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gypsygrl -> RE: Is there an actual label for this? (5/19/2008 11:43:37 AM)

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Pain is very much an ego issue for me, the incredible satisfaction that i receive for going beyond the point that i thought i could surpass is a rush of exhilaration and joy that i can easily become positively addicted to.


But, the end point is "exhilaration and joy."  So, you get something positive out of it.  I would say that falls nicely under the masochist lable.

I think of masochism in terms of a pleasure/pain conversion process.  I can convert a painful stimulus into a pleasurable experience via a variety of techniques I've learned, though sometimes this happens over a period of hours or days.  Things I hated in the moment, make for happy memories.  Its simplistic to say I get pleasure from pain, though it works for everyday purposes.  But, as soon as I start to think about it a bit, I have to say, nah, thats not quite right. 

ed: I didn't realize this was an old thread when I posted.




angelikaJ -> RE: Is there an actual label for this? (5/19/2008 11:59:37 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

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Well, due to this scene and some casual play spanking and stuff over the last few weeks (mostly as a test ass for Her new "Impish Designs" custom paddles; i had come to some new conclusions...

i am a masochist, i love pain when it's Ma'am who is hurtting me!!!  There really makes a difference when you love and feel safe enough to fully open up to the one who's beating you.  i think that Ma'am might even be in danger of turning me into a painslut over time.  LoL

Sincerely,

the Imp's pet
darchChylde
oren - a very happy boy


For me context is everything.




LadyPact -> RE: Is there an actual label for this? (5/19/2008 12:10:58 PM)

I'm so happy it was that kind of experience for you.

Any time you're ready, I'll happily allow you to tell Me I was right.

[sm=iwin.gif]




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Is there an actual label for this? (5/20/2008 7:48:38 AM)

Happy dance for oren!  [sm=alien.gif]




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