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RE: The Feeldoe - 7/9/2007 8:18:59 AM

MySweetSubmssive

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I love being able to have a cock without all the straps and harnesses. I agree on the skin on skin contact. It was an oddly transparent experience, and having someone go down on me was exciting and amusing.

That said, here were the downsides for me:

The cock was too small! (size queen, I know) The issue here might be that I'm BBW, and so the cock seemed smaller because of chubbage. I actually heard myself say in disappointment, to my submissive, "You're *bigger* than meeeeeeee." We both laughed at that one!

I tried fucking someone from behind, with him bent over the back of a couch, and the angle of the cock was not so good. Fantasy and reality collided on that one. It may be that a different position would work better (haven't tried it yet). A more horizontal erection would work better. There was also a little "slippage" in terms of keeping the feeldoe in place, though practice might have improved that (or as my 7th grade band director used to say, "Perfect practice makes perfect." Heh.)

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RE: The Feeldoe - 7/9/2007 9:00:38 AM

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I have not tried a feeldoe yet.

A Mistress who was a substantial citizen had some of the angle of attack problems mentioned above, and often opted to do her penetrations by hand held dildoes. She and I both enjoyed the incredible energy rush as much or more than the penetration.

Another former partner wanted size both for giving and getting. The answer was to get a nicely sized gel double dildoe and adapt a tight pair of panties to hold it.

A hole is cut in the front of the panty, then the edge is doubled over around the hole for strength. I set eyelets all around the central hole and threaded a sturdy cord through them.

Mistress inserts her end of the dildoe as Pleases Her, then She or I tie the cord firmly around the shaft, pulling all the eyelets toward each other. This allows Her to penetrate anywhere She Pleases, with the shaft held in place in Her and in Her victim.. Another benefit is that the center of the shaft is pressed up against Her clit by the panty so She can really have Herself a time if She chooses!

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RE: The Feeldoe - 7/9/2007 11:58:41 AM

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there's also this ingenious little thing that allows one to couple any two dildos that might like:
http://store.babeland.com/harnesses-thigh-more/coupler

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RE: The Feeldoe - 7/9/2007 12:21:23 PM

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I have the purple and black ones. I know black is stout but I can't recall if purple is slim or standard.

Either way, I found I couldn't wear it while fucking a guy who was facing away from me, leaned over a spanking bench or couch while I was standing. The angle was wrong. I haven't tried using it on a guy facing up with his legs over my shoulders while I stand.

I do LOVE the bulb, it makes for a great handle for the dildo when I'm hand fucking someone w/ a dildo.

Now, with women, face to face tummy to tummy, lovemaking it is hot hot hot hot hot for me. Whether it is inserted vaginally or anally or one of each. Same goes for tummy to back love play.

I guess it's just when using it with me vertical and him horizontal that I had problems with it. So it works for me to use with lovers, but not as a power exchange device, unless I'm using it by hand.

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