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LafayetteLady -> Has anyone ever had this happen? (5/28/2007 12:13:21 AM)
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I recently had a "play date". This is not something I indulge in often as it only fufills momentary needs as opposed to long term.
Anyway, this is someone I had played with in the past, and during that time, there were moments when he was not as "cautious" (for lack of a better term) as he should have been. The play involved anal fisting, something that when done correctly, I am quite fond of.
During discussions about this, I explained that it is something that must be done very carefully, using copious amounts of lubrication and works best when the "fistee" is very aroused. Even under ideal circumstances, anal fisting may be a bit uncomfortable, but under NO circumstances should it result in any bleeding.
Well, play time begins, and first there is play with butt plugs. Initially, he thought he wouldn't use lubrication on the plug, and submissive/bottom (whatever one cares to call someone during a "playdate") or not, I told him he had two choices, use lube or watch me walk out the door. The ultimatum, while not making him happy, did make him comply.
Quickly after very little plug play, he decided to move on to his true desire to fist my ass. I was about aroused as someone sitting in a dentist's chair. Immediately I could tell that he had either been stingy with the lube or used none on his hand. I told him to stop. Not the "oh please sir, no, stop" kind of stop, but the I am no longer the least bit submissive stop. He didn't stop. I, again, louder, demanded that he stop and squirmed to get his hand (however much he managed to get in there) out. This stupid fool then attempted to pin me down!
This man is quite a bit larger than I am, but adrenaline being such a wonderful thing, I got him off of me, loudly reminded him that I said stop and proceeded to punch him, pretty hard, right in the face.
I'm not asking anyone to tell me whether I was right or wrong. Nor do I want to hear why I gave someone a second chance who I questioned to begin with. I just want to know has anyone ever encountered such an experience before?
By the way, before anyone starts with safety issues and what not, there were several people who knew where I was, safety calls were set up, etc.
I have never hit anyone in my entire life, have always managed to let my words handle any issues. But I must say I am pretty proud of myself for actually turning around and punching the guy. When I called my primary safety call person and told them what happened, he asked if I slapped him. I think he nearly peed himself when I said, no I punched him in the face (he knows my views on things like that).
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