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Turning red! - 6/22/2007 12:20:39 AM   
luckycharmpoppet


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Status: offline 		How can you turn more red from flogging, caning, spanking, etc? (I know the intensity matters that doesnt seem to be the issue.)

It doesnt seem to matter how hard I am hit on my ass or thighs, but I cant get very red at all from it!!! I know that taking aspirin and/or red wine can help with bruising, but no matter what I do, we cannot seem to get my ass to turn a great shade of red at all.

We have spent countless hours trying. haha. Ranging with things from wooden spoons, canes, crops, paddles, otk, etc. I will be sobbing and balling and just cant get red! Part of spanking for me is seeing the aftermath, I just love that feeling.

So...we tried flogging other parts of my body and, not very much redness at all. Even when my breasts are bound for 30 minutes at a time, with very tight ties. Tight enough to leave blood blisters and get cold, but they dont seem to change color very much.

So, we thought maybe we werent doing things hard enough and I'm just a big cry baby. hehe... but nope, we dont think that's it either. Especially since I really like pain and I will welt, but will have very little redness.


I wanna change colors!!!!!!!!! So, how do we make me? Help! Thanks!
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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 12:31:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		paint?...LOL i'm sorry...i wish i could tell you....it maybe something that your body just doesnt want to do (the turning red thing)

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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 12:38:17 AM   
LadyHeart


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Status: offline 		Turning red is the result of blood rushing to the skin surface. Peripheral circulation is affected by a number of things. The main environmental factor is cold. The blood goes to the body core, not the skin, so playing in a warm room helps. Physical factors are things that affect blood supply to the skin surface. Inhibitors are diabetes, low blood pressure, smoking and layers of fat, to name the  main ones. If you have more than one of these factors at work, you'll have less blood flow. Are any of these relevant? If so, unless the underlying condition is fixed, you're not going to get red.
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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 12:48:19 AM   
BrutalMasterOne


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Status: offline 		try a Canadian or the Louisiana Prison Strap...that should work.

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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 3:45:46 AM   
nyrisa


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Status: offline 		Increasing blood circulation to the skin should help. Having a warm bath prior to play; sitting on a heating pad while he sets up the play area; a massage of the area to be played with, all should help.

I would not recommend aspirin, as that decreases blood clotting abilities for the whole body, not just the desired area. It's nice to have pretty cane marks, but it sucks if you hit your shin on the coffee table, or cut your thumb cooking, or heaven forbid, have a car accident or appendicitis that evening.

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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 6:45:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ditto on the warm playing area thing.

Also, try abrasion play.  Don't just use a flat wooden paddle, use a ping pong paddle.  Or add sandpaper to a wooden paddle.  Be sure to have an antiseptic handy for afterwards.

Also, I'd suggest (if your diet permits) a couple candy bars and a soda a half hour before you play.

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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 10:39:57 AM   
luckycharmpoppet


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Status: offline 		Hmmm... that would make sense, all of this! We keep our place like an icebox. hehe. So, it's always fairly chillly. We keep the thermostat around 68. I will definitely try the whole warm bath prior next time! Thank you all!

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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 11:05:20 AM   
CreativeDominant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: luckycharmpoppet

How can you turn more red from flogging, caning, spanking, etc? (I know the intensity matters that doesnt seem to be the issue.)

It doesnt seem to matter how hard I am hit on my ass or thighs, but I cant get very red at all from it!!! I know that taking aspirin and/or red wine can help with bruising, but no matter what I do, we cannot seem to get my ass to turn a great shade of red at all.

We have spent countless hours trying. haha. Ranging with things from wooden spoons, canes, crops, paddles, otk, etc. I will be sobbing and balling and just cant get red! Part of spanking for me is seeing the aftermath, I just love that feeling.

So...we tried flogging other parts of my body and, not very much redness at all. Even when my breasts are bound for 30 minutes at a time, with very tight ties. Tight enough to leave blood blisters and get cold, but they dont seem to change color very much.

So, we thought maybe we werent doing things hard enough and I'm just a big cry baby. hehe... but nope, we dont think that's it either. Especially since I really like pain and I will welt, but will have very little redness.

I wanna change colors!!!!!!!!! So, how do we make me? Help! Thanks!


You've had some very good answers here.  In addition to heating the room up, you might want to have your dominant try some light percussion all over you...stimulate the blood vessels to begin bringing blood to the surface before you go into specific striking.

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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 11:11:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		It's because you miss me.  Scientifically, I can't explain it, but I know that is why.  The explanations you've been given are interesting though.  You learn something new every day. I love that picture, btw.  

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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 11:31:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		You can also try a hair dryer. That works also for making the soles of the feet extra ticklish.

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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 12:16:13 PM   
DerMeister


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Status: offline 		There's a product called "5-hour energy drink" and it has LOADS of vitamin B in it. According to the label, "you will feel a tingling and expereince a redness of the skin". They call it the Niacin flush, something about the blood rushing to tthe surface of the skin. It's the only energy drink that keeps me alert (due to the infamous lunch-coma) without turning me into a nervous, sugar crashing wreck. It might be worth a shot...

http://www.5hourenergy.com/



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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 1:23:14 PM   
MstrssPassion


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Status: offline 		you mentioned flogging often enough...

What material are the floggers made of? Is is suede leather (soft fuzzy surface leather) or rawhide leather (smooth shiny surface) or a non-leather product?

Suede doesn't tend to make skin bright red like the rawhide would.

I would also suggest you find a wide item made of rubber. Rubber will definitely redden the skin.

Paddles work well for reddening... much more so than floggers.

good luck

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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 3:46:48 PM   
MagiksSlave


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Status: offline 		Thank you so much for starting this thread, I have the same problem and it gets a bit frustrateing for Master and for me because it seems he cant mark me. I will deffinetly try the warm bath as well as the asprin.. how long befor a scene do you take the asprin and how much should be taken???
I also know one problem with me anyway is I have honey tone skin so it isnt as easy for you to see the red so that is another obstical!!!

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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 4:29:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wet a wash cloth wipe over a area of  skin to damped it. Then use paddle or rubber flogger. The impact sting will be intensified greatly. Be careful not to hit too hard right off

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RE: Turning red! - 6/22/2007 5:20:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		You could aways try spending a bit more energy on the sexual aspect, since one of the side effects of arousal is the blush response. And a blush is nothing more than blood getting pumped closer to the skins surface

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