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mons -> niece has stole saving bonds (5/30/2007 1:51:11 AM)

greeting to all

i need some help as i mention before my brother die and my niece was taking care of him well she sure did. she took all of his thing his wife ring off her finger and then open my check that came to his place . then she told my sister my bond which he had so many ib hs place and she place them in the mail last tuseday we live in the same city blocks aways from him but no bonds have turn up . what is my next step. i am not a fighter i am not like her. i think and i have been have such a hard time. it is so hard to believe the things she has donne she stole the money from the funeral home that was collected for the family. i try not to think of it but today was and yesterday was so hard

i was so close to this girl this is why this happen i did not watch out for me so help anyone who has knowledge on what i will do . i next step is the police no one steal from me no one . i am his benefistaray and i am sick just sick i wish i never saw anymoney my family is acting like animals

thank so please any help will do and how to i conact the us saving bond to report this
mons



Vendaval -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (5/30/2007 1:54:35 AM)

Mons, please talk to the local police and get an attorney. 
This situation is only going to get worse and she will use
up all of his cash and valuables and then disappear.



Daughtry -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (5/30/2007 3:35:42 AM)

The first few times you asked this question, the answers were quite polite.  Apparently you disregarded them.  However, it doesn't change the answer. 

YOU NEED A LAWYER.

A BDSM chat site is not the place to seek an answer to the question you have.  This is the place to seek BDSM related advice.

By the way, if you start a new post in a new section next week asking what to do about this situation, do you know what the answer is going to be?

YOU NEED A LAWYER.




Aileen68 -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (5/30/2007 3:39:19 AM)

Soooo...you think she should get a lawyer?  [:D]



smilezz -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (5/30/2007 5:23:31 AM)

Good morning mons,

I am sorry to hear that this is STILL going on for you. 
You have been given some sound advice over the last week or so, it seems that you really should follow through with it.  If you do nothing about it, there is no reason to offer anymore advice.   Sometimes the hard decisions are the toughest choices, the ball is in YOUR court now.

Good luck,
~smilezz~



pahunkboy -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (5/30/2007 7:35:58 AM)

my 2 cents.

ppl always fight when a death in the family occurrs.

take ur lumps.  in one regard- a torn family isnt worth it.

ive seen this type of thing over and over. this is nothing good that comes....

just another perspective.   monetary things come and go- bur family is forever.



mons -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (5/31/2007 2:17:25 AM)

greeting daughtery and smilez

i just saw the report of the man who have tb, that is no bdsm related at all. yes i do need a lawyer but i thought it would be okay to come to ask some of you where i would go to trace this bonds . i am not a person who takes thing ligthly. and if i can not get the answer here. i will ask someone else . yes the ball is in my court i just lost my brother my pain is well bad. what a mess i have i come to a place wherei thought someone would know where i could get answer.

now i had been ill so i was unable to get online for almost a week do not think i did not listen to all the advice i just have gotten on line this morning so i will read al of the advice. both of you should have just a little kindness i would hate for someone to pass om your family. he just pass this month so have just a bit of kindness i am so fucking tired and just wore down i just ask for help you both have shown a lack of manners. i will do ask you both said and take care of this i am a strong woman i just in grief righ now excuse my bad word it not to you both

mons thsnk all the advice is great



smilezz -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (5/31/2007 3:44:42 AM)

Good morning mons,

I am sorry to hear that you were ill.  You took that whole post way out of proportion, i was not bashing your situation in any way.  As far as manners and kindness go, i will chalk your ill-mannered comment up to the fact that you have been feeling ill, you have lost your brother. 

I hope you feel better...

~smilezz~




mons -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (5/31/2007 4:04:57 AM)

greeting daughtery

you mus never had someone you love die it is a experince that you will remmber for the rest of your life. the changes =your mind goes through is a nightmare. you can not remember what day it is and when that person spoke to you two days before then you wonder what happen? then his body is taken to the morge and left there jus the thought of your loved one in that place is enough to make you throwup. he was found laying face down so as many know he was all mess up in the face. i would never want anyone to expericne this,. i never disregard the rplies that were sent to me i am still in shock stil grieving for someone i love.this is to let you know that i would not ask for help and then turn my back on it i had to go to a funeral and just sit through a nightmare , my brother for reason i do not know never told many people he had twins sisters but he left me lifr insurnce who knows what he was thinking no i never did anything to him. so i have no one to comfort me it is just me and mu son and mu twin and her two childern , no has call to ask how we are . no one has even come to help. so daughtry i did just leave all of the replis , i hope to god you never fgo throught this, i think either you very young or you have never had death come to visit, never jugde for you will be judge. i would not ever assume anything sbout a person . until you know the whole story.

now i will get a attorney and call the police but please remmeber this tomorrow is not promise to anyone or any family member. i hope this never happening to you it is somethingout of out a bad nightmare
this was not written to you or anyone who reads it as a way of asking for pity it is to show you the thing i had to do . i respect all people here you to so do not take this as an attack on you

mons



Daughtry -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (5/31/2007 4:20:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mons

i just saw the report of the man who have tb, that is no bdsm related at all.


No doubt if he were to post I have TB and were told go to the doctor, and ignored that advice for a few weeks, he would get about the same reception. 

You got an answer, repeatedly.  I gave you the same advice as krys a few weeks ago, in more polite terms.  You ignored it then.  I know its hard to deal with the practicalities of life in times like this, but if you keep putting it off, it will reach a point where it is too late.  You need a professional who is not emotionally involved to take over these hard fact practicalities so you can deal with your own grief and not powers of attorney and bonds, etc.  I'm not being unkind in telling you that.  Perhaps when things are feeling better, you will remember that its not good manners to lash back at those that try to help you. 

If what you actually are seeking here is love and affection, that say so.  There is no need to couch it in "I dont know what to do" posts over and over again.  But in the meantime, do what is necessary both to protect yourself and to free you up to deal with the emotional side of your brother's death and get a lawyer.





dawntreader -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (5/31/2007 8:57:41 AM)

mons,
 
i too sympathize with your position and your pain but surely you must realize no one here can help you...this is a real life legal issue that needs addressing with authorities not an alternative sex message board.



MistressNoName -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (5/31/2007 9:27:14 AM)

mons,

I'm sorry to hear about your troubles. I do hope by now you have at the least made a police report. And yes, I'm going to agree with others who have advised you to seek a lawyer. Well, that is, IF this is important enough a matter for you. Because understand, this is going to be a fight. And only you can decide whether you are up for it.

But you're going to also have to deal with the fact that it sucks big time to have a family member steal from you and hurt you so deeply. I have a niece who stole from me, twice and I had to file police reports, twice. It was a pain in the neck and hurt me to my heart to have to do this, but it was absolutely the right thing to have done and necessary. You're going to have to figure out how to deal with your feelings on this in order to act in an effective way.

Best to you,

MNN



mons -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (6/1/2007 3:39:57 AM)

greeting daughtry

i have taken steps to contact the teasurety dpeartemnt and i can not remember what you told me . this is becasue i was in shock. no i would not ever give up the good adive you give me, i did not just look at and say oh hell bell it not good. daughtry i have the shock of my life. now i have a person who is acting like a nut with my things your cold i hope to good you do not lose anyone , it can be the worse moment in you life, this is how she got my things i was not thinking right i was worried and lost for sometime about my brother. i thank you for your advice and i will do what everyone has told me here . the advice is sound and good but lightne up daughtry lfe is so short we all assume ai sm fallin ssleep at the computor imust go take care

mons life is not promise to us i know this now (excuse my wrting so damn tired )



domiguy -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (6/1/2007 11:49:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: dawntreader

mons,
 
i too sympathize with your position and your pain but surely you must realize no one here can help you...this is a real life legal issue that needs addressing with authorities not an alternative sex message board.


Last time I come out here to get a recipe for chicken soup....That Astroglide tastes like shit.



minnetar -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (6/1/2007 4:56:33 PM)

mons,
get yourself well first and then worry about this mess.  i am here for you anytime you feel like talking.

minnetar



mons -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (6/2/2007 5:36:34 AM)

minnetar greetings

i have taken the steps to conact the treasury department they have taken her name and will regave me the bonds back and she my niece has take the steps to tell my sister in law that she is not leaving without money this is from the 41k which is a good amount of money so we are getting toghter with my sister in law to stop her my niece has lost it she is scaring this woman so bad the police willl be call and we willl leave with nothing but what she came with her childerd and the clothes on her back, daughty and all thank you so i am calm now and just move on with this but thank all of you so much.
minnetar i wil welcome you help

mons [&:]



dawntreader -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (6/2/2007 9:24:08 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

quote:

ORIGINAL: dawntreader

mons,
 
i too sympathize with your position and your pain but surely you must realize no one here can help you...this is a real life legal issue that needs addressing with authorities not an alternative sex message board.


Last time I come out here to get a recipe for chicken soup....That Astroglide tastes like shit.


Well, over on the dog thread there are some good wine reccomendations for corgi! LOL! If the corgi tastes bad - you could drink enough wine not to worry about it!



FatDomDaddy -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (6/2/2007 9:34:07 AM)

If you did down into this you will probably find a hidden drug addiction.



mons -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (6/3/2007 2:51:06 AM)

greetings

there are so many who know so much here and i came her for that reason, now i have a major problem i must put my niece in jail she had gone to far. ,y brother wife is from another country. she will get his 41k and it could be alot of money my niece had made it a point to tell her she the wofe is not really a citizen and i can not believe what she is doing. she had told her she is not leaving ca without some money. the trusted her and learn a lesson a hard on so now we m =y twin and their family must fight her and not ler her steal this woman money. i think my niece had lost her mind as you know she stole my bonds how ,many i do not know but i reprort her so now we we put our head togeher and have her arressted i do thank all who give me help now the police must come into it i will not let her steal a woman and a family who treated my brother so well they are so kind and she thinks she is to get something i got the insurance ans she got nothing i feel nothing for her, she had shamed this family steal from kind people and she wants big money so that is it for now i will not let her do this, she had done this 3 times to my sister who passed away to my father and who know who else she has taken money from wish me lucl i wil stop her everyone

mons ( she has this woman muy brother wife so frighten she would had given her anything to leave her alone ) take care all and yes i know i need to go to the police and i will i will keep you posted



mons -> RE: niece has stole saving bonds (6/5/2007 3:06:28 AM)

greeting to all

i want to thank you all for you timely advice. i have taken the steps tpo make dure she will not recive mail at mu brother old apartmet i have called te treausy dpeatpart went to teh bank and wrote all of ther office that handle my brother things. i just can not beviele this is the person i talk to for years.

now she is going after my brother very shy wife for the 41k she told her i am not leaing her wwith =out mony this time  i wil step in and make sure she does not do what she had done to her mother my father i am seeing now she hangs around anyone ill and when they go she come and clean ou the place , this time my twin and i and the police will stop her i do not need a lawery for this one

thank you all and smilezz yes i am calm person losing a love one can make you change so fast take care alll of uyou and warm wishes to all

mons ( this has made mad stronger )



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