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Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 3:40:02 PM   
Hugeharford


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Status: offline 		Does anyone out the have articles and or techniques for A. finding that Dom "Voice" and B. the methods to get a sub to have an orgasm just by being told to in the proper tone and voice?  I have looked everywhere and have come up empty.  I appreciate any suggestions out there.  Thanks to all.
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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 3:40:58 PM   
michaelOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		do people need a script to do that?

LOL


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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 3:44:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was cum/orgasm trained, I was {still am able to an extent} to cum and/or orgasm on command and to what 'extent. It just took practice and work, I was exhausted afterwards; yet, I could do it with a look given, or a tone or a word, etc; imgaine hearing that 'word' durign dinner, it makes for interestign conversation thats for sure. The only place where I KNOW their is info is on another site, but its down right now. Email me for details.


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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 3:48:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have trained my slave to cum on command. I don't know of any  how to articles, basically hypnosis and her commitment to pleasing me did it.

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 3:48:27 PM   
SageFemmexx


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Status: offline 		it's a low tone that strikes the chord right in the depth of your being. I've been able to orgasm on command for years. I think its a form of subconscious suggestion that imprints itself.

anyway. He's always had alot of fun with it--picking on me sometimes is the highlight of a very long day.

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 3:57:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		What you are asking for is to understand the principles of Behavioral Psychology (training to respond to a particular stimulus).  Pavlov best approached this with his "drooling dog".  The dog learned to salivate to a bell being rung.  You are asking the of your slave.  Google Skinner, Pavlov and Behavioral Psychology and any texts on this subject will give you the full ability to train.  Be warned, pick the stimulus wisely - or she may cum in a work situation if a bell is rung...lol 

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 4:20:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

do people need a script to do that?

LOL



seriously.

you either know how to do that sort of thing or you don't  it's a mind-body connection that can't be taught.

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 4:25:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Finally a thread on this sensitive subject without some jackass saying something like I DONT BELIEVE PEOPLE CAN REALLY CUM ON COMMAND I CALL BULLSHIT AND IF GUYS REALLY THINK THEIR SUBS ARE DOING IT WELL THEY'RE JUST FAKING IT TO PLEASE.

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 4:26:44 PM   
littledove00


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Status: offline 		certain things can not be faked.

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 4:27:44 PM   
Lordandmaster


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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 4:28:47 PM   
littledove00


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Status: offline 		i was thinking a little more visual. but whatever.

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 4:35:39 PM   
slaverosebeauty


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Status: offline 		I can fake. Proud, hell ya. Have I with my current partner, hell no.

Cumming and/or orgasm on command takes trust and patience. It was worth it though, now, most of that is gone, yet, I can STILL hold out until I am told I am allowed to cum or orgasm most of the time, thank goodness for deep breathing.

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 4:39:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hugeharford

Does anyone out the have articles and or techniques for A. finding that Dom "Voice" and B. the methods to get a sub to have an orgasm just by being told to in the proper tone and voice?  I have looked everywhere and have come up empty.  I appreciate any suggestions out there.  Thanks to all.


(I'll presume you were asking a question...I'll wait until you ask it in a coherent fashion).

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 5:03:28 PM   
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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 5:11:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Griswold

quote:

ORIGINAL: Hugeharford

Does anyone out the have articles and or techniques for A. finding that Dom "Voice" and B. the methods to get a sub to have an orgasm just by being told to in the proper tone and voice?  I have looked everywhere and have come up empty.  I appreciate any suggestions out there.  Thanks to all.


(I'll presume you were asking a question...I'll wait until you ask it in a coherent fashion).


so why say anything? is that called for?

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 5:25:05 PM   
LadyPaige


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ORIGINAL: Griswold

quote:

ORIGINAL: Hugeharford

Does anyone out the have articles and or techniques for A. finding that Dom "Voice" and B. the methods to get a sub to have an orgasm just by being told to in the proper tone and voice?  I have looked everywhere and have come up empty.  I appreciate any suggestions out there.  Thanks to all.


(I'll presume you were asking a question...I'll wait until you ask it in a coherent fashion).


His question was quite clear to me, and aparently to others as well. 

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 5:31:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hugeharford

Does anyone out the have articles and or techniques for A. finding that Dom "Voice" and B. the methods to get a sub to have an orgasm just by being told to in the proper tone and voice?  I have looked everywhere and have come up empty.  I appreciate any suggestions out there.  Thanks to all.


I have found that it can be done but it took patience and finding the right triggers for each one...tone of voice and level of sound, the setting, her mindset, etc., etc..  I would imagine that it varies from individual to individual and that for some women, it does not work.  You will find those that say they just don't believe it and yet, there are women on here who swear they have done it and male dominants who swear they taught their female submissive to do it.  I am in the latter group...

I don't know where to look.  I learned about it through another discussion group I was on which at one time, really enjoyed discussing the intellectual elements surrounding the physical elements of w.i.i.t.w.d..  Sadly, that group deteriorated and happily, that led to my coming here.

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 5:50:30 PM   
Griswold


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littledove00

quote:

ORIGINAL: Griswold

quote:

ORIGINAL: Hugeharford

Does anyone out the have articles and or techniques for A. finding that Dom "Voice" and B. the methods to get a sub to have an orgasm just by being told to in the proper tone and voice?  I have looked everywhere and have come up empty.  I appreciate any suggestions out there.  Thanks to all.


(I'll presume you were asking a question...I'll wait until you ask it in a coherent fashion).


so why say anything? is that called for?



It would appear (based on the fact that I responded)....so.

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 6:14:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		I recently taught a girl to come on command via hypnosis.  I am a long standing practitioner and it took about an hour to put her into a deep enough trance.  Her keyphrase, which only worked when spoken aloud by me or her boyfriend, is "fuzzy handcuffs".

From the start she was a very willing subject so getting her into a light trance was not hard.  From there a series of deepening techniques and tests to see how well she was responding were applied - iirc I used "forgetting the number six" and "believing that your name has always been Bob".  Once I was satisfied with that I removed said suggestions and installed triggers to wake her up and return her to hypnosis on command.  These were tested and she was brought down to a deep level once again.  Finally I spent about a half an hour getting her to experience more and more pleasure, tying that pleasure to obediance and desire to follow more suggestions.  Once I felt I'd done enough of that I denied her orgasm and brought her up beyond the level of arousal that would normally cause a climax.  I told her to remember with perfect clarity this feeling and to understand that when I or her boyfriend (and no one else) said "fuzzy handcuffs" she would instantly return to this state of arousal and have an earth-shattering climax.  I had her repeat the instructions and then told her that if she accepted this suggestion she could come now.  She did so I brought her out of hypnosis.  We talked for about 5 minutes about her experience and then went on a walk around some tourist areas here in Vancouver.  I must have said "fuzzy handcuffs" about 20 times and every single time she instantly developed the most adorable blush and grabbed my shoulder.

I wonder how long she waited between getting home and telling her boyfriend about the magic phrase.

I should point out that hypnosis is not something to try if there is any possibility that either party is irresponsible.  If your brain is like a computer then a hypnotist is a bit like a hacker.  Would you let just anyone hack your brain?  I would not hypnotise anyone who is

- under the age of consent
- intoxicated
- pregnant
- diagnosed with a serious mental issue (schizophrenic, bipolar, etc)

Of course, I would not attempt it on anyone while *I* am intoxicated.  This really sucks because I usually find out there's a willing female about 4 beers into the festivities.  Curses!

If you are in the Vancouver, Canada area and would like to find out if you are a good subject then feel free to PM me.

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RE: Orgasm on cue? - 6/5/2007 6:16:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Is this sort of thing possible with male submissives?  Admittedly, I ask not out of idle curiosity...*smiles*

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