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RE: pain pleasure conditioning - 6/9/2007 10:31:00 AM

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Thankyou all for the input...i am REALLY hoping i don't turn out to be a big weenie....LOL....(honsetly i DON'T think that will happen) i am really looking forward to testing and implementing this and seeing how far it/i can go....

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RE: pain pleasure conditioning - 6/9/2007 12:05:21 PM

Aswad

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ORIGINAL: slaveish

You can also use minty toothpaste on your clit, followed by ice. It burns. Masturbate through the pain.

I remember doing something like this by accident once in my late teens.

There's this disinfectant / mouthwash called Vademecum, which I had spilled over my hands, undiluted. Wiped it off, and didn't feel anything. And, going to bed, I did the usual thing for that age. Except I quickly noticed things weren't going like they were supposed to. Slight burning and cooling of the skin. I found it complemented the pleasant bits quite nicely.

I don't call myself a masochist because it doesn't work for me by itself, and building up the intensity hasn't worked for me. I either have to dissociate, block the sensation from awareness, or keep it to a low level. The experience I mentioned was my first exposure to keeping things at a low level, though I use other means to do that nowadays.

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RE: pain pleasure conditioning - 6/9/2007 11:55:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: imthatacheyouhav

Thankyou all for the input...i am REALLY hoping i don't turn out to be a big weenie....LOL....(honsetly i DON'T think that will happen) i am really looking forward to testing and implementing this and seeing how far it/i can go....

It's all about figuring out what you enjoy and if you're comfortable going farther. So relax and enjoy! You'll never know if you don't try and hey, it's not like you've failed some silly "submissivier than thou" test if you don't like, say, clothespins. Maybe you'll end up liking wax instead. Maybe you won't like any of it.

Sure is fun finding out though :)

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RE: pain pleasure conditioning - 6/10/2007 9:52:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: WhiplashSmile

This may or may not work for you. I've found results using clothes pins on the body and on the nipples. They don't have to be attached for too long. Just long enough to experience the sensation of pain, however upon removing them the body experiences the sensation of blood flow along with nice little pleasure tingles.

I know personally, that whenever I've had clothes pins on my nipples (yes, I'm somewhat maso) and after they were removed, That wow, the my body becomes very stimulated. Actually, my nipples are somewhat stimulated/arroused for a few days afterwards even. But this is just me. I normally don't play with my nipples! But I have an urge to do so, for a few days after clothes pins. Yeah Yeah Yeah...

This is the very same effect it's had on most my partners as well. Not all, but most.

All you need to do, is add some mild sexual stimulation during the tingles of clothes pins removal, along with some addition mild pain i.e. light flogging.. WOW.. then have intense sex. Pain=pleasure..

Though I don't have a clit, I've found the same reaction occurs in my partners, where there clit becomes extremely stimulated after removal. Arousal lasting for a few days and comments such as "Damn you, I've been horney as hell all day long after what you did to me last night".... LOL..

This may or may not work for you! Hopefully it does.

I have to agree with what Whiplash said.

I cant get into detail but I experienced something similar Friday night. It's a great way to start out. Cunt whipping is another way as well as hot wax for some.

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