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LadyPact -> RE: Too many insulting profiles found on Collarme (6/21/2007 11:31:08 AM)
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ORIGINAL: ron2421
I often wonder why so many people on Collarme cannot be more friendly and sociable in their profiles. Reading them sometimes leaves you feeling a bit angry.
As one example, there's nothing wrong with telling everyone you are already taken, or are only out to chat or make new friends.
But isn't there a way of doing it without coming across as belligerent and condescending towards any one who isn't your lifestyle partner(s).
Furthermore, some profiles read like the authors have a serious bug up their butt.
I fear outsiders who come across Collarme will read these profiles to leave with the conclusion people in the lifestyle are either unfriendly, narcissistic or emotionally unstable.
To me, anyway, it does not seem like a good excuse to be intentionally rude and insulting as a way to try to limit an overwhelming number of responses.
Some here need to lighten up. Be kind to other members of the group. We're all here together.
How does that old saying go: You attract a lot more flies with honey than vinegar.
Since you specifically mention this trend to follow those who are not seeking, they aren't trying to attract anyone in the first place. Maybe you're just not getting the hint.
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