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MaamJay -> RE: Release and repercussions (7/2/2007 7:03:21 AM)

Yes I understand that and have done denial scenes ... trouble is then I am also denying Myself the pleasure of watching him cum for Me ... double bind that!

Maam Jay




robertolapiedra -> RE: Release and repercussions (7/2/2007 6:42:40 PM)

Hello again. Of course you should not deny yourself. But you could time it with the end of a scene. As for cuddling and after care? Better have him do something for you, "focus" on you, than be the focus of your attention (focus on him). The only thing you can "work" on, is "lag time" before regaining "erotic" thought.

The older the sub, the bigger the lag time. With experience, some subs compensate with non sexual service until they regain more of the "erotic" part of the dynamic. RL.





robertolapiedra -> RE: Release and repercussions (7/2/2007 6:45:07 PM)

Hello SimplyMichael. I would not say "worthless". Just tell them to go wax your car or something. RL.




becca333 -> RE: Release and repercussions (7/2/2007 6:47:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

My understanding from female dominants I know is that men are very submissive till they cum and are worthless after...thus all the play with denial and chastity.


That's not just female dominants.  Men seem to wear out pretty fast, and take a while to recharge.




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