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cjenny -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/17/2007 5:02:23 PM)

Where's the boundary of a uniform?
Does this count?
http://www.sylvie-monthule.com/fr/dept_29.html


Wow that counts for me and then some!




thetammyjo -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/17/2007 5:07:37 PM)

At public BDSM events Fox usually wears his lock on shoes (they are leather, he adores them), black pants or jeans, and a button down or form fitting shirt. If he's been good I'll let him wear his rubber catsuit.

With the rubber he wears his leather collar, with the other collars his stainless steel one.

In my opinion, his job as my slave is to be there to be shown when I choose to show him. He is not there to stand out or to be showy.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/17/2007 5:20:55 PM)

I admit I envy slaves who never are required to do labor which would require practical coverings and eternally get to be naked, or wear costume type things.

On the other hand, that would mean I wouldn't be allowed to play in the park with my nephews or do all the fun stuff we like to do together- so really, totally worth that sacrifice.

For me, my thoughts align very much with Evanesce.  





LuckyAlbatross -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/17/2007 5:22:08 PM)

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In my opinion, his job as my slave is to be there to be shown when I choose to show him. He is not there to stand out or to be showy.

That's so funny!  My ex master loved when I wore costumes and flashy things and loved for me to get attention and be showy because it distracted attention from him.




thetammyjo -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/17/2007 5:49:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

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In my opinion, his job as my slave is to be there to be shown when I choose to show him. He is not there to stand out or to be showy.

That's so funny! My ex master loved when I wore costumes and flashy things and loved for me to get attention and be showy because it distracted attention from him.


Perhaps we have different personality types then.

I delight in showing Fox off and he is an attention whore. But it is a reward not the status quo in my household.




BeingChewsie -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/17/2007 5:54:48 PM)

In this household it is conservative dress, polo shirts, dress pants or shorts in the summer. I wear scrubs when I work the unit as a nurse. Lately I have pulling off wearing capri's without any complaint from him. Nothing slutty, no collars, no cuffs, we don't own any.




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ORIGINAL: SirEbonyPhoenix
It's been a while since
 
my last post, but despite that, I've given much thought to this topic: When it comes to the submissive/slave uniform, what does a Dom/Master have in mind for them to wear? To me, it has to be more than just a collar, a leash, wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs because the idea is to make a submissive/slave presentable and beautiful, particuarly when they are attending a public event. My vision is to dress a submissive in not only the items I described, but also to have her wear some hosiery (not pantyhose) and maybe some nipple jewelry to keep their attention. I'm not sure of what everyone else's opinion is, but as they say, different strokes for different folks.




grlneedstolearn -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/17/2007 5:56:06 PM)

Since my Dom and i don't go to parties, at home i wear usually only ankle and wrist cuffs with a play collar. And if we do go out in public to eat or something, i'll wear either my ankle cuffs if it's cold and i can wear pants, or i won't wear any gear during the warmer months.




julietsierra -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/17/2007 6:00:41 PM)

wow...my collar was in the car when it was stolen. So much for a collar. My real collar (not the same thing as a "true submissive") is wrapped right around my heart and it never comes off - even when I shower.

My only requirement is to wear black - from the inside out, and this I do - whether it's a pair of skorts and a top, a dress, lingerie or even a bathing suit. I rarely wear what could be called "fetish" wear.

My style of dress leaned more toward the elegant even before I met him.
His style of dress for me leaned more toward the elegant right from the beginnning.

juliet





MercilessMarcy -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/17/2007 6:01:58 PM)

I like my slaves naked, except when I have company.  Then cowboy chaps and vest work well.  Slaves and subs seem happiest when naked. In my household anyway.   Obviously, uniform is whatever suits my fancy at the time.




Nosathro -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/17/2007 6:08:22 PM)

Tal and greetings
 
I have a foundness for a chain tunic....a chain mail bra and leather thong on a kajira.
 
I wish you well
 
Nosathro




frazzle40 -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/17/2007 6:08:46 PM)

i must have missed the uniform memo as well.  
I wear what he says.  High heels and mini skirt arent exactly appropriate if going rock climbing, yes i would if told too, but He better have casualty on standby.




AquaticSub -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/17/2007 6:27:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: frazzle40

i must have missed the uniform memo as well.  
I wear what he says.  High heels and mini skirt arent exactly appropriate if going rock climbing, yes i would if told too, but He better have casualty on standby.


Not appropriate for martial arts either.




DiurnalVampire -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/17/2007 6:31:48 PM)

My boys get off easy. I like how they look in jeans and tee shirts, so that is what I want them wearig around me. Or at home in private its just jeans, no shirts.  When we are playing, Angel may be n panties and a nighty , but thats just our thing. Kitten is a boxers type.
AS long as they look good, I dont really care what they are wearing.  They arent showy, whic is fine by me.

DV 




becca333 -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/18/2007 12:21:55 AM)

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becca333
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ORIGINAL: Rafters

Where's the boundary of a uniform?
Does this count?
http://www.sylvie-monthule.com/fr/dept_29.html
Does a blush?
How about the wet patch creeping down the inside thigh of a pair of blue jeans

If a sub's uniform is their Dom's whim, then the uniform concept must a be flexible concept [:D]


Ohhhh wow.




MaamJay -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/18/2007 1:43:51 AM)

Master has me wearing skirts (which i love anyway and have far too many of LOL!) and no panties, although for certain events/weather conditions, i can request permission to wear trousers. Bra is a necessary evil (or i'd knock my teeth out when i run for the phone!), and a comfortable top, no real restrictions there about buttons or none. Shoes are to be comfortable but attractive, i'm not a sneaker kind of girl anyway. Master is essentially a practical man so comfort is the most important criterion for Him. At bdsm events, i usually indicate what i feel like wearing and Master approves or disapproves. i have a full length cloak, 3 corsets, a long velvet fetish dress, a totally split skirt, and various lingerie items to choose from, though one time Master had me wear only one of His black shirts and thigh high stockings and that looked pretty sexy!

As a Domme, I am similarly practical. However, I do like men wearing a leather harness, so in suitable weather conditions, that's what he would wear around the house with briefs or maybe shorts. I'd also be happy with him attending a bdsm event in a harness. However My previous sub was a CD ... who took longer than I did to choose his outfit LOL! I'd be happy with a sub who just wears what I tell him to!

Maam Jay aka violet[A]




Kitte9 -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/19/2007 6:54:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: angelic

oh criminey... we now have to wear uniforms???

~walks away muttering about never getting the freakin memos~


Falls out of the chair laughing.




Celeste43 -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/19/2007 7:22:25 PM)

His favorite uniform is the schoolgirl outfit. And what is it with garter belts, they undo themselves at every possible moment?

I still don't understand people who never wear panties. You get up in public and discover you've started your period and have blood stains showing on your clothes. This is appropriate in what way? Not to mention the ick factor of sitting in a chair slimy from some woman in micro mini and no panties. Ick, ick, ick.

He wants me able to follow him on a moment's notice whether it's up to the lake for the afternoon or come shopping at Home Depot for stuff for a client's bathroom redo. The outfits others wear wouldn't fit into his life, nor mine for that matter. I don't go to the barn or horse shows in high heels and cuffs. The horse wouldn't care one way or the other, all he knows is that when I show up peppermints immediately appear.




charismagirrl -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/19/2007 8:11:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Celeste43

I still don't understand people who never wear panties. .....  Not to mention the ick factor of sitting in a chair slimy from some woman in micro mini and no panties. Ick, ick, ick.

This becomes something you learn to work around, well, something i've learned to work around....i sit on the side of my thigh when there is a reason for me to sit in a skirt in public OR you learn to carry along something else to sit on, sweatshirt or something. (depending on where you're going) It honestly becomes second nature (it has for me over the past year and prior to then i never wore skirts)

He wants me able to follow him on a moment's notice whether it's up to the lake for the afternoon or come shopping at Home Depot for stuff for a client's bathroom redo. The outfits others wear wouldn't fit into his life, nor mine for that matter. I don't go to the barn or horse shows in high heels and cuffs. The horse wouldn't care one way or the other, all he knows is that when I show up peppermints immediately appear.

This is something else that i've learned to work with. i keep a seperate set of clothing to jump into at a moment's notice, near the front door....A baggy pair of jeans and a big sweatshirt (i live in LA and it's chilly at night almost year round so this works)...i also have comfy shoes that i can just slip into....my Daddy called one day and gave me a minute to meet him outside and i was wearing leather cuffs on ankles and wrists-clipped in the centers....a super short negligee thing and high heels.....i was able to change (with the cuffs and
wearing the negligeeunder the sweatshirt), and be out side waiting within that minute.

This isnt to say that this works if we are going somewhere special, i am still like alot of girls and toil over the whole process for an entire day. [:)]




proudsub -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/19/2007 8:16:33 PM)

We don't do public events, but if we did i would hope He would allow me to wear my black fishnet body suit.[:)]




AquaticSub -> RE: The submissive/slave uniform (6/19/2007 8:20:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Celeste43


I still don't understand people who never wear panties. You get up in public and discover you've started your period and have blood stains showing on your clothes. This is appropriate in what way? Not to mention the ick factor of sitting in a chair slimy from some woman in micro mini and no panties. Ick, ick, ick.



Agreed. I only go without panties when I am wearing jeans or (rarely) a skirt that comes to my knees. In this house though, the no panties is thing is just because I sometimes feel like going without, not because Valyraen prefers it. He has to order me to wear clothing and underthings! [:)]




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