle Realm is a good resource for newbies, but it is just alittle romanticized.(sp?)

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/5/2007 8:39:35 PM   
Elorin


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ORIGINAL: Trampler
Castle Realm is a good resource for newbies, but it is just alittle romanticized.(sp?)


It's written from the point of view of the romantic D/s relationship, it just doesn't talk about the other kinds of relationships that are out there to be explored.


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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/6/2007 4:39:26 AM   
MamaDomme


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ORIGINAL: mkesplace

I am new to all this and was wondering if some would post what all the terms mean like scat, floggers, and all the other stuff, also could you post some good web page link to read..thanks


Scat is shit............... seriously.
Floggers are implements used in spanking/whipping.

But I like Domiguy's definitions best!!  ;)

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/6/2007 12:25:21 PM   
Trampler


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Status: offline 		though somebody might take DG seriously, thats scary!  No offence meant DG, I always enjoy your posts!

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RE: HELP BDSM - 7/6/2007 1:20:29 PM   
DarkDaddyZ


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Status: offline 		Good to see someone refer to the Deviant's Dictonary :)

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