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sublizzie -> RE: Gay Fantasies (6/1/2007 9:58:21 AM)

I have fantasies that I would *never* want to follow through on. They are fun to explore in my head but the idea of actually doing them makes me gag.

Some fantasies are just fantasies like some cigars are just cigars. If you want to experiment, then do so. If you don't want to try to make your fantasy real, then don't. Some things are more fun as a fantasy then as reality.

Just my thoughts.......



Teachme59 -> RE: Gay Fantasies (6/1/2007 1:38:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Faramir

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ORIGINAL: Teachme59

I joined the Marine Corps and volunteered for forced recon all to prove my manhood to myself. It did not help…. the feelings continued to come.


"Forced" recon??  Was that some kind of Freudian slip, perchance?  Suddenly I wonder at all the possibilities "ARS" might an acronym for...


Hi Faramir

Force Reconnaissance is a Special Forces unit… although I lasted only long enough to fracture a hip…too bad helicopters can’t glide….lol
No Freudian slip there… my unconscious mind says….”Kill all who oppose me” ...lots of possibilities there.

Butch



Faramir -> RE: Gay Fantasies (6/1/2007 2:04:24 PM)

No, Force Reconnaissance is not a special forces unit--the US Army, as part of SOC, fields Special Forces teams, whose primary mission are unconventional warfare, counter-terrorism and direct action, and while they have an intelligence mission, theirs is a specialized intelligence mission.

Force Reconnaissance on the other hand has a primary mission of deep battle space intelligence gathering and shaping for the Force.  While there is a small overlap, in that FR has a seconadary, limited set of DA missions, FR and USASF are differnet beasts, in that one is special operations capable, but the other is a special force.

The part where you didn't catch the ARS reference (anyone who had the 0321 MOS would have) makes me wonder if you aren't bullshitting.

I was an 0311 and an 1802 later--meat and potatoes service.  It's funny how almost everyone who makes reference to their Marince Corps Service was a recon bubbah--1st and 2d Recon must have been way bigger units than I knew.



losttreasure -> RE: Gay Fantasies (6/1/2007 2:42:31 PM)

Scotland,

I am going to throw some questions out... no need to respond.  These are simply fuel for thought.  Make of them what you will.

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ORIGINAL: scotland

...I usually imagine myself submitting. This is something that I think most people I know would be surprised by.


Why?

To those who know you, do you typically project a dominant male image?

Your profile says that you've not yet identified your role...

Does the idea of dominating hold any fascination for you?

If so, do you ever imagine yourself in a dominant role with another man?

Do you in any way equate submissiveness in a male with weakness?

You don't express any opinion on heterosexual relationships...

Have you ever been strongly sexually attracted to women?

Have you recently lost any sexual interest in women?

Are you more comfortable with male sexuality than female?

Do you fantasize about men outside of any BDSM context?

Does the idea of having a vanilla sexual relationship with a man interest you?

Does the idea of having a BDSM relationship with a woman interest you?

If so, what role would you be more comfortable in?






scotland -> RE: Gay Fantasies (6/4/2007 4:12:34 PM)

Hi TeachMe59,
I found your response to be very illuminating since you have experienced a similar feeling. I was wondering if you are sub or dom. The reason being is that I often think about being submissive, which is very embarassing for me to finally admit to. It has always seemed to me that this isn't the guys role. Hence submitting to a man is even more embarassing for me. I too have experienced much guilt with all of this and have often times just hoped it would go away.

Also, how did you finally decide to go through with the act when you did.
many thanks,
S



scotland -> RE: Gay Fantasies (6/4/2007 4:24:18 PM)

Hi losttreasure,

Thanks for you response. Let me try to reply to all of your questions.

I am probably pretty neutral in most of my life, but nobody would ever say I was submissive in my everyday life. I am one to call "bullshit" in day to day events, which some people my take as more dominant.

>>Does the idea of dominating hold any fascination for you?
Sometimes, but rarely when I think of men.

>>Do you in any way equate submissiveness in a male with weakness?
Yes, I suppose it does seem that way in my mind right now. Of course I know from my recent readings that most of you will disagree with that in general.

>>Have you ever been strongly sexually attracted to women?
Yes, growing up it is what I usually thought about.

>>Have you recently lost any sexual interest in women?
Some yes, which is annoying.

>>Are you more comfortable with male sexuality than female?
I'm not sure exactly what this means. However, if I were in a sexual encounter with a man, I would be far more nervous than with a woman.


>>Do you fantasize about men outside of any BDSM context?
Sometimes yes.

>>Does the idea of having a vanilla sexual relationship with a man interest you?
Only if nobody ever knew.

>>Does the idea of having a BDSM relationship with a woman interest you?
Sure, I have given it much thought.

>>If so, what role would you be more comfortable in?
Undecided since they would both be new experiences.
thanks,
S



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Gay Fantasies (6/4/2007 4:25:25 PM)

i have lesbian fantasies...me waking up one day as a female and having constant lesbian sex...does that count?



DrkJourney -> RE: Gay Fantasies (6/4/2007 4:31:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

i have lesbian fantasies...me waking up one day as a female and having constant lesbian sex...does that count?


Michael Michael Michael...[sm=biggrin.gif]



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Gay Fantasies (6/4/2007 5:52:15 PM)

yessssssssssssss?




Elorin -> RE: Gay Fantasies (6/4/2007 6:08:11 PM)

I can relate and I can't.
When I first encountered ageplay I was entirely turned off. Disgusted, repulsed, violently opposed to the entire concept. Especially if it involved any sexual play whatsoever. I could ALMOST wrap my head around it being ok for other people  to engage in calling someone Daddy and doing spankings over clothing, but it certainly wasn't ok for me.

But when I came around to engaging in age play it didn't start with fantasies. It started with a lover of mine being overprotective and nurturing. One day I responded with "Yes Daddy...thank you." and it opened up a huge bag of worms. Which led to us engaging in age play.

To this day, I don't fantasize about it. But then, I've never had a very active fantasy life, ever. I do, however, understand how you can end up looking to something that once completely disgusted you and suddenly enjoy it.

~E



ChgoFacilitator -> RE: Gay Fantasies (6/5/2007 4:09:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I have fantasies about gay women all the time.
Butt, do women have gay fantasies about you?



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