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ready4srvce4all -> RE: Courtship (6/24/2007 5:47:43 AM)
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I think there has been some wonderful advice in the posts so far for you. But those who have said, "put it in your profile", I only agree with to a point. I don't think you need to state "you must court me" or a checklist. Instead, give them a little homework. I feel any Domme who wants to be courted by a sub would do better by having in their profile, "Before contacting me, tell me something about Elise Sutton."
When my journey began with Mistress, I had asked Her for some people who She admired. One of those people was Elise Sutton. For a submissive male, I can't think of a better person to read. Ms. Sutton talks to the submissive male about courtship, and that a Dominant woman has the same desires as all other women.
I think you will find having a little homework assignment for your boys will get them going in the right direction, but also you will know if they can do even the simplest little task for you right away. Kind of whipping two subs with one stroke of the whip!
Of course, that would mean you would need to peruse Ms. Sutton, if you already haven't. If She is new to you, I think you will discover a wonderful resource. Who knows, maybe there is a nice man out there who might actually gift you one of her books.
I apologize if my post sounds like an infomercial on Elise Sutton. I know she isn't for everyone, but for your situation, I think she's perfect.
Best of luck in your search.
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